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 第 8504 条留言  昵称:卑落  主题:无题
 留言内容:
  感觉心理咨询站的老师都特别有爱心,特
别乐观。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!你的感受准确。心理咨询中心的老师一方面要接纳你们所有的任何不愉快,另一方还要把阳光撒进你们的心里,爱是做好心理咨询的基础,爱也是教育的秘密,但愿我们的爱能够化解你们的烦恼,给你们阳光温暖,照耀你们前行的路!

    [回复]      222.161.208.* 留言者IP: 222.161.208.*    发表于:2014年5月30日17:03:44

 第 8503 条留言  昵称:玉箫  主题:何来自信
 留言内容:
  我不明白人哪来的那么多自信,明明自己不如别人还非逞强。明明别人觉得她堕落到没有尊严,她却引以为豪。我不明白人为什么那么自以为是,自己专业课不好抱怨人家公司苛刻。自己相貌平平却嫌别人影响市容,自己垃圾到处扔还嫌宿舍学校食堂不干净。每天上午睡到十点钟,起来打扮一下去吃饭,回来接着午睡,下午四五点起来玩电脑,吃吃饭看电影半夜不睡觉看娱乐节目。每天觉得自己很不错啊。虽然只是一小部分人是这样的,可我身边却出现两三个。我接受不了哦
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!理解你的感受。 你不喜欢这样的人是客观事实,想想看,你能改变了吗? 如果改变不了别人,那我们该怎么办呢? 人生需要多种能力,其中有一种:学会和自己不喜欢的人相处。 慢慢来,把注意力放在自己的事情上就会降低给自己带来的不适感,试试吧! 祝开心!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2014年5月29日11:25:12

 第 8502 条留言  昵称:学生  主题:难过
 留言内容:
  老师好,我是一名大四的学生,本来已经要参加我们当地的事业单位考试,可是又要参加公六考试,时间只差一天,我到底该怎么办?好难过啊???怎么这么不顺啊……
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!这样的冲突大概每个人都会遇到吧。如果离“当地”不远,和家长沟通一下,能否考完六级就用车接回;如果来不及,那想想看六级和事业单位的招考哪个更重要对你来说,选择你觉得最重要的。你说呢,祝好运!

    [回复]      111.206.50.* 留言者IP: 111.206.50.*    发表于:2014年5月29日10:17:31

 第 8501 条留言  昵称:广岛阑珊  主题:云淡风轻
 留言内容:
  呵呵,老师好像误会了呢,我们都还没成家,只是我在接受一个接一个的相亲,他在读研,老师看过前任攻略不,有时候很奇怪,明明在所有人甚至当事人都觉得应该在一起的两个人,最后却阴差阳错渐渐成为两条平行线,可能当初两个人都很傲气吧
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!经历了以后才会明白一些事情。不过,人有时往往会把得不到的东西想的特别美好,你可以问问身边爱的死去活来的人真正地走到一起生活的真实感受。 我们中国人讲究个缘分,没有缘分就走不到一起。 无论和谁在一起生活,都需要用心经营才能过好家庭生活。 友情也是人生的美好感情,你说呢! 祝开心愉快!

    [回复]      60.223.18.* 留言者IP: 60.223.18.*    发表于:2014年5月27日9:31:26

 第 8500 条留言  昵称:201405  主题:追逐自己的爱
 留言内容:
  老师,给你们填了好多的麻烦,谢谢你!我会注意自己的语言和行为,适当地陪护她,让她自己去疗伤!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!不客气!帮助你们解决困惑是我们的责任!

    [回复]      183.189.96.* 留言者IP: 183.189.96.*    发表于:2014年5月26日17:08:59

 第 8499 条留言  昵称:56  主题:第一份工作
 留言内容:
  老师,想问一下,依您的经验,刚毕业选择第一份工作的时候,是不是应该考虑工作地点的偏僻、在村里,这些条件呢?如果第一份工作在一个比较偏的地方,以后会有哪些方面的问题存在(主要是对于自身的发展方面)?
谢谢老师!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗目前工作难找,我主张先就业,再择业。这样的话,第一份工作没必要考虑那么多。如从发展的角度来说,农村或偏僻的地方,多少会影响一些,但不会影响太大。你可权衡利弊。我建议你还是先就业的好。

    [回复]      100.100.9.* 留言者IP: 100.100.9.*    发表于:2014年5月26日8:38:02

 第 8498 条留言  昵称:201405  主题:追逐自己的爱
 留言内容:
  老师,谢谢你!我会像大哥哥一样真诚地去关心呵护她,让她坚强起来。但,我能感受到这次对她的伤害很大,每天晚上她自己一个人在悄悄地哭,白天魂不守舍的,还在赌气似地说不找对象,因为这是以前她对男孩的承诺。自从她向我诉说了这一切,虽然我俩天天在一起,可明显感觉话变得少了。面对着她,我知道我自己不需过多的表达,可到晚上,煎熬是前所未有的。好难啊,现在的我怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!她有你这样的朋友真好!快乐着她的快乐,痛苦着她的痛苦。  陪伴有时是给朋友最好的礼物。虽然你现在看到她痛苦的样子很难受,但人的自我平衡能力是很强大的,多数人遇到痛苦的时候都能自我调节的。  痛苦\挫折也是人走向成熟的台阶,过了这段时间就会好起来的,你只需要适当地陪伴就可以了。还得给她留下独处的时间,好让她自己疗伤。 你说呢!

    [回复]      183.189.98.* 留言者IP: 183.189.98.*    发表于:2014年5月25日10:30:28

 第 8497 条留言  昵称:异国  主题:
 留言内容:
  舍友老爱去上网,我又不想去,但他们有老爱拉我,觉得拒绝他们不好,我该怎么办
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗告诉他们,你此时有重要的事情要做。或者直接告诉他们,你对上网不感兴趣,他们会理解的。毕竟强人所难是不道德的。

    [回复]      100.100.11.* 留言者IP: 100.100.11.*    发表于:2014年5月24日11:11:57

 第 8496 条留言  昵称:yui  主题:这就是大学恋情吗?
 留言内容:
  张老师,您是张老师对吧?张老师您好。我和男友结识不到半个月,之前也没有过太多的接触,应该算是速成吧。算了,这些都无关紧要,关键是当下。正常的情侣关系都是循序渐进的吧,可是我认为他实在是操之过急了,甚至可以说是过分!他的行为让我对他的好感度持续降低,甚至认为他找对象只是为了满足欲望。我感到纠结和耻辱。一个巴掌拍不响,也可能是我不太懂得拒绝,但是我真的感觉到恶心。我真的不懂这些男生的心里是怎么想的,还是因为我太天真,以为大学恋情可以像柏拉图恋爱一样要求更多精神上的共鸣。请老师答疑解惑,不胜感激!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!不是张老师,我们现在有分工了,这个月他不回复。看了你的留言,理解你的苦衷。有些事情不是我们自己所能左右的,但只要我们参与就得承担责任。虽然谈恋爱是两个人的事情,但我们完全可以在这个过程中把握好自己。如果一时糊涂了,但以后的路还很长,如果你觉得不合适了,可以找个合适的方式拒绝。恋爱也是每个人的权利,没有必要让自己窝囊一辈子。表达的方式要让对方能接受,既不要伤害自己,也不要伤害对方。 祝开心!

    [回复]      111.206.118.* 留言者IP: 111.206.118.*    发表于:2014年5月23日10:30:03

 第 8495 条留言  昵称:哈尔好  主题:我只是路过 打个酱油
 留言内容:
  我只是路过 打个酱油
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,祝一切顺利!

    [回复]      100.100.12.* 留言者IP: 100.100.12.*    发表于:2014年5月22日20:56:05

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