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 第 8246 条留言  昵称:2222  主题:1111
 留言内容:
  和舍友之间出了点问题,怎么修复呢???老师,一个人怎么就能做到自尊呢。我怎么老感觉,好多人一看我长相,就知道我是个老实人。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!与人发生点矛盾是正常的事情。从这几个方面努力一下:第一,站在对方的角度想想看,如果是你你会怎样。第二、想想对方为什么会这样,他的生活经历造成了他处理问题的方式方法和我们不一样,可以原凉吗?第三,吵架能解决问题吗,以后还是同学,怎么相处? 学会与不喜欢的人交往是每个大学生必须要学习的一个能力! 慢慢来,相信你会好起来的!

    [回复]      10.1.9.* 留言者IP: 10.1.9.*    发表于:2013年5月22日16:17:31

 第 8245 条留言  昵称:初夏  主题:每年积极分子什么时候考试
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  积极分子每年什么时候考试
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗详情请咨询组织部呗?.而且一般也不能确定具体的日期,需要根据具体情况而决定,你说呢?

    [回复]      221.204.214.* 留言者IP: 221.204.214.*    发表于:2013年5月22日13:03:23

 第 8244 条留言  昵称:初夏  主题:每年积极分子什么时候考试
 留言内容:
  积极分子每年什么时候考试
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!具体的时间由组织部根据学院的工作情况确定,你可以联系组织部的工作人员了解一下。祝好运!

    [回复]      221.204.214.* 留言者IP: 221.204.214.*    发表于:2013年5月22日13:02:57

 第 8243 条留言  昵称:学生  主题:大学生恋爱
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  〖版主回复〗一方面、学习和谈恋爱并不必然冲突,如果你真的想谈,也不妨试试,这么支持学生谈恋爱啊!!!!!!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗 这不是在倡导,而是因人而异地帮助同学解决问题,这样回复也是有前提条件的,你应该先把学生留的问题看一下,再来评价回复内容,好吗?

    [回复]      10.1.15.* 留言者IP: 10.1.15.*    发表于:2013年5月21日19:50:17

 第 8242 条留言  昵称:黑夜  主题:Friengships
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  有时候真的很想占有一个人,他是我的好兄弟。我并不是说,我不要让他有任何其他的朋友。只是他跟别的人在一起的时候,心里有点伤心,感觉到自己被忽略了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵.你真有意思,男人嘛!还这样?   他固然是你的好兄弟,但你不会只有一个好兄弟,他也不仅仅有你一个好兄弟,所以不是忽略,而是社会交往、交际的必然!    没关系,过段时间就好了,有空来这里说说,呵呵,拜拜

    [回复]      10.10.66.* 留言者IP: 10.10.66.*    发表于:2013年5月18日9:17:02

 第 8241 条留言  昵称:珙怅钰妏  主题:迷茫
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  老师,我跟我男朋友已经分手了3个多月
了,可是我现在还是忘不了他,老是想
他。。。他已经不上学了,我还在大
二,因为家里逼他结婚,而且我们离得
很远,所以分手了,我们很相爱,我不
知道自己该不该再去找他,让他等我。
。。每次想起他,心都憋的慌,我不想
要这样了,可是我该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗 对你们的感情不了解,我就谈一下自己的想法,我个人认为 如果真的相爱,距离不是问题,家人逼结婚,这或许是借口,如果你爱的他有主见就会等你,如果事实是这样的话你就寻找你新的幸福吧;当然,或许人家是真的有苦衷,毕竟不能让父母对自己的期盼等太久,如果你们非常相爱,你也可以再认真考虑一下,看看他的态度如何?*

    [回复]      10.1.108.* 留言者IP: 10.1.108.*    发表于:2013年5月16日19:46:55

 第 8240 条留言  昵称:  主题:
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  老师 系统进不去 我也不知道发了几 次,添乱啦
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗可能是出什么故障了,也可能是你进的时间不对,多进几次试试!*

    [回复]      221.204.217.* 留言者IP: 221.204.217.*    发表于:2013年5月16日16:15:43

 第 8239 条留言  昵称:多元  主题:多元
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  你好,老师。有一些问题想咨询。我男的,有个对象,在我自己看来,大学生谈恋爱很正常,出去玩也正常,出去玩的时候住的一块也似乎是正常吧???!!!发生身体接触也是很可能的,或是不可避免的(也就是亲和摸)。但有一点不清楚,难道是90后的特点吗,她要我和她做。。。 。我不知道她怎么想的,什么都无所谓吗,他是女的,我男的,在在一块我怕真把她吃了,我就疯了。她父母不知道我的存在,我已经把她带回家见过我父母了,哎。难到现在的恋爱男女发生关系很正常吗?真不知道现在的女的。。。

老师,宿舍怎么会分派啊,氛围不和谐,居然奥矛盾 打架,身为宿舍老大,有点难办,因为还有以后几十年,将来还要回忆的。。。。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!你反映的问题比较复杂。首先:男人比女人理智,在男女交往的活动中,男人承担着更多的责任,不伤害对方,也不伤害自己。其次:即便是对方的要求,我们也得保持理智。第三,我们尊重每个人的权利,但这样的女孩以后能否遵守妇道,维护家庭的稳定,值得考虑。 青年男女的恋爱有时候会产生冲动,但人是有理性的,每个人都应该对自己有所约束,否则,造成的痛苦可能会陪伴我们一生。 寝室里的同学发生矛盾是正常的事情,但作为有文化的大学生应该理性,平和地对待这些事情。打架不仅不能解决问题,反而使矛盾更加激化。 多一点理解,多一点包容,事情就过去了。同学关系也是一种缘分,珍惜才能体验到更多的幸福!

    [回复]      221.204.217.* 留言者IP: 221.204.217.*    发表于:2013年5月16日16:05:32

 第 8238 条留言  昵称:海马  主题:目标
 留言内容:
  老师我发现我就没目标有,每天看似很忙,但是心里很空洞哦,该怎么办啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗漫无目的的忙,意义不大,你可以暂时歇下来,好好想清楚你的忙碌是为了什么,没有目标就为自己定一个目标,想象念大学为了什么,你自己内心想要追求什么,近一点想想在学校学到什么、毕业找什么工作,远一点想未来想要怎样的生活,为自己的人生规划一下,有了目标后再为之奋斗,或许会事半功倍!*

    [回复]      59.151.106.* 留言者IP: 59.151.106.*    发表于:2013年5月16日9:58:47

 第 8237 条留言  昵称:自信  主题:自信
 留言内容:
  以前不关注自信的问题时,不怎么在意;上大学后大家都比较注重这个问题,发现自己以前虽是有点内向的,但没有任何交际问题;现在生活圈子变小了,不像以前生活学习自动有一个小圈子,有时候有种恍如隔世的感觉,站在一个“讲台”上时表现力确实不够好,尝试过很多次,想努力做得更好,但效果不怎么样,而且机会确实不多!有时想是自己较为被动,可性子就是这样,必须得改变吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗可以不用改变吧.我以为,但是需要个过程让自己在“讲台”上表现一个更加真实的自己、更加有能力和才干的自己,你说呢?    没有关系,这样的事情,就是需要过程的,但希望你可能的话就缩短这个过程,如何?

    [回复]      60.223.224.* 留言者IP: 60.223.224.*    发表于:2013年5月15日20:04:07

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