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 第 8234 条留言  昵称:芳华绝代  主题:揪心
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  好久没来了。毕业两年了,开过年到一家外贸公司,工作的很纠结,工资按时发不了。今年8月份带我去去德国法兰克福,但是,自己心里很矛盾。一是,自己是个新人,资质不够,会惹到同事甚至领导。二是,怕给公司拿不到多少订单。但是公司逼着让去,考试催着办护照了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我的意思呢.是借着这样的机会,让自己得到提升。毕竟,我感觉你的工作还是蛮有压力和挑战性的,所以抓住机会,促成自身的飞跃,如何?    要学着激流勇进!祝福你!看好你!!

    [回复]      123.174.185.* 留言者IP: 123.174.185.*    发表于:2013年5月27日0:31:39

 第 8233 条留言  昵称:交往  主题:人际
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  老师,其实我的性格,大大咧咧,但同时又很敏感。敏感的同时我会经常告诉自己无所谓,但这样比较压抑,时间长了,确实感觉也不是办法。可是也一直没解决,我说的敏感呢,就是不太喜欢某些人说话办事风格,但我不会说什么,一个宿舍嘛!时间长了,我还没怎么着,那人倒还越来越牛气了,我想问老师,她会不会是觉得我不吭声,我好欺负,真是搞不懂!我现在出于能不理就不理的状态,就是一个宿舍抬头不见低头见,我这个人吧,还最忍受不了这种尴尬气氛,可是我是真的不想理那种人。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗依照老师的理解.每个人都有自己的秉性,所以个体差异是必然的,或许ta也有对你看不惯的方面,但总的来说,你们的本质都是没有问题,你说呢?    所以,尊重差异,求同存异,能在表面的很多方面过得去就可以了;还有就是尽量做到能理解对方的言语和行为,宽容对待在你看来对方的不足,这样时间长了,可能就好些,呵呵,你试试?    祝你处理好!开心快乐!

    [回复]      10.10.76.* 留言者IP: 10.10.76.*    发表于:2013年5月26日21:30:39

 第 8232 条留言  昵称:落落  主题:不是故事
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  老师您好,上周我刚刚答辩结束,意味着马上就毕业。
在大二那一年,遇到自己的高中同学,之前是有好感,大学里的氛围,让我有了喜欢的成分在里边,但当时并不在一个学校,理性告诉我,可行性并不大。而他也觉得是这样,毕竟异地恋还是蛮辛苦的。
之后,他有他的生活,我有我的忙碌。
只是,其实我心里一直留着一席之地为他,总以为毕业这样就会有可能。
只是,前途和感情没法抗衡,况且是没有承诺的感情。
所以,大四毕业我考了研,顺利考上。
他去工作。
一直以来,我总觉得女孩子说出喜欢这样的话,太过不矜持,也曾害怕自己的情感被看轻。
所以,就以为,我再一次毕业,这样大家都一样,大约就是可能了吧。
就在我即将答辩的一周前,他带着女朋友来玩,刚好是我所在的城市。
那一刻,心里难过的要死。
后来,我终于还是写了一些字,告诉他,这些年来,寂静又沉默对他的喜欢,以及没有说出来喜欢的原因。
他回我,丫头,抱歉。。。。
我本来想,说出来之后,我断然不会在闪现在他的生活,而我的生活,我也应该把他删除,迎接新的人出现。
只是,他说完这个抱歉,我总感觉怪怪的。而且,他一向不主动找我聊天,却是在我告诉他之后,他尽然找我聊天说话,去看我日志、相册。
我想请教老师,到底他这个抱歉是什么意思呢?我应该怎么去和他相处或者怎么更理性的看待他及自己以后的生活?谢谢老师。。。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗其实.在我看来,应该是很简单的:他应该不会是爱你的。否则不会这么多年了不说出来,而且还找了女朋友。你说呢?   好感是好感,不是爱情,你好自把握。   我的理解是这样,你好好想想?丫头……并祝你好运!

    [回复]      59.50.85.* 留言者IP: 59.50.85.*    发表于:2013年5月26日10:48:05

 第 8231 条留言  昵称:筱蠡  主题:毕业季
 留言内容:
  刚写的怎么都不见了,写了好长好长。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗那就只好麻烦你再写次了.……好像太长的话,网络中心原来有字数限制的,那可以先保存好,再试试如何?

    [回复]      202.99.197.* 留言者IP: 202.99.197.*    发表于:2013年5月25日15:57:57

 第 8230 条留言  昵称:2  主题:人际交往
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  我和两个舍友处的挺好的,铁三角的那种,因
为我们性格挺像的,但她俩都敏感,总是因为
特别小的事不说话,又都很犟,都不愿先说,
刚半年没说话,各忙各的事,好不容易好了,
又不说了,我夹在中间好难受啊,干什么都小
心翼翼的,主要是我们马上要毕业了,不想她
们就这样分开,说真的,以后见面都很难啊,
多好的友谊因为小事丢了,真的觉得不值,我
应该怎么劝她们啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗按照我原来的做法.呵呵……请参考啊。   反正快毕业了,那就再坚持一段时间,到毕业聚餐的时候,把她俩个叫到一起,共饮一杯,然后说些你的为难、她们以后好好相处的能让她们感动点的话,相信以后就好了,真的,我当年就是这么干的,效果很好的!   可以试试?

    [回复]      115.168.35.* 留言者IP: 115.168.35.*    发表于:2013年5月25日13:16:54

 第 8229 条留言  昵称:2222  主题:1111
 留言内容:
  和舍友之间出了点问题,怎么修复呢???老师,一个人怎么就能做到自尊呢。我怎么老感觉,好多人一看我长相,就知道我是个老实人。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!与人发生点矛盾是正常的事情。从这几个方面努力一下:第一,站在对方的角度想想看,如果是你你会怎样。第二、想想对方为什么会这样,他的生活经历造成了他处理问题的方式方法和我们不一样,可以原凉吗?第三,吵架能解决问题吗,以后还是同学,怎么相处? 学会与不喜欢的人交往是每个大学生必须要学习的一个能力! 慢慢来,相信你会好起来的!

    [回复]      10.1.9.* 留言者IP: 10.1.9.*    发表于:2013年5月22日16:17:31

 第 8228 条留言  昵称:初夏  主题:每年积极分子什么时候考试
 留言内容:
  积极分子每年什么时候考试
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗详情请咨询组织部呗?.而且一般也不能确定具体的日期,需要根据具体情况而决定,你说呢?

    [回复]      221.204.214.* 留言者IP: 221.204.214.*    发表于:2013年5月22日13:03:23

 第 8227 条留言  昵称:初夏  主题:每年积极分子什么时候考试
 留言内容:
  积极分子每年什么时候考试
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!具体的时间由组织部根据学院的工作情况确定,你可以联系组织部的工作人员了解一下。祝好运!

    [回复]      221.204.214.* 留言者IP: 221.204.214.*    发表于:2013年5月22日13:02:57

 第 8226 条留言  昵称:学生  主题:大学生恋爱
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  〖版主回复〗一方面、学习和谈恋爱并不必然冲突,如果你真的想谈,也不妨试试,这么支持学生谈恋爱啊!!!!!!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗 这不是在倡导,而是因人而异地帮助同学解决问题,这样回复也是有前提条件的,你应该先把学生留的问题看一下,再来评价回复内容,好吗?

    [回复]      10.1.15.* 留言者IP: 10.1.15.*    发表于:2013年5月21日19:50:17

 第 8225 条留言  昵称:黑夜  主题:Friengships
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  有时候真的很想占有一个人,他是我的好兄弟。我并不是说,我不要让他有任何其他的朋友。只是他跟别的人在一起的时候,心里有点伤心,感觉到自己被忽略了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵.你真有意思,男人嘛!还这样?   他固然是你的好兄弟,但你不会只有一个好兄弟,他也不仅仅有你一个好兄弟,所以不是忽略,而是社会交往、交际的必然!    没关系,过段时间就好了,有空来这里说说,呵呵,拜拜

    [回复]      10.10.66.* 留言者IP: 10.10.66.*    发表于:2013年5月18日9:17:02

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