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 第 9270 条留言  昵称:贾天牛  主题:就业
 留言内容:
  我是物理系的,然后喜欢学英语,想找以后用得着英语的工作,但是感觉范围也很广,不懂该怎么具体结合专业跟兴趣
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗您还 ,先好好过四六级,把知识储备好,将来可以用的方面非常多,打好基础才有更好地发展。

  994037666   [回复]      10.177.101.* 留言者IP: 10.177.101.*    发表于:2018年12月13日15:59:16

 第 9269 条留言  昵称:悠悠  主题:咨询
 留言内容:
  最近一直做噩梦,害怕会有一些不好的事发生,
很紧张害怕,无所适从
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗您好,有时间多看看书,不要去考虑哪些梦,过好每一天,相信都会好起来的。

    [回复]      1.68.82.* 留言者IP: 1.68.82.*    发表于:2018年12月12日7:02:58

 第 9268 条留言  昵称:鱼兒  主题:困惑
 留言内容:
  重修成绩还没出来怎么办,跟导员说了,也问相
关老师了,都不清楚,要怎么办,已经一学期了
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗您好,成绩没出来,赶紧去教务处查一下,别给耽误了。

  2678967697   [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2018年12月10日16:39:50

 第 9267 条留言  昵称:啦啦  主题:休学
 留言内容:
  我想休学,感觉有目标,但不知道怎么弄,休学
一年会有影响么?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗您好,老师不建议你休学,你的 目标在大学也可以实现,先把自己的学业学好,你才能用更多的时间去干其他的,要做好身边的事情,才能有更大的发展。

    [回复]      1.68.74.* 留言者IP: 1.68.74.*    发表于:2018年12月10日14:05:42

 第 9266 条留言  昵称:微尘  主题:离职转业
 留言内容:
  老师
您好!我是一名在编的高中数学老师兼班主
任。我现在发现教师再加上班主任太辛苦了。我
每天早上五点半就得到学校,晚上十一点才能
回。路上乌漆嘛黑,我还是女生,可学校从来都
不考虑这个情况。每天查寝,查吃饭,备课,作
业,教研,公开课。这么多事,月底总共就3000
多块钱。学校里的老师说我气色不好,面黄肌
瘦。我再看看学校里本本分分当了十几年,二十
几年的老师也没见过的多好!我对教师行业已经
没有激情了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗您好,这是你的一个职业迷茫期,你在做的这些都是老师的日常,每天可以起早贪黑,但是一定要有目标,你可以以模范教师的标准要求自己,好好努力,每天给自己定一个目标,这样人生就有方向了。

    [回复]      117.136.91.* 留言者IP: 117.136.91.*    发表于:2018年12月4日5:45:28

 第 9265 条留言  昵称:贾天牛  主题:就业
 留言内容:
  版主可以咨询下就业问题吗,大四面临毕业了,
有点困惑
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗可以,你说下你的具体问题和困惑。

  994037666   [回复]      117.136.91.* 留言者IP: 117.136.91.*    发表于:2018年11月27日9:04:49

 第 9264 条留言  昵称:李诺  主题:宿舍矛盾
 留言内容:
  老师您好,我是大三的一名女生。今天我想和您
说说心里话。关于我们宿舍问题太多了,最主要
的一个就是冷战,长期冷战,大家心里都隔应,
沟通无果,,后来我也不想参与了,就一个人去
教室学习,很少回宿舍,但是很明显就能感觉到
他们故意针对我,而且一个女生说实话我觉得她
挺脆弱的,让人不敢靠近,有时想跟她好好说
话,就感觉她很冲,然后气就不打一处来,忍不
了了就吵起来了,唉,我也想过换宿舍可是没有
找到,我该怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你感觉宿舍里的同学冷战,不好交往,恕我直言,这个时候还是要反思一下自己。首先要尊重他人,只有尊重别人,才能得到别人的尊重。要学会换位思考。其次,争取多沟通、多交流。矛盾、误解的出现往往在所难免,应正确面对,要主动沟通和交流,主动和解,不要让误会阻隔了同学间的友好情谊。另外,要多参加与大家的讨论与集体活动,这样才能更好地了解他人和自己,消除彼此间误会,加强相互间理解和信任。还有,要发自内心的赞美、欣赏他人,这样会给被赞誉者以欢乐,并带来积极的情绪反应。好心情会传染给周围的人,快乐可以消融人际关系的僵局,希望你能和舍友友好相处。

  2245594831   [回复]      117.136.91.* 留言者IP: 117.136.91.*    发表于:2018年11月25日7:14:52

 第 9263 条留言  昵称:啦啦啦  主题:难以忍受的味道
 留言内容:
  老师,宿舍有人有狐臭怎么办
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗首先,宿舍是一个公共的集体空间,大家都有自己应有的权利 。其次,最好学着容忍一些事情,不是有句话叫退一步海阔天空吗。最后,实在受不了的话可以去跟老师商量让她搬走。

    [回复]      36.110.141.* 留言者IP: 36.110.141.*    发表于:2018年11月22日10:22:05

 第 9262 条留言  昵称:杨帆  主题:宿舍矛盾
 留言内容:
  宿舍有一个有躁郁症心脏发育不全的,但是平时
他比我还充满活力,八百跑起来比我轻松多了,
在宿舍喜欢跟别人连麦打游戏,各种脏话,声音
也很大很烦,但是只要他准备休息或者在休息我
们一点声音都不能有,包括我晚上去上个厕所都
能骂我,每天都在挑别人的毛病,我快疯了
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗和这样的舍友相处很耗心力和体力,他自私自利,总是觉得别人都应该让着她,不愿意换位思考,反觉得自己总有道理。他这样处事的原因之一是被家人宠坏了,其中之一的特质是不懂感恩,觉得别人对自己好是理所当然,总是站在自己立场考虑问题。但你要清楚一点,他绝不是针对你,对所有人他都是以这样的方式对待。如果一定要与他打交道,其实没有必要为他的行为而痛苦仇恨,因为他只是沉浸在自己世界里,过于自我,有因必有果,也许有一天会为自己的行为买单。其实也与你无关。如果劝说有用,可以尝试,不过通常很难改变。如非不得已,尽量避免指责他的缺点,这类人容不得别人批判自己,一般不会自省,很少会改变。

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2018年11月22日8:25:28

 第 9261 条留言  昵称:彼岸  主题:交流问题
 留言内容:
  原本我还是一个脾气比较好的人,不容易随便发脾气的,但是我最近分手了,特
别容易爆发脾气,情绪还不大稳定…尤其是对离自己最近的舍友发脾气……但我
这些行为都是自己无意间的……我不知道该如何克服这些问题…
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我认为最有效的方法是:转移注意力,不搭理那些让你脾气变坏的事情。举个例子,当你跟许多人聚会的时候,某人的一些行为方式,或者是言行举止都惹怒了你,让你觉得想要发火,这时候你发脾气会影响所有人的心情,这时候,索性不理他,去做别的事情,跟其他人来聊天,转移注意力,从而控制自己的坏脾气。 另外,每当要发脾气的时候,先去想后果,然后再发脾气。尤其是在一些商业场合,随便乱发脾气,可能会导致事业的崩溃,对自己的领导,一定要克制住,记住,不想被炒鱿鱼,就不要对着上司上演你的坏脾气。再一个,对物发泄,不对人发泄。有时候,某些人真的让自己特别愤怒,已经达到了愤怒的边缘,不发泄一下,自己就会痛苦很久,这时候,不要对人发泄,当自己一个人的时候,对物发泄,狠狠地发泄自己的情绪,这能够防止自己的坏脾气不断积累,最终变得性格扭曲。还有,多跟脾气好的人在一起交流心得,向他们请教怎么控制自己的脾气,不要觉得这很鸡肋,其实这很有帮助,他们的性格会让你在其中找到平静,正所谓近朱者赤,近墨者黑。总之,强化自己,增强自己的忍耐力。每个人都会愤怒,都会有自己的脾气,坏脾气来了时,有的人意志力强一些,忍耐力强一些,能够克制住自己,所以我们平时应该多增强自己的忍耐力,多看一些书籍,提高自己的素养。

  2465692216   [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2018年11月20日16:23:28

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