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 第 7136 条留言  昵称:天空  主题:........
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  大一的生活结束了, 感觉自己都快要习惯了懒散。可是现在生活的节奏一下子加快了,真感觉自己有点力不从心。但是我不愿服输,我不愿看到水平相当的人超过我!可是真的好累,该怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗大一比较轻松,从大二开始,担子就开始重了。你要尽快从懒散中脱离出来,为自己制订行动计 划,比如,准时睡觉,按时起床,决不赖床。只要你挺过艰难的过度期,就不感觉那么难了。不服输的精神很好,但人最大的敌人是自己。战胜自己的懒散,战胜昨天的自己!只要每天都有进步,你就是最大的赢家!

    [回复]      10.14.3.* 留言者IP: 10.14.3.*    发表于:2010年10月23日15:15:58

 第 7135 条留言  昵称:冰儿  主题:明白了
 留言内容:
  老师,正如您所说的,态度决定一切,当然也决定我处理问题的方式,我会尝试着改变一下自己,在以后的日子里,我会全心的投入到学习中,尽自己最大的努力,以获取成功。谢谢老师的帮助,祝老师工作顺利,开心快乐!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗谢谢你!同样,衷心地祝福你快乐、成长!

    [回复]      10.18.0.* 留言者IP: 10.18.0.*    发表于:2010年10月22日8:43:43

 第 7134 条留言  昵称:回归  主题:情感
 留言内容:
  偶然认识了TA,现在是深深的思念,但TA有家了,但是TA对我也很好,说爱我,现在的我好矛盾,我要怎么处理这段感情?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗从语言推测,TA应该是位男士吧,而且是位在你眼里成熟的男士。一般来说,面对成熟的男士,女士都会产生倾慕之情,所以你的感觉是正常的。但是,我们不能让感觉支配了理智。他已经有了家庭,背负着深深的责任。他对你很好,他说爱你,可他承担不了对你的责任,也承担不了失去家庭的责任。因此,还是及早了断吧!这样,两个人还能作为朋友,日后回忆起来,也是一种美好的感情;继续下去,后果不堪设想。说不定,两人反目成仇,你还要背负破坏别人家庭的恶名。当断不断,反受其乱。长痛不如短痛。望好自为之!

    [回复]      183.190.146.* 留言者IP: 183.190.146.*    发表于:2010年10月21日21:44:30

 第 7133 条留言  昵称:悉达多  主题:迷茫
 留言内容:
  老师你好。我是大一新生,我满怀希望和信心来到这儿,结果发现我是多么渺小。刚来我们有老乡会,我心里暖暖的,有很多话要讲给他们,结果面对他们我又恢复了沉默,我不知道要怎么样表达自己。这又让我感觉他们疏离了我,我更不想说话了。就连老师让读课文,我课前早预习早读过几遍,我还是没办法站起。怎么办,我非常期待你的回应。谢谢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗首先欢迎你,新同学!开学一个月多了,看来你没能很好地从旧的环境里过度到新的环境。大学是一片更广阔的天地,和高中不可同日而语。在这里,山外有天,人外有人。和别人相比,看到自己的不足这很正常。但是自卑就不好了。咱也有优势,不是吗?大敢地说出自己的想法,哪怕它在别人看来是幼稚的、可笑的,但它是我们自己的声音!还有,准备了,就要勇敢地表现自己!李阳说"Don't be shy!Just try!"相信你!

  929482453   [回复]      211.138.104.* 留言者IP: 211.138.104.*    发表于:2010年10月19日20:32:50

 第 7132 条留言  昵称:冰儿  主题:心痛
 留言内容:
  老师,我是一名大四的学生,回想自己的过去,总感觉心痛的不行…因为一些事情让我“沉沦”了三年,我是一个爱学习的孩子,可因为这事我放弃了听课,放弃了自己的一切,明知道这不值的,但自己就是战胜不了自己…回想自己的过去,真是苦不堪言,整夜的失眠,让自己生了许多白发,尤其是当听到别人“议论”自己时,只能装作没听见,真的太痛苦了…我哭泣过,也发泄过,但不能从根本上解决问题,老师,有什么办法能让忘掉过去吗?我想从新开始,在剩下的几个月里,我想安静的学习,不想再受过去的影响,不管能否考上研究生,我都想最后享受一下大学的学习时光。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗有些事情,你越想忘记它,你越记得它。顺其自然,它发生了,而且是客观的发生了,我们不能回避它、消灭它,而应该积极面对它!对我们影响的,不是发生了什么事,而是我们对所发生事情的态度。态度决定一切!考研不到三个月时间,希望你能抓住分分秒秒,制定详细、可行的计划,把心放在学习上,这样你的注意力就逐渐转移了。学习是人生的一大乐事啊!记住,一切都将过去。

    [回复]      124.89.8.* 留言者IP: 124.89.8.*    发表于:2010年10月19日15:13:15

 第 7131 条留言  昵称:  主题:勇气
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  在太多的时候,我都在想,别人什么都有一手,而自己却什么也不会.一不会唱二不会跳的.每当看着别人在台上又唱又跳的我心里都不是滋味,甚至有些自卑,很难去排解这些心情.该怎么办?现在总感觉自己每天无所事事,可由于自己没什么兴趣爱好总找不到可以做的事,我该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗自信的人最美丽,要相信自己,你就是最棒的!兴趣是可以锻炼的,现在你已经意识到自己的不足了,那么就该好好的去改变,把自己改造成心中最完美的那一个!每个人都有适合自己的生活轨道,寻找适合自己的才是最重要。当年猫王如果听从了自己父母去踢足球,那恐怕我们就少了一位猫王了,你能明白我所说的吗?祝你好运!

    [回复]      202.207.234.* 留言者IP: 202.207.234.*    发表于:2010年10月17日9:58:10

 第 7130 条留言  昵称:冰儿  主题:谢谢…
 留言内容:
  老师,谢谢您一直为大家解答心中的疑问…我没事的时候就喜欢来这里看看,大家在这里道出了自己的心声;老师在这里为我们提供了解决问题的方法,这里真是个好地方……
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,不用谢!能真正帮到大家我也很高兴,有你的参与和支持,我们的栏目会办的更好!

    [回复]      124.89.8.* 留言者IP: 124.89.8.*    发表于:2010年10月16日18:59:47

 第 7129 条留言  昵称:再回首  主题:困惑
 留言内容:
  老师好:
我有个问题,困扰我好久了,可一直没能够解决。就是我在学习的时候,精力不能够很好的集中,老爱走神,导致学习效率很低!希望老师能给我指点迷津,帮我解决这一难题!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你的注意力不集中,学习总是分神,是不是心里有什么事情放不下?其实只要心中相信自己可以,你就能做得很好!给你推荐一种集中注意力的方法:(1)、养成良好的睡眠习惯,休息好,才有旺盛的精力去做自己喜欢做的事情;(2)、学会自我减压 ,心情不好或是压力大的时候,要学会做些减压的事情,比如倾诉,打球或是运动等;(3)、做些放松训练,可以听听音乐,和志同道合的人一起聊些开心的事儿;(4)、做些集中注意力的训练 ,可以看着某样东西,一直看到你认为它已经不是你原来认识的东西,晚上天气好的时候可以数星星,这不失为一种好方法。最后,祝你早日摆脱这个困扰!加油

  569399655   [回复]      10.24.1.* 留言者IP: 10.24.1.*    发表于:2010年10月16日15:49:04

 第 7128 条留言  昵称:王一  主题:抗日
 留言内容:
  评的是个啥。辅导员瞎拉眼,遭天谴
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好 看来你很生气,记得康德说过“生气无非是用别人的错误惩罚自己”,想想看有道理吗? 对评选的结果不满意,可以和老师沟通交流,在这里倾诉,老师不一定会知道的。 现实生活中不公平的事情很多,站在对方的角度想想看,不公平的程度就不会像你想的那样了。 太计较的时候就会觉得有很多的不公平。 坦然面对生活的一切,我们就会觉得轻松许多。 祝开心快乐!

    [回复]      10.18.0.* 留言者IP: 10.18.0.*    发表于:2010年10月15日9:34:47

 第 7127 条留言  昵称: 多情者  主题: 不知所措
 留言内容:
  我从来就是一个自我、独立、自强得人,对男生也是不屑……可是今年我遇到了一个男生,有事没事经常想他。也许这就是暗恋……但我真的不知该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!无需担忧,这是你走向成熟的开始。 人不是无所不能的,谁都需要他人的支撑,如果你觉得自己什么都能做,那你会进入好多误区的,只有认识到自己还有所不能,人才会谨慎做事,才会体验到得到帮助时感受到的温暖与快乐。同样,他人也需要我们的帮助。人字的写法告诉我们一个道理:人和人之间是相互的支撑。另外,在这个年龄段想一个异性是正常的,爱神光顾你的心灵了。祝开心快乐!

    [回复]      10.16.5.* 留言者IP: 10.16.5.*    发表于:2010年10月13日19:36:43

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