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 第 6686 条留言  昵称:走向灭亡的人  主题:问题
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  您好!老师,我现在在一个部分人认为比较好的单位上班,或许是他们不知道这里的情况,而变得比较羡慕。从毕业到现在都已经3年了,但是所谓的事业还是一事无成,每个月还是那些基本工资,相比那些正式工,干的活少,发的钱多,没有办法,自己改变不了,
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!人之所以是世界上最有价值的高级动物是因为人具有主观能动性.任何环境都不可能限制自我超越的人,当你对自己的处境不满意的时候你就可以改变自己,不要管别人如何,做好自己的事情,并且想办法提高自己的能力,到一个更好的地方去发展.不过,象你现在这样的感觉也是好多走向社会的大学生都有的,多点耐心对以后的发展也有好处.我不了解你的具体处境,但我相信是金子在哪里都会发光的.你说呢!

    [回复]      60.222.224.* 留言者IP: 60.222.224.*    发表于:2009年7月14日15:23:28

 第 6685 条留言  昵称:宗华  主题:您好我是山西考生
 留言内容:
  老师您好,我是山西考生,我的文化课差提档线8分,专业207,第一志愿是贵校,不知友希望吗,学校要求英语最低分为多少
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!我们不是招生处的教师,我给你招生处的电话0359_2090807,2097059,祝你好运!

    [回复]      222.37.163.* 留言者IP: 222.37.163.*    发表于:2009年7月13日16:29:41

 第 6684 条留言  昵称:  主题:我要怎么面对自己??
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  在同一个屋檐下两个女同胞一起生活,在同一家公司一起工作。上半年都彼此相处得很好的,现在却是面目全非,我比她小三岁,我想在公司和在生活中,都是平等的,但我还是很尊重她的,每一次下班我都是很有奈性的等一起回家做饭,每一次我请假要去那里,有什么事,都是跟她说一声,因为我怕一时有事找我找不到,这是我很本性,毕竟在生活中就是两个人,应该互相帮助,互相学习,互相照顾……
然而,在这一个多月,慢慢地又突然的变了,变得很僵。前两个星期,她请假外出去四五天,一声都没说,打她电话又是关机,我怕她有什么事,我就打她弟电话,听说是去同学那边玩了,我就放心了……现在下班她先走了,也没打一下招呼,下班要不要在家吃也没说一声,连说话都没了…现在真是改头换面了。我们在生活中,工作中,都没有发生什么口角。我真的受不了这种生活,我很有奈性,用过度得奈性,我会顶不住的…为什么为什么为什么会有这样的人呢、、老师,我要怎么面对自己??
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!每个人都有自己的生活方式,我们只能尊重,无权干涉。你现在刚走向社会,还没有完全独立,所以,觉得无法面对。其实,你想想以后的生活,你总是要独立的,即便是有了自己的家庭,和爱人的生活有时间也很难同步,你该怎么办?你现在面对的朋友其实基本就是你以后的生活。看看周围的人不都是有自己的生活方式吗?学着适应新的生活是人生的必须。我们无法改变别人,但我们可以调节自己。相信自己,你会适应的!

    [回复]      218.17.79.* 留言者IP: 218.17.79.*    发表于:2009年7月13日9:19:01

 第 6683 条留言  昵称:遗落  主题:抛弃
 留言内容:
  曾经努力的争取活出自我,可是面对现实,金钱权利的肮脏,通通将我们推离。社会慢慢的将我们抛弃了吗。我觉得我的思想变的越来越世俗化,可我并不愿意这样,即使找找心里安慰又能怎么样,我们还是要面对现实,要吃饭,要生存。努力过了,付出过了,只是没有太多的人会在意。少数的成功只是努力付出的很多很多,幸运的成功了,再混杂人们势力的眼神的追捧,献媚,人都是只先想着自己的利益。我不知道什么时候,思维已经这样极端化了。我讨厌到鄙视这个社会全部的全部。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗既然你曾经努力的争取活出自我,那么为什么不能继续坚持呢?   你固然在你的思想深处意识到“越来越世俗化”,恰恰说明你的不愿世俗化,我想你可能需要的是一个不世俗化的理由、一个支撑你不去世俗化的思想,是吗?   我也有与你类似的思想动荡,我是这样理解的,现实就是现实,思想就是思想!现实我们必须应对、理解、甚至顺应,但必须保持我们思想的境界和层次不要堕落——或许有矛盾呢!没有关系,慢慢找到一个平衡点(比如对于钱权适当看的淡点),如何?

    [回复]      118.79.111.* 留言者IP: 118.79.111.*    发表于:2009年7月8日14:31:18

 第 6682 条留言  昵称:  主题:人生的路真的很曲折,走得有点累……
 留言内容:
  人生的路真的很曲折,走得有点累……
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗累,可能是我们人生的一个必然部分呢!   因此,关键就是看我们自己的心态如何了,比如,我也累:人到中年,上有老、下有小、中有亲朋;单位的事,家里的事,不是这个两个方面的事;长远的事需要规划,眼下的事需要应对,中长期的事情呢,还要想好到底是不是中长期的,呵呵……   等等的吧,多的很,处理和应对这些事也很累,真的!   不过,我想啊,既然,人是社会的人,就这样,何必非要说自己累呢!?我多有成就呀:在父母眼里我是好儿子,在晚辈眼里我是好长辈,在家里、在单位等还可以,多想远事,多做近事……也没有什么累的嘛!    最近,刚看到一句话,关于快乐的秘诀:不是做自己喜欢的事,而是喜欢自己做的事。    你好好想想?

    [回复]      218.17.77.* 留言者IP: 218.17.77.*    发表于:2009年7月8日8:58:07

 第 6681 条留言  昵称:燕过春秋  主题:明白
 留言内容:
  恩,我明白了,谢谢老师的提醒,我会好好努力的!我表达能力不怎么强,有空我得让老师多指教指教。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗看来我的理解力还比较强,说的还能让你明白,对你还有所裨益,呵呵……    好好努力,人生就是要在几个关键的环节上放手拼搏才行!!    至于表达能力,自己多看书,多记些名句好句,多朗读多表达,自然就会好起来,祝福你!!

    [回复]      115.152.214.* 留言者IP: 115.152.214.*    发表于:2009年7月6日1:33:54

 第 6680 条留言  昵称:大海  主题:
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  可以说说,如何建立自信吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗先从较为简单的事情做起,让自己容易获得成功的感觉,逐渐做些有点难度的……循序渐进!   同时,周围人的鼓励、理解、支持等也是很重要的因素!   当然,最关键的是自己,不要太顾及别人的评价和看法,放手去做等!   ……

    [回复]      221.131.61.* 留言者IP: 221.131.61.*    发表于:2009年7月6日0:32:40

 第 6679 条留言  昵称:大海  主题:
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  老师,,,,一个人若是对他周围的人,(比他优秀的人),总是不太喜欢听见别人对这个人的夸奖。这是不是就是嫉妒呢?该怎么改正呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗情况很多,我不能简单下结论!“别人”是一个还是多个,说的次数是少数还是多数,那个人是否真的那么优秀,综合的优秀还是某个方面的优秀,等等。   不过,你已经认为是嫉妒了,否则你就不会直接问怎么改了,不是吗?  我还真的不知道该如何改变嫉妒心理,惭愧的很,真的!!

    [回复]      221.131.61.* 留言者IP: 221.131.61.*    发表于:2009年7月6日0:30:01

 第 6678 条留言  昵称:王竞  主题:急需
 留言内容:
  老师您好,我有个朋友专升本文化课考了119,音乐成绩70,第一志愿报的贵校,能否被贵校录取!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!请联系我们的招生处,具体的情况他们知道。0359——2090807。祝好运!

    [回复]      124.167.44.* 留言者IP: 124.167.44.*    发表于:2009年7月5日10:31:59

 第 6677 条留言  昵称:咨询  主题:急需
 留言内容:
  老师,您好,我是09的考生,我高考考了251分,音乐57.33分,我有希望去您们学校的专科么?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!请联系我们的招生处,具体的情况他们知道。0359——2090807。祝好运!

    [回复]      118.78.121.* 留言者IP: 118.78.121.*    发表于:2009年7月3日22:43:51

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