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 第 6554 条留言  昵称:  主题:心烦、心乱
 留言内容:
  老师:您好!一直在关心心灵交流栏目。最近我可心烦了,心乱。我发现我作为班干部可为难了,尤其是在一些评助学金啦或什么补贴啦,到底考不考虑自己呢,自己家也可贫困了,但是我有时让出来了,人家说我是应该的。哎!人有时怎么这么不讲良心呢,我有时这个班长都不想当了,不仅得罪人还落不下好。老师,快给我点儿力量吧!但是我有时心想“踏踏实实做人,认认真真做事”,只要自己无怨无悔就行了。人吗,乐观点儿。我是不是有病啊,老师。我这算不算精神分裂啊。老师给我说说。太委屈了!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!首先这不是精神分裂症。其次,干部是“人民的公仆”,为了大家的利益做出了牺牲,应该值得肯定。第三,你的难处说明你有责任意识,同时也说明还需要努力提高管理水平和管理能力,你说呢!为同学们做事情是光荣的事情,他们以后会感激你的,不过,也要把你的困难告诉大家!

    [回复]      202.207.232.* 留言者IP: 202.207.232.*    发表于:2009年4月16日15:59:40

 第 6553 条留言  昵称:jfy  主题:找计算机系人
 留言内容:
  麻烦张老师把这个信息公布了,我联系不上我原来的系了,希望计算机系系干部可以看到这个留言,我的QQ:304120574,我很想了解我系的发展情况,谢谢张老师!越快越好!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!我不是张老师。我也可以帮助你,你们系办公室的电话是:2090414,2097090.

    [回复]      218.57.65.* 留言者IP: 218.57.65.*    发表于:2009年4月16日15:14:25

 第 6552 条留言  昵称:jfy  主题:再说几句
 留言内容:
  男同学:玩要玩的聪明,学要学的聪明,不惹事就最聪明!
女同学:提高自身修养才是长久之计!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗哈哈!经典啊!

    [回复]      218.57.65.* 留言者IP: 218.57.65.*    发表于:2009年4月16日15:03:38

 第 6551 条留言  昵称:jfy  主题:一点想法
 留言内容:
  我看了一些心理问题,感觉都快把我自己看出问题来了,张老师一天真够不容易的。给学弟学妹介绍一下我自己的一点心得啊:当自己郁闷、彷徨、沮丧、失望的时候,自己对着墙或者跟自己的最好的朋友说“我挺好的”,一直说,强迫自己相信自己真的很好,当你感觉自己稍微有点开心的时候,那么证明你的心里已经可以承受你现在解决不了的问题了。记住,一定要坚持住,感觉不到高兴就不要停。我工作以后曾经这么做过,很管用的。寻死觅活解决不了问题,问题仍然存在,虽然你不用面对了!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……虽然从心理学专业上,我不懂这是什么方法,但我想这个方法对于不少人会产生积极作用的,有类似困难的同学,不妨按照这个留言所说的方法去试试。    哦,同时谢谢你的留言!

    [回复]      218.57.65.* 留言者IP: 218.57.65.*    发表于:2009年4月16日14:57:56

 第 6550 条留言  昵称:  主题:我不知道
 留言内容:
  我感觉很迷茫,不知到自己一天到晚的学习有什么用。看不到自己的将来。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!从小到大的学习都是在为以后美好的生活做准备。现在每天的学习就像是搜集盖美好生活大厦的砖。再说,从人生来看,四十岁以前付出,四十岁以后就开始收获了。耐心、坚持是创造美好生活必须的品质!

    [回复]      202.207.232.* 留言者IP: 202.207.232.*    发表于:2009年4月15日20:49:45

 第 6549 条留言  昵称:版主  主题:留言给“冰”:
 留言内容:
  冰,你好!你是个好学的学生!!
   这么难的问题,亏你提得出来?!不过,还有谢谢你的信任呢。
   抽象到具体,就是把对事物多次抽象后得到的多个认识或结论,通过综合的方式得到关于事物深刻、全面、本质、精准的认识的思维过程。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗专门针对一个问题的回复

    [回复]      202.207.232.* 留言者IP: 202.207.232.*    发表于:2009年4月15日13:39:12

 第 6548 条留言  昵称:情有独钟  主题:是对是错
 留言内容:
  这段时间很茫然,不知道自己到底是对是错,曾经我以为我可以拥有一份非常单纯的感情,但最终还是无法逃脱复杂的纠缠。我和一个打工的男孩相恋了,我们离得很远,但每天都在电话里互相分享着喜悦。而且我相信我们彼此是全心全意的。本以为我们可以这样一直幸福的走下去。可突然有一天一个没电话把这一切都打乱了。她是那个男孩以前的女朋友,她说是我破坏了他们之间的感情。其实他们早就没什么感情可言了,男孩也早就和她提出了分手,但她却一直死缠着不放,给男孩要分手费没到手就用尽各种手段打击我们,每天不停的打电话发信息骚扰我们,那些难听的话我简直没办法忍受。难道我真的做错了?这份感情我该继续吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!你能冷静下来,站在对方的角度想想吗?那个男孩喜欢你什么?你爱他什么?如果他以后遇到了比你好的女孩,他又会怎样?凭你对他的了解,分析一下好吗?

    [回复]      202.207.232.* 留言者IP: 202.207.232.*    发表于:2009年4月13日9:42:45

 第 6547 条留言  昵称:天边  主题:愚昧
 留言内容:
  我想离开这个世界、、、、、、
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗唉!多么美好的生活,你怎么忍心放弃呢?生命不属于你自己的,人士社会性的动物,想想你的亲人,朋友吧。人就没有过不去vd坎,也没有受不了的罪。我们是大写的人,人和人之间就是相互的支撑。让我们帮助你,好吗?2090469

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年4月11日15:11:32

 第 6546 条留言  昵称:幸福的阿真  主题:老师,你好!
 留言内容:
  呵呵~~看了半天才发现是您的留言板,就忍不住要留下一笔了。老师原来是我们身边的心灵导师啊,帮着同学们解决了许多难题。上您的课使我受益非浅,许多发生在我们身边的故事老师都能以独特的眼光去看待,这一点是许多人做不到的。我也时常尝试着用您的态度去面对人生,觉得这样很好。常常,表面上失去的是心中最乐意得到的结果,对吗?希望老师能工作顺利,健康!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!表面上失去的不一定是心中最乐意得到的吧。谢谢你的感受和祝福!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年4月11日14:47:58

 第 6545 条留言  昵称:责任  主题:失踪的凳子
 留言内容:
  张老师您好,去年管理员将我们宿舍凳子搬走一个,当时在本上登记,说等这学期再给我们补一个,大概前一个月他们查大功率用电器时我们还问了,他们说让我们到103去领,可前几天我们去103找,管理员却失口否认,而且态度及其不好。我们正常交住宿费却少个凳子,我们相信宿舍管理员却被她们诬陷,现在我们感觉学生的合法权益根本无法保障,出了事都不敢找管理员,怕再次招来指责。我们不懂,为什么管理员可以用那么不耐烦,那么生气的口气跟学生沟通?为什么管理员可以指责我们,而我们却根本没有错,只是太相信她们而已?现在我们马上毕业了,不但没享受到自己的权益,还得赔个凳子,真是“赔了夫人又折兵”,而造成这一切的原因只有一个,就是我们太相信管理员了!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你可以找管理员的上级管理人员或者部门去反映,只要你所说的是真实的情况,我想就一定可以有合适的解决办法,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年4月11日14:27:20

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