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 第 6512 条留言  昵称:无欲无求  主题:SOS
 留言内容:
  老师,你好,这是我第一次来这个网站,看了他们说的,我禁不住也想和你说一说心理话.这是我来学校的第二个学期了,可以说我以前的大学生活过的还是可以的,但最近的两三个星期我发现我越来越堕落,以前自己有自己的小目标,比如入党,进学生会,拿奖学金等等,自己会为了这些小目标去努力,不断的努力,现在我都实现了这些目标,但突然之间我有了一种失落感,盲目感,最近两三个星期我不知道该做什么,不想学习,不想写作业,感觉自己对所有的事都失去了兴趣,有时候看着一大堆的作业,就想好好的补一下,可不到半天就坚持不下来了.看着自己这样,心理特别烦,我的朋友说我自己太压抑自己了,应该放松一下,可我并没有感觉自己压抑自己啊,我知道我应该好好的调整一下自己,但不知道该怎么样做,我真的不想再这样下去了,如果在这种状态中发展下去,我想我会毁了自己.老师,我需要您的帮助!谢谢!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我想,不是堕落的问题吧,你自己言重了。    小目标实现了之后呢?我想你现在的状态就是暂时没有明晰的大目标指引而出现的盲目、无方向感的状态,你说的很好,如果再这样下去的话,你确实有可能毁了自己。    建议:确定新的目标,当然目标可以适当大点,比如;过四级、考研等。你好好想想,然后做了决断,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.25.* 留言者IP: 222.31.25.*    发表于:2009年3月28日17:24:59

 第 6511 条留言  昵称:梧桐更兼细雨  主题:写给迷茫的女孩子们
 留言内容:
  离开了任何一个男人,你都会活得很好
。女孩到了二十几岁,就要理智的对待自己的情感,很多女孩就是因为某个男人而痛苦且消极的活着,感情的事情并不是谁能把握得了,为什么要被一个男人而让自己陷入不愉快的心情中呢?一个不懂得欣赏你的男人,没有资格让你为他难过悲伤,每一个女孩都是美丽的,她在等待着一个懂她的男人出现,某个男人的离开,只能说那个懂你的男人还没有出现,男人不是女孩生活的全部,与其让自己陷入到一个无望的爱情中,不如潇洒的转身,充实自己,让自己投入到工作学习中,等有一天那个离开你的男人发现你是如此的成功,一定会后悔他当初离开你的!
  曾经我也以为我离开了他我不能活了,后来我问自己一百遍:离开了他,我还能不能活?结果有一百二十遍回答是:我会活的很好。女孩们千万不要践踏了自己,不要以为委曲求全就能换来一个男人的爱情,爱情是美丽的,女孩子也是美丽的,不容任何一个男人亵渎!离开那个不懂欣赏你的男人,这就是最华丽的转身,虽然心有不甘,但是痛苦的折磨反而让自己没有精力去经营你的工作或学习。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗嗯,内容不错,谢谢你的留言!欢迎常来留下你精彩语言!!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2009年3月27日17:54:28

 第 6510 条留言  昵称:寂寞梧桐  主题:爱读书的女人才美丽
 留言内容:
  已经好久没有读过书了,感觉自己变得越来越庸俗了,没了理想,没了内涵。大多数时间都陶醉在爱情的旋涡中,时喜时忧。昨天晚上和思想家交流了——海伦.凯勒。她象一束火苗,将我这把快要没了理想的干柴点燃了,我的生命重新又蹿起激情的火焰。书是我唯一的精神食粮。以后一定要多读书充实自己,希望可以坚持下去。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗现在发现这一点,根本不晚,不是吗?    不必以后,现在就开始,马上,借书,看!    学生的时代,爱情固然可能成为一个方面,但恐怕不是最主要的方面,读书、学习才是,赶快行动起来吧,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2009年3月27日17:30:20

 第 6509 条留言  昵称:林花谢了春红  主题:海棠花的葬礼
 留言内容:
  爱情让我很疲惫。虽然彼此相爱,但却在不知不觉中互相伤害。记不清自己在深夜将头埋在被子里哭了多少回,流了多少泪。伤了,痛了,累了!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗可能,爱情的过程本来如此,其魅力之所在亦在于此……    注意区别是否是真的伤害就好,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2009年3月27日17:19:44

 第 6508 条留言  昵称: 雨露  主题: 感谢
 留言内容:
  张老师,您好!
谢谢您对我的关心,我一定会漫漫改变 自己的。
没啥说的,就想和你说话。
祝你永远快乐,健康永存!
Bye bye!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我也相信,你一定会改变自己的!! 祝福!加油!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2009年3月27日16:20:18

 第 6507 条留言  昵称:十万个为什么  主题: 疑问
 留言内容:
  老师,您好!
我是个喜欢想问题得人,但是我不敢发表自己的意见,我也不知为什么。有时候非常纳闷。对于一些问题我经常有不同的想法,但我不敢说出来,我该怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,你怕的是别人吗?不是,是自己吧,对自己的要求太高了吧。有了想法就说出来,看看会怎样。人成长的过程其实是一个不断超越自己的过程,你说呢!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年3月26日18:59:19

 第 6506 条留言  昵称:花落知多少  主题:感慨
 留言内容:
  昨晚去听了一个讲座,受益匪浅.讲座的内容不是最重要的,老师给我们传达的人生态度很值得去领悟.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗好啊,有收获就好!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年3月25日17:52:28

 第 6505 条留言  昵称:处处闻啼鸟  主题:逃避?
 留言内容:
  女生宿舍关系很复杂,我自己的事很多,没有时间和精力去处关系.于是,我尽量少呆在宿舍,也不和她们闲聊.这样做是对还是错,还是完全的逃避.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,也许你已经有自己的看法了吧。站在社会和人生的角度看看,我们学生之间能有多大的矛盾和冲突解决不了呢?相聚也是缘分啊;再说,我们和谁在一起能没有矛盾,该和大家相处你会明白的,逃避不是办法吧。祝快乐!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年3月25日17:46:25

 第 6504 条留言  昵称:春眠不觉晓  主题:沉默
 留言内容:
  曾经,我有高兴的事或是对生活的感慨,就会兴高采烈地在宿舍发一番感慨.但现在,我更喜欢沉默.原因有二,首先,当你的话无人理解或者没有共鸣就会感到孤单,其次,如果真的是一件值得高兴的事,通常没有人和你分享,甚至会被泼冷水.我沉默了,不知在成人的世界里这否是必然的.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!在成人世界里不是这样的。人和人之间就是相互的支撑,人有趋乐避苦的本能。有时别人不理解我们,是否我们理解他们?如果高兴都不能分享的话,那我们还可以和别人分享什么?也许别人的高兴表达方式和你不一样吧,没有人不喜欢阳光。沉默也是成熟的表现,但不是孤独和冷漠的理由,你说呢!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2009年3月25日17:39:16

 第 6503 条留言  昵称:布布  主题:报名
 留言内容:
  错过了六级报名,能补报吗
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗据我所知,不能!   详情还是咨询教务处相关科室吧,电话:2095210.  再见

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2009年3月25日11:46:47

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