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 第 6270 条留言  昵称:天亮了  主题: 麻木的坚强
 留言内容:
  在别人眼里我一直是很坚强的,可是突然却发现:我的确是很坚强,坚强的有点麻木———
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗坚强和麻木可能有一定的关系,但可以肯定不是必然的关系。    因此,我们完全可以选择坚强而放弃麻木。    你再想想?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年11月14日19:22:39

 第 6269 条留言  昵称:怎么办  主题:老师我是不是很坏
 留言内容:
  老师我是不是很坏?我觉得这样会被人看不起,会被人唾骂的,也许大家嘴上不说但心里会骂我的
更重要的是太对不起他,我不想他难过...
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗最终,你必须做出自己的选择,所以,必须面对你做出某个方面的选择后所带来的……   有时候,两难选择而必须选择,结果就是必须面对和承担某一个方面的所带来的利弊。所以,既然必须如此,那,就抉择吧,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年11月14日18:23:29

 第 6268 条留言  昵称:华英雄  主题:迷茫...
 留言内容:
  老师,您好:
我是一名大二的学生,就快要考英语四级了,大二来学校后,我与大一时交的女朋友分手了,觉得我们不合适,是我先提出来的,既然已经不爱了,就没有必要继续坚持,我想要过自己一个人的生活,毕竟,我还是要考研的,不能在这里留下太多的东西,我要为自己的理想而奋斗,而努力,不断向上,前进,前进!
可是最近几天,我与另一个女生R走的有点近,发现自己总是会在无意中想起她,甚至为了她可以把荒废两年的英语重新拾起,每天强迫自己背50个单词,认识她以后,自己的生活有规律了,也会抽出时间来学习了,可是我搞不懂这些转变是因为她呢,还是快要考试的缘故???
同样,我现在不想谈论感情,却又害怕错过了...因为我不懂得,我不知道自己是不是真的喜欢她,所以也变得很谨慎,怕伤害到她,始终没有勇气向她表白,但她很优秀,我怕以后自己会后悔...现在自己到底应该怎么办?是不顾一切向她表白,还是继续隐忍,继续等待,等到自己长大的那一天,再去追寻自己的真爱...
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗天下事,分久必合、合久必分,呵呵……    有时候,最好能找到一个点,兼顾两方面或多方面,或许,可以考虑观望一段时间再说、再下结论,你说呢?

    [回复]      118.78.183.* 留言者IP: 118.78.183.*    发表于:2008年11月14日12:46:02

 第 6267 条留言  昵称:郁闷  主题:怎么办?
 留言内容:
  两个人不可能有结果,还用继续吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我看还是不用继续了吧,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年11月13日20:35:47

 第 6266 条留言  昵称:怎么办?  主题:怎么办?
 留言内容:
  老师我该怎么办?感情的事真的好乱!
我简单给您说一下我的情况。我们的感情不好不坏,一直以来,他很在乎我,他是个很负责的男友,我们以为我们能步入婚姻...正因如此在他多次的要求下我把自己给了他,从此他把我当妻待...他现在在张罗我们的婚房,张罗我们以后生活的一切...他说等我一到法定年龄就结婚...可是最近我才发现我并不爱他,只是喜欢他...打心里说我不想嫁给一个我自己不爱的人...可我竟然是在给了他以后才发现自己不爱他...那会儿只知道他肯定会娶我,却忽视了我自已...我该怎么办?
不跟他,我以后怎么给我未来的丈夫交代?跟了他?可我并不爱他,只是对他有好感,喜欢他...
我要是和他分手他肯定会很难过,很难过...况且我知道近段时间是他事业的重要时期,他不可以,也不能受这样的打击...我不想看他难过,不想他事业受挫...可我真的不想、不想嫁给一个我自己不爱的人...我该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗这样的事情比较复杂,看来不懂得爱是什么的时候最好别谈恋爱。面对现实吧,错误的事情难以改变了,不过,你会通过这次恋爱成熟一些的。请你看看6284条留言的回复吧!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年11月13日19:22:53

 第 6265 条留言  昵称:想你  主题:忘记
 留言内容:
  我要学会忘记,只有这样,我才有力量开始新的生活.不再留恋过去,努力让自己坚强,像没认识你以前一样的坚强.不再对你心存希望,因为你已经有另一个女孩需要照顾,你不会弃她于不顾,而选择我,你的良心不允许你这样做.放心吧,没有你的日子里,我会好好照顾我自己.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗多么坚强,可爱的同学,为你祝福!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年11月13日8:23:39

 第 6264 条留言  昵称:毛毛雨  主题:
 留言内容:
  这里很好,来了不一定要说话,看看别人的心理状态和版主的回复,同样可以得到很多,很多问题都是大家的共性问题。最重要的是,这里很真实......
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗谢谢评价!

    [回复]      118.78.180.* 留言者IP: 118.78.180.*    发表于:2008年11月12日22:29:11

 第 6263 条留言  昵称:RYM  主题:请教
 留言内容:
  老师,如何能消除失败留下的心理阴影?如何保持持久的动力?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗忘记过去,面向未来!你分析一下总是想过去的事情有什么结果,再想想自己的理想目标。重新开始追求新目标,总结以前的教训!

    [回复]      118.78.180.* 留言者IP: 118.78.180.*    发表于:2008年11月12日20:32:16

 第 6262 条留言  昵称:阿强  主题:感情
 留言内容:
  您好:
我女朋友常会因为她的一些事情问我,比如她和别人吵架了,或是看不惯某个人的行为或是和学生闹意见了之类的事,她本想是从我这得到些安慰的,可我每次都是让她先从自身去找问题的根本而不是从别人那,因而她感觉我总是在批评她,让她觉得自己一无是处,所以我们经常因为这个吵架。
我想请教一下,我们到底谁不对,还有我们不会有什么心理问题吧。
我认为这只是两个人对问题的看法和出发点不同而已,没有多大的隔阂,因该不会影响我们的感情。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你的做法是正确的!你的担心也有一定的道理。女人的弱点是情绪化,理解了这个向她说明,女性也需要学习和成熟!

    [回复]      202.193.15.* 留言者IP: 202.193.15.*    发表于:2008年11月12日15:38:09

 第 6261 条留言  昵称:远方  主题:迷茫
 留言内容:
  是啊,我也很清楚现在最重要的是把自己的学业做好
可心里还是不由自主地去想这些
有太多的不确定,不知道自己能够坚持到什么时候
是我不想去轻易尝试放弃的滋味吧
有时候问过自己好多次他说的话到底有多少是真心实意对我说的呢?
太多的承诺是我们不能承受的,我只希望在一起的时间里能够真心的对待彼此
我不想看到自己的付出和努力换来得却是一场骗局
我不想要那样的残忍在自己身上上演可是在生活和现实面前又显得那样的无能为力
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!人具有逃避痛苦的能力,如果说你还想这样下去,可能是能还没有体验到这种事情带给你的痛苦。女人的弱点是情绪化,只有理智才能克服这样的弱点带给我们的痛苦。冷静想想,你会让自己快乐起来的!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年11月12日11:33:28

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