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 第 6240 条留言  昵称:竹林雅士  主题:心灵交流
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  取名竹林雅士,却未在竹林,也非雅士,我需要一颗透亮而纯洁的心,一颗善良而温存的心,我不想追功逐利,我渴望清净恬淡,闲云野鹤般的生活,更不愿去敷衍别人,对不真诚的人我不屑交流,但所有的过来人都说这样在社会上是不行的,我也感到我这样会有几个知己好友,但得不到大多数人的认同,但我还是不想改变自己
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你的生活态度和境界,不是一般人所能理解的,真的!   尽量理解别人,至于自己,能有改变就有,实在改变不了,也就顺其自然,没有什么不好的,我认为。    当然,与人为善、和谐相处,还是需要一些自身的努力的,你再想想?

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年11月4日8:05:05

 第 6239 条留言  昵称:张振宇  主题:谁能告我我该咋办啊
 留言内容:
  我的体内测试中因作弊被抓了,我好惨啊,现在想起来好后悔啊,早知道被查出会这么严重的话,我就不让人替了。
现在听说连学位证都没了,不知是不是真的。我觉得学校太苛刻了,何必因为个体育为难我们呢。可我们好无奈啊,能找谁去,我现在什么都不想去想,不知怎么去安慰自己啊。太没劲!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗某些方面不行,不从自身找原因;有投机心理;没有实现又有些抱怨;而且还自暴自弃……    好好调整自己的心态,好好认识现在自己所面对的情况,如何?    学位证是否失去,我不是很清楚,但可以证明你的学识和能力的内容很多,不要放弃,努力提升自己的能力和素质,让自己对自己满意,好吗?

  564777523   [回复]      118.78.51.* 留言者IP: 118.78.51.*    发表于:2008年11月3日18:20:13

 第 6238 条留言  昵称:等等  主题:孤独
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  老师您好,您能帮我解决问题吗? 我是一个孤独的人,我不能和别人达成心灵的共鸣,行动的默契,可以说我是一个遗世独立的现代人。而且我没有欲望、没有思想,很可悲在这个世界上 。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你的表现从另外的意义上看,可能是更有思想的,当然我说的是可能。但你现在看来比较悲观,所以,需要反思!   但你所说的“没有欲望、没有思想”,我不认同,你的潜意识里不是想和大家沟通、想达到默契吗?   想想导致你现在的原因是什么,针对原因,逐渐改变,当然,不要急,慢慢来,如何?   你说的不是很具体,我也只能这样说了,希望能对你有所帮助!再见。     希望你的下一次留言,有了改变的留言!!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年11月3日16:29:03

 第 6237 条留言  昵称:小鱼儿  主题:小鱼儿
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  突然发现一个很可怕的问题,原来我是一个依赖性那么强的人,我说服不了自己一个人去做事,知识不停的渴望身边有个人陪伴,可谈了三年多的对象,竟然因此对我发火,吼叫,几近咆哮,当者那么多人的面训斥我,还流露出特别蔑视的表情,我的心似刀绞,几乎到了崩溃的边缘,我不知道我自己是怎么了,或许自己真的是错了吧,很无奈
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗终于发现了,我想还不晚!    当今社会,没有独立性的人,可能终究是被淘汰的人呢!所以,理解对方的愤怒,不要成为依附性人格的人,时间长了,人家会把你当沉重的包袱的!!     建议:慢慢学的让自己独立起来,一定要这样做!!否则,真的会让人瞧不起呢!!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年11月3日7:48:40

 第 6236 条留言  昵称:秋天快走了  主题:回想大一
 留言内容:
  上星期我们开老乡会了,他们的回忆里有我所熟悉的街道,角落,学校,老师,感觉很亲切。老乡们都很优秀,自己感到挺惭愧,没有可以值得学弟学妹们学习的。不经开始反思大一,学习上没收获,能力也没有显著提高,感到挺失败的。晚上社团见面会上发言,居然紧张了,好失落。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗还好,至少你已经感受到了差距,不是吗?    从另外意义上理解,这又何尝不是一件好事?你不是已经开始反思大一了吗?    思考之后,我想你一定会重新定位自己,努力改变现在的自己,发展自己,等来年的老乡会上,自己给自己一个惊喜,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年10月30日20:31:48

 第 6235 条留言  昵称:秋天  主题: 应试教育
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  学习本身是一件快乐的事,让大脑得到充实,心灵得到陶冶。没有压力的自在的学习是轻松而惬意的。可是这几天我感到又回到惨淡的高中生活,学英语不是为了感受语言的魅力,而是过四级, vb课上没有推理的快乐,只有过级的担忧和压力。哎!灰色的人生......可悲的应试教育。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗应试教育我们职责你很多年,但,仔细分析,我们可能也会发现,必要的应试教育可能是必须的呢!    快乐学习当然最好,但那是比较理想的状态,我们作为学生,要做的是:在必然和自由中寻找到一个恰当契合点,让自己的学习变为一个充实的过程,你以为如何?    

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年10月30日20:22:04

 第 6234 条留言  昵称:轻舞飞扬  主题:害怕
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  我不知道在大二的时候屏奖学金和助学金,是不是总会出现一些问题。尤其,我作为班里的一名班干,总觉得同学们有时候不理解我们,觉得我们总会有不公平,但我想没有任何一件事情是绝对公平的,您说对吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗一般说来,出现这样一些情况是正常的。不过,作为班干,首先应做到问心无愧,然后呢,就是需要通过相关的工作让大家理解,这一点很重要!!否则,我们的工作做的好又有多大意义?   虽然公平很难,但不是不能,只要自己努力一直这样做,我想大家一定会理解你、你们!!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年10月30日20:18:08

 第 6233 条留言  昵称: 想你  主题:情感
 留言内容:
  自从你毕业离开,我无时不刻不在想你,你能感觉到吗?你对我的爱是真的吗?我不敢再考虑这个问题.说好了毕业后就分手,现在才发现我没想象中的那么洒脱.你洒脱地离开,留下我一人在这个城市,这个学校,满目是你跟我的回忆,让我怎么不想你
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗让爱的记忆永留心间…… 重新开始新的征程……

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年10月30日17:45:24

 第 6232 条留言  昵称:  主题:友谊
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  自己快要毕业了,眼看着相处了好几年的姐妹临近毕业却因为一些事闹的关系紧张,自己不知道该怎么办,说也不对不说也不对,现在一点都不想在宿舍待着,感觉宿舍的空气都凝固了,心情很不爽,难道在利益面前朋友就可以背叛,真的有点想不通
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗看来你们宿舍经历了大学阶段,还没有很好地处理好在名利面前人与人的关系呢!当然,她们可能各有各的难处和特殊情况,我想,你需要多理解她们,你说呢?    其实,等到到了社会上以后,再想大学生活,或许现在的这些矛盾和摩擦,你会认为是一些可爱的小插曲呢!真的!     多宽容些、多理解些,尽量维系好大家的关系,你的努力,大家一定会认可的!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年10月30日15:05:18

 第 6231 条留言  昵称:  主题:选举
 留言内容:
  刚来大学,觉得大学应该是一个纯洁的地方,可是经过班里的选举,我才知道什么都不是那样了,辅导员不负责任,选举成了过场,那些自私的人掌权后开始摆官架,我看不惯.我觉得他们很恶心...我对他们已经失去信心了,老师我该怎么面对才能好好认识这个学校?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗大学本来就是社会的一个部分,社会上不好的方面在大学里也在所难免,你说呢?   不过,大学毕竟是大学,自有其自身的魅力,我们上大学不是来感受复杂的,但必要的感受也会促使我们更为成熟。更为重要的是,大学是让我们学习的校园、提升的圣地。    至于你说的这些情况,你需要正确理解,辅导员不可能面面俱到,民主也有其不够完善的方面,真正自私的人即使现在志得意满,长久之后,关键看谁笑到最后,你说呢?    最关键的是:不断充实提高完善自己!!

    [回复]      222.31.15.* 留言者IP: 222.31.15.*    发表于:2008年10月30日8:03:41

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