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第 6295 条留言 昵称:月牙儿 主题:看看 | |
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我还是 老样子,或许还不如原来了,唉...郁闷!真不知到大学究竟学什么!每天和人打交道,最终还是栽在人手里!哎...
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗是吗? 不必郁闷,真正的大学生活很丰富,现在开始学,一点都不晚,你说呢? 当然不是学让人“栽”,而是让自己不断提升能力、学识。祝福你! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.31.10.* 发表于:2008年11月26日18:46:54 |
第 6294 条留言 昵称:在水一方 主题:回来看看 | |
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张老师,您好,又回来看看了.呵呵,您不知道我是谁,我可知道您.希望老师一切都好
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗欢迎欢迎!谢谢你的问候,!!以后也可以常回来看看的。 我确实不知道你是谁,可你知道我——这绝对不公平!!天哪,为什么?? 呵呵……拜拜 |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.63.54.* 发表于:2008年11月26日15:31:45 |
第 6293 条留言 昵称:熟人 主题:令人气愤的事和气愤的人 | |
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张老师:
你好,我是咱们学校的一名年轻老师,而且我也认识你。同时我也经常喜欢看你的心灵交流,对每个留言,你回复的都很认真,很真诚,这让我感动。 来咱们学校几年了,虽然已经结婚生子,但我似乎还比较单纯。对于发生在自己身边的很多事情,觉得发自内心的厌恶。办事要靠关系,你没有靠山,就处处受压制。不会在领导面前阿谀奉承,那么凡事你只能靠边站。总在想什么才是平等的竞争?自己有时也想,平淡的过吧,不争不抢,可是自己又有些不服气。你说我对社会的适应能力是不是太差了。 |
写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗首先,谢谢你的信任! 既然也是老师,咱们就很好沟通了。 人的社会化程度是需要时间和阅历来支撑和不断提升的,记得我刚来学校的几年里,也大致经历了你现在所经历过程,现在你可能单纯了些,但这很正常,将来会越来越成熟的,我们都要从这个阶段经过,而立、不惑、知天命等就是最好的注解,你说呢? 至于你说的“身边的很多事情”,我的理解是:既然自己的综合实力(这个综合实力包括很多内容,我想你会理解)还没有达到一定的程度的话,暂时我们不奢望“平等的竞争”,如何?因为平等是需要实力作为支撑的,所以,当前的你,我觉得最好就是干好自己的工作,用自己的态度和努力首先让自己的工作出色,做到了这一点,你不用担心这个世界没有伯乐、没有机遇,或许伯乐比较忙、机遇比较少,还没有发现你遇到你,耐心点,如何? 我理解,年轻的时候希望自己尽量快速成功,但有时恰恰就是欲速则不达,所以,你说的很好,“平淡的过”,至少现在先这样,沉住气,你说呢? 绝不是你对社会的适应能力太差的问题,我觉得,可能仅仅是——需要时间! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.31.11.* 发表于:2008年11月26日15:20:50 |
第 6292 条留言 昵称:冰雨 主题:性格 | |
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老师,您好我一名是大二的学生,近段时间过的特不开心,我发现我自己的性格特不好,跟我关系好的人说我是一个很有主见但也很高傲的女孩,说我有一 种不 轻易服输的傲气甚至有一种唯我独尊的霸气,我总是认为是我的东西我 不允许别人拿走,所以就会跟别人去争,但争过以后我就会后悔;毕竟会得罪一些人,再说一个女孩子有 这样的性格并不好,但我有又不想做一个没有主见任别人摆布的人。所以我想改变自己,但又不知道怎么改变;想请老师帮我分析一下
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗一段时间的不开心,也是正常的,你说呢? 不是你的性格特不好,每个人都哟自己的个性,好不好可不是轻易就下结论的,辩证地看待自己的性格特征,如何? 争与不争,需要在具体的情况下来确定,需要争就争,没有必要的话,即使是自己的,也可以考虑放手,拿得起放得下可能是一种智慧呢! 可以考虑改变,其实也不复杂:尊重、宽容、爱别人,努力从对方的角度考虑等,你再想想。 学会放手,是一种难得的境界,慢慢来? |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.31.15.* 发表于:2008年11月25日21:17:19 |
第 6291 条留言 昵称:心情不好 主题:很气愤 | |
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今年大二了,回想大一的我是那么有自信,而现在被折磨的越来越痛苦,我真的觉得自己很努力,只要系里有活动我都积积参与,想想运动会上带伤替系里跑步,再想想干部选举又一次被落选,原来竞选的时候有文艺部副部长,可最后结果却没了这个职位,我真恨不得骂他们一句,瞎了眼了,你们玩谁呢。但是想想,还不是自己的错吗?原来一个学长告诉我,如果你认为自己有能力,就要让别人知道你,我以为这样就可以了,原来还少一样,就是要去巴结他们,我看我们系里很多会巴结人的都选上了,说的好听点那叫会办事,我真觉得恶心,太恶心了。如果要我去巴结他们,还不如让我死了算了。我依然会好好的过我的生活,只不过有点气罢了,我只想说你放弃了我,我也不会选择你。人生还有很多美好的事情。干嘛要在一棵树上吊死呢
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗呵呵!别那样生气,对自己没有好处。那记得美国成功学家卡耐基的一个观点吗:现在的社会如果把成功的因素分为100%,15%靠的是技术能力,85%靠的是人际关系。个人先适应社会,才有可能改变。一个人不可能改变世界,但可以改变自己一个人的世界。个性的表现也必须符合社会,你说呢!快乐点,一切都会过去的! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.31.9.* 发表于:2008年11月25日8:05:06 |
第 6290 条留言 昵称:菲儿 主题:情感 | |
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老师,作为一个刚毕业的我,把全部热情都投入到工作中,什么也不想就专心的工作。可是在工作之余,有一件事却困扰我,我和男朋友不在一个地方,他在临汾,并考上了村官,我在长治当老师,谈婚论嫁的时候到了,可我们怎么办。他不想放弃工作来我们这里,我也不想放弃我的工作。有时觉得要不放弃这份感情吧,可舍不得他,毕竟一起走过。有时想要不我放弃我的一切,去跟随他,可是我有我的人生价值,我想在教育上实现。有时又想,如果我真的嫁给他,他会对我好吗?油盐酱醋的生活我能适应吗?
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗你好!可以理解你的担忧。爱情是以社会现实为基础的,爱有多种表达方式。人生有不少重要的事情,到了那个位置上,到了那个时候,你就能做到。面对现实,相信自己! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 61.141.5.* 发表于:2008年11月25日6:43:31 |
第 6289 条留言 昵称:mm 主题:活着 | |
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马上就要毕业了,可是却不知道路在哪里。感觉自己的爸爸妈妈特别伟大,3孩子都能养活,可我却连自己都不能过活。
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗你好!要相信自己,你也可以的,责任给人力量,责任是创造的源泉。现在准备还不晚的! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.31.15.* 发表于:2008年11月24日19:47:59 |
第 6288 条留言 昵称:王子 主题:?是不是测试不及格没毕业证?真的好怕怕呀.......晕 | |
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运城学院《国家学生体质健康标准》实施办法 在那可以看到?是不是测试不及格没毕业证?真的好怕怕呀.......晕
我 大4了.... |
写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗呵呵,没有那么可怕吧,到体育系了解一下吧! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 59.48.153.* 发表于:2008年11月24日19:21:26 |
第 6287 条留言 昵称:雅雅 主题:工作 | |
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老师你好!我是英语专业的一名专科生马上就要毕业了。我想问一下,如果我去应聘中专的英语教师我的学历合格吗?
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗你好!国家的规定和中专学校可能要的是研究生或者优秀大学生吧。找适合自己的单位才比较好就业! |
[回复] 留言者IP: 222.31.11.* 发表于:2008年11月24日15:33:01 |
第 6286 条留言 昵称:yyj 主题:好久没来了 | |
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真的好久没来了,好累好累, 心情渐渐的平淡,渐行渐远……
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写信给我 | 〖版主回复〗呵呵!那你好好放松一下吧! |
76444992 | [回复] 留言者IP: 222.66.200.* 发表于:2008年11月24日13:09:53 |
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