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 第 5876 条留言  昵称:打灰狼  主题:大灰狼
 留言内容:
  发现一个问题,就是自己回到家好象一下字就没了自主了,什么事都听家长的话,是完整形的乖乖孩子,可是我不想活的那么累.我想有自己的一片天地,我该怎么办呢?到学校了,我又成了能言善说的外向型的了.对这个很纳闷
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗其实,很多同学都存在这样的想象。我的想法是,尽量与家长沟通,或者通过一些行动让家长感觉到你已经长大了。这样家长会逐渐考虑你的自由和独立。   如果效果未必好,就这样也不是不可以的。家里多听家长的,出来多锻炼和提升自己的,兼收并蓄,何乐而不为?

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年5月4日20:19:03

 第 5875 条留言  昵称:郸单  主题:改变
 留言内容:
  老师 上大学这么长时间我觉得自己变的好坏 特别是感情方面,高中的我没搞过对象,上大学遇到了军训教官 之后便是俗套的爱情故事,这是我第一次谈对象,应该算是初恋吧,别人说初恋是最真的,可我觉得我们彼此确信//我们不是真心对待对方 但我又不想和他分开 我这是甚么呢?我觉得我太不可思议了 我不想这样可我又情不自禁```我这是怎么了? 这是不是就是玩弄感情?我怎样才能走出这个怪象限呢 我好讨厌我自己
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗到了一定的年龄段,感情的需要就是顺理成章的事情,或许,目前的你仅仅处于一种需要情感慰藉的状况,因此暂时处于两难的阶段,我理解。   不过,建议还是说说:如果不是真心相对,时间拖的长,未必是好事,与其如此,不如干脆了断。或许之后的真爱就会来临也未可知,你说呢?   

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年5月4日19:11:10

 第 5874 条留言  昵称:樱花  主题:第一次
 留言内容:
  第一次来啊
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〖版主回复〗有了第一次,以后就是非第一次了,呵呵……

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年5月4日15:42:59

 第 5873 条留言  昵称:丁当  主题:生活
 留言内容:
  来大学半年多了,总是郁闷,不知道干吗?所以用上网的方式来缓解寂寞,可是又担心学习,诶 老师我该怎办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗那就在上网和学习中度过自己的时间,这样就既不无聊,又学习了,你说如何?    一点小的建议是:上网其实也是很好的学习方式呢!好好利用!

    [回复]      222.31.12.* 留言者IP: 222.31.12.*    发表于:2008年5月4日11:09:15

 第 5872 条留言  昵称:大一  主题:大家不要是设置悄悄话
 留言内容:
  不要设置悄悄话 我们也可以交流
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗是的。不过,设置悄悄话的方式,目的只是避免不良信息出现,比如广告等。    你一定可以理解我,不是吗?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年5月4日10:43:29

 第 5871 条留言  昵称:大一  主题:张波老师 来看看你
 留言内容:
  张波老师 我是大一的 来看看你 顶一下马原老师 呵呵
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……谢谢支持!以后多来看看我、支持我!    也可以说说话,不是吗?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年5月4日10:41:55

 第 5870 条留言  昵称:冬东  主题:不能承受的痛
 留言内容:
  曾经我有一个让我感到很骄傲的哥哥,但是不幸的是因为意外他永远离开了这些因他而骄傲的人们,虽然时间已经过去很久了,但是它会不时的让我心痛,我应该去怎样想和怎样做才会让我减轻这种痛。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗让你成为别人的骄傲,或许是对你的哥哥怀念的最好的方式!   你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.14.* 留言者IP: 222.31.14.*    发表于:2008年5月4日9:32:11

 第 5869 条留言  昵称:美梦  主题:生活原来是这样
 留言内容:
  成长中的情怀不在朦胧,用自己的眼光打量世界,用自己的行动实践生活,我们留下那些点点滴滴的心情,沉甸甸的青春思绪将被装订成册,挂在年轻的心壁上等待检爰猿阅者的目光。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你对生活颇有独到的理解呢!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年5月4日8:01:44

 第 5868 条留言  昵称:笑着哭  主题:好累
 留言内容:
  我是一个班干,同样我是第一次当班干,所以我总是尽我所能去干好每一件班上的事,因为想干好我的工作我失去了很多,为什么我那么卖命的干可是效果和不好同学们的积极性始终不高,唉!突然觉得好失败,好累.心累了.每次班会看到同学门满脸冷漠 麻木 真让人心寒
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗这样的过程才是真正锻炼你的过程!!——我的体会就是这样的。    看来,目前你所需要的是,继续努力工作以让大家理解和认可,或者,是否可以调整一下你的工作方式和方法?    你的具体情况我不清楚,只能说这么多了。多想想,好好做!    一定可以做好的!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年4月30日11:40:06

 第 5867 条留言  昵称:公主  主题:道不同不相为谋
 留言内容:
  不知道自己这个学期怎么了,总想尽快找到一个与自己志同道合的朋友,同性异性我倒是没多想,只要与自己志同道合就行,一直以来我都以为大学是一个交流思想见解的平台,原来身边那么多堕落者!实在让自己伤心!最近我觉的自己的这种心理更强烈了......我究竟该怎么办?我不想变的麻木不仁,我想保持自己独特的个性特征。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗有思想锋芒的人,往往容易是孤独的,这很正常,你说呢?    其实,你是有点心急呢,不必着急,我想你一定可以找到你志同道合的朋友的!或许,你可能也需要反思自己、一定程度上改变一些自己,朋友的出现就更容易些,你说呢?

  853727150   [回复]      222.31.12.* 留言者IP: 222.31.12.*    发表于:2008年4月29日16:46:13

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