[公告]: 开学了,新学期、新征程、新奋斗、新收获!牛年发牛力,学海酷学习! [2021-3-3]
留言搜索:    您正在浏览第359页
 第 5866 条留言  昵称:郁儿  主题:改变
 留言内容:
  刚上大学时,我不适应,在集体活动中表现不好,为此我付出了惨重的代价,后来我努力改变自己,多次得到辅导员的表扬,但有些同学依然以旧眼光看我,出口伤人。我总是为此独自生气流眼泪。我该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗同学们也都是年轻人,说话办事难免有些不合适,你也是年轻人,我想你可以理解有些同学的有些语言和行动。    你既然努力了,辅导员也认可了,现在需要的是,继续努力,逐渐让少数不理解你的同学们最终理解你。我相信你一定可以成功!!记住:不放弃,不抛弃!!

    [回复]      222.31.14.* 留言者IP: 222.31.14.*    发表于:2008年4月29日16:37:41

 第 5865 条留言  昵称:郁儿  主题:
 留言内容:
  我觉得我有些多疑,我摆脱不了这种心理,我不开心,我该怎么做?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗说实话,从我的性格上来说,也有先天一些多疑的东西。但我努力克服这一不足,现在,好多了!当然这需要一定的时间。   你能认识到自己多疑的倾向,真的很好,以后需要努力的方面就是,尽量豁达些,其实很多事情,我们往简单处想,就很简单,不必往复杂处想,结果就完全是另外一个样子。   祝福你!

    [回复]      222.31.14.* 留言者IP: 222.31.14.*    发表于:2008年4月29日16:25:02

 第 5864 条留言  昵称:平凡中的特别  主题:看不顺眼
 留言内容:
  老师,我很郁闷哦,您说咱学校机房的管理是不是有问题呢?机房里上网干什么都是自由的,看电影有错吗?这也是一种学习啊,为什么管理员不让呢?一个大学生还被这样管着,我真想不通,我们都是出了钱来上学的,我们都是被服务的对象,怎么就成了犯人了?我们欠学校什么了?这就是中国的教育吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗按照我的理解,学校机房的设置可不是让大家看电影的,你说呢?   网络的应用,可以在很多方面提升自己,如果允许大家看电影,岂不成了简易的电影院?!自由是限制条件下的自由,大学生还是需要管理的,否则,你们都是出了钱来上学的,学校应尽到管理职责,你再好好想想?    多理解,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年4月29日9:19:56

 第 5863 条留言  昵称:灵一QQ  主题:所谓"恨"为爱画句点!只想你从此走出来!
 留言内容:
  好久没来了!最近发生了不少事情,我的世界总是这么丰富!
本以为就那样结束算了!本以为已经结束了,本以为对他好就OK了,本以为^^^^
如果当初对他没点感觉,就不会让他知道我那么多的秘密了,如果没一点感觉,就不会每晚跟他发短信发那么晚了,如果没感觉,就不会忍着煎熬让他不晓得我的痛苦了,如果没感觉就不会那么尽心的希望他开心了,如果没感觉,就不会那么关注他了,如果没感觉就不会在爬山时不顾生命的危险了,如果没感觉,就......
可我爱人的方式也只有自己能知道了,是啊!呵呵~最起码,他也说了,她那么爱他,这也就够了,最初的希望不就是想让他好吗?只要他好就行了呀!真真的希望他是开心的!
如果他能开心,让我怎么样都行!
爱一个人太累!也许今后再也不会这么傻瓜的去爱一个人了^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗或许,真爱的出现还需要一定的时间。你的想法其实很好,你的心态已经很好了,真的!    不妨专心做好作为学生应该做好的事情,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年4月29日8:29:48

 第 5862 条留言  昵称:沉默  主题:茫然
 留言内容:
  大学已经两年了,经历过快乐同样经历过痛苦,甚至茫然。
我这个人不太爱交流,大多选择沉默,于是看到别人的嬉笑有时会莫名的愤怒,看到别人快乐时又有时会莫名的痛苦。这样,加之自己平时的心情时好时坏,不禁感到无聊感到茫然!
老师,你说我怎样才能好些?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我认为,你可以在两个方面试试:一是尽量与人交流,别自我封闭起来,成为可能的套子里的人;二是欣赏别人的交流,去掉一些嫉妒的想法,生活其实很美好。如何?

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年4月28日19:47:17

 第 5861 条留言  昵称:分享  主题:迷茫
 留言内容:
  老师好,我是第二次来到这里,越来越喜欢这个可爱的地方了,似乎能找到自己的影子.我现在不喜欢上课,一是太不感兴趣,二是很难学,这个理由归根到底还是因为没兴趣.甚至坐的腰痛,每天只希望考前一个月攻下不挂课就ok了,没有闲书就不知道该如何打发上课时间,好无奈啊!老师,我是不是很颓废啊!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你倒是对号入座的不错,呵呵……    我想,你不是颓废,只是还没有发现大学中你应该达成的目标,除了拿上毕业证。    因此,你学习是为了不挂课,很被动。我很奇怪,那么的课,你都没有兴趣吗?应该不会。    建议:大学,有足够的时间、精力让你在某个方面成长、成熟,千万要找到几个要完成的目标,通过自己的努力,实现它!否则,大学真的就可能给你留下不少遗憾呢!    再想想?

    [回复]      202.207.233.* 留言者IP: 202.207.233.*    发表于:2008年4月28日9:39:48

 第 5860 条留言  昵称:中文系的老毕  主题:校友和老师们好
 留言内容:
  无意中又来到了我们学校的心灵家园,还和以前一样,毕业快4年了,还是怀念同学们,怀念老师,怀念我们那个熟悉的校园,远方的老毕业生嘱咐大家一切顺利!~
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗是“祝福”大家呢,还是“嘱咐”,呵呵……我想是祝福吧?   嗯,只要记得母校、老师,说明你是有情人一个呢!母校和老师们祝愿所有毕业的同学们有事没事的,常来这里看看,说说。拜拜!

  282505931   [回复]      118.74.81.* 留言者IP: 118.74.81.*    发表于:2008年4月27日22:57:19

 第 5859 条留言  昵称:追梦女孩  主题:difficult
 留言内容:
  最近,我认为身边人的许多做法都很俗,我有时很想逃离宿舍,逃离我所认识的人独自做自己想做的事,我不想在这里留下太多的痕迹,我发现自己还是不能面对现实,来到这儿我几乎和以前同学断了联系,我不敢也不想和他们联系,同学都在好大学读书,所以我下定决心要考研!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗决定考研绝对是一个非常好的选择!!   不过,俗人自有俗人的活法,我们需要理解,你说呢?   还有,考到这里,没有什么丢人的,照你的逻辑,我们当老师的就不能与其他大学的(曾经是同学的)老师们联系和交往了吗?一定不是!     或许,你有点心高气傲呢!——这是好的。祝福你,学习顺利,考研成功!!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年4月27日18:01:10

 第 5858 条留言  昵称:北半球  主题:我已不像我自己
 留言内容:
  老师,谢谢你的回复,我是个外向的人,可是我发现我现在变了,我对什么事都没有激情,他是我的初恋啊,他不愿意接受我是因为他还望不了前一个女生,我们认识163天了,可是现实中的我们就不怎么说话,就是通过短信交流,他是个比较内向的人,有时候我心里有什么都不能和他说,憋在心里就想哭,我不知道以后怎么相处了,我们每天都见面,难道就装做陌生人吗?这对我是不是太残忍了?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……这算什么残忍?    你不觉得这样其实也是不错的吗?比如我、我们,现在,哪里能有这样的感受,都是曾经的事情喽……    或许,等待是比较合适的选择,如果还没有更好的办法的时候,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.12.* 留言者IP: 222.31.12.*    发表于:2008年4月27日15:38:06

 第 5857 条留言  昵称:小帅  主题:回复豆豆
 留言内容:
  豆豆你好,,转系这个问题我刚上大学时也想过,可我现在想通了..和你共分享我自己的感悟:
人生的关键不在于拿了一副好牌,而在于打好一副坏牌。  
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗精辟!!呵呵……你真不简单啊,认识的很深刻.是的,成功的人生不是你有好牌,而是把坏牌打好.无论在哪里,我们都要努力奋斗的!

    [回复]      123.174.184.* 留言者IP: 123.174.184.*    发表于:2008年4月27日15:00:02

[1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10] [11] [12] [13] [14] [15] [16] [17] [18] [19] [20] [21] [22] [23] [24] [25] [26] [27] [28] [29] [30] [31] [32] [33] [34] [35] [36] [37] [38] [39] [40] [41] [42] [43] [44] [45] [46] [47] [48] [49] [50] [51] [52] [53] [54] [55] [56] [57] [58] [59] [60] [61] [62] [63] [64] [65] [66] [67] [68] [69] [70] [71] [72] [73] [74] [75] [76] [77] [78] [79] [80] [81] [82] [83] [84] [85] [86] [87] [88] [89] [90] [91] [92] [93] [94] [95] [96] [97] [98] [99] [100] [101] [102] [103] [104] [105] [106] [107] [108] [109] [110] [111] [112] [113] [114] [115] [116] [117] [118] [119] [120] [121] [122] [123] [124] [125] [126] [127] [128] [129] [130] [131] [132] [133] [134] [135] [136] [137] [138] [139] [140] [141] [142] [143] [144] [145] [146] [147] [148] [149] [150] [151] [152] [153] [154] [155] [156] [157] [158] [159] [160] [161] [162] [163] [164] [165] [166] [167] [168] [169] [170] [171] [172] [173] [174] [175] [176] [177] [178] [179] [180] [181] [182] [183] [184] [185] [186] [187] [188] [189] [190] [191] [192] [193] [194] [195] [196] [197] [198] [199] [200] [201] [202] [203] [204] [205] [206] [207] [208] [209] [210] [211] [212] [213] [214] [215] [216] [217] [218] [219] [220] [221] [222] [223] [224] [225] [226] [227] [228] [229] [230] [231] [232] [233] [234] [235] [236] [237] [238] [239] [240] [241] [242] [243] [244] [245] [246] [247] [248] [249] [250] [251] [252] [253] [254] [255] [256] [257] [258] [259] [260] [261] [262] [263] [264] [265] [266] [267] [268] [269] [270] [271] [272] [273] [274] [275] [276] [277] [278] [279] [280] [281] [282] [283] [284] [285] [286] [287] [288] [289] [290] [291] [292] [293] [294] [295] [296] [297] [298] [299] [300] [301] [302] [303] [304] [305] [306] [307] [308] [309] [310] [311] [312] [313] [314] [315] [316] [317] [318] [319] [320] [321] [322] [323] [324] [325] [326] [327] [328] [329] [330] [331] [332] [333] [334] [335] [336] [337] [338] [339] [340] [341] [342] [343] [344] [345] [346] [347] [348] [349] [350] [351] [352] [353] [354] [355] [356] [357] [358] [359] [360] [361] [362] [363] [364] [365] [366] [367] [368] [369] [370] [371] [372] [373] [374] [375] [376] [377] [378] [379] [380] [381] [382] [383] [384] [385] [386] [387] [388] [389] [390] [391] [392] [393] [394] [395] [396] [397] [398] [399] [400] [401] [402] [403] [404] [405] [406] [407] [408] [409] [410] [411] [412] [413] [414] [415] [416] [417] [418] [419] [420] [421] [422] [423] [424] [425] [426] [427] [428] [429] [430] [431] [432] [433] [434] [435] [436] [437] [438] [439] [440] [441] [442] [443] [444] [445] [446] [447] [448] [449] [450] [451] [452] [453] [454] [455] [456] [457] [458] [459] [460] [461] [462] [463] [464] [465] [466] [467] [468] [469] [470] [471] [472] [473] [474] [475] [476] [477] [478] [479] [480] [481] [482] [483] [484] [485] [486] [487] [488] [489] [490] [491] [492] [493] [494] [495] [496] [497] [498] [499] [500] [501] [502] [503] [504] [505] [506] [507] [508] [509] [510] [511] [512] [513] [514] [515] [516] [517] [518] [519] [520] [521] [522] [523] [524] [525] [526] [527] [528] [529] [530] [531] [532] [533] [534] [535] [536] [537] [538] [539] [540] [541] [542] [543] [544] [545] [546] [547] [548] [549] [550] [551] [552] [553] [554] [555] [556] [557] [558] [559] [560] [561] [562] [563] [564] [565] [566] [567] [568] [569] [570] [571] [572] [573] [574] [575] [576] [577] [578] [579] [580] [581] [582] [583] [584] [585] [586] [587] [588] [589] [590] [591] [592] [593] [594] [595] [596] [597] [598] [599] [600] [601] [602] [603] [604] [605] [606] [607] [608] [609] [610] [611] [612] [613] [614] [615] [616] [617] [618] [619] [620] [621] [622] [623] [624] [625] [626] [627] [628] [629] [630] [631] [632] [633] [634] [635] [636] [637] [638] [639] [640] [641] [642] [643] [644] [645] [646] [647] [648] [649] [650] [651] [652] [653] [654] [655] [656] [657] [658] [659] [660] [661] [662] [663] [664] [665] [666] [667] [668] [669] [670] [671] [672] [673] [674] [675] [676] [677] [678] [679] [680] [681] [682] [683] [684] [685] [686] [687] [688] [689] [690] [691] [692] [693] [694] [695] [696] [697] [698] [699] [700] [701] [702] [703] [704] [705] [706] [707] [708] [709] [710] [711] [712] [713] [714] [715] [716] [717] [718] [719] [720] [721] [722] [723] [724] [725] [726] [727] [728] [729] [730] [731] [732] [733] [734] [735] [736] [737] [738] [739] [740] [741] [742] [743] [744] [745] [746] [747] [748] [749] [750] [751] [752] [753] [754] [755] [756] [757] [758] [759] [760] [761] [762] [763] [764] [765] [766] [767] [768] [769] [770] [771] [772] [773] [774] [775] [776] [777] [778] [779] [780] [781] [782] [783] [784] [785] [786] [787] [788] [789] [790] [791] [792] [793] [794] [795] [796] [797] [798] [799] [800] [801] [802] [803] [804] [805] [806] [807] [808] [809] [810] [811] [812] [813] [814] [815] [816] [817] [818] [819] [820] [821] [822] [823] [824] [825] [826] [827] [828] [829] [830] [831] [832] [833] [834] [835] [836] [837] [838] [839] [840] [841] [842] [843] [844] [845] [846] [847] [848] [849] [850] [851] [852] [853] [854] [855] [856] [857] [858] [859] [860] [861] [862] [863] [864] [865] [866] [867] [868] [869] [870] [871] [872] [873] [874] [875] [876] [877] [878] [879] [880] [881] [882] [883] [884] [885] [886] [887] [888] [889] [890] [891] [892] [893] [894] [895] [896] [897] [898] [899] [900] [901] [902] [903] [904] [905] [906] [907] [908] [909] [910] [911] [912] [913] [914] [915] [916] [917] [918] [919] [920] [921] [922] [923] [924] [925] [926] [927] [928] [929] [930] [931] [932] [933] [934] [935] [936] [937] [938] [939] [940] [941] [942] [943] [944] [945]

技术支持:网络信息中心 © 2000-2012
版权所有:运城学院  版本:V2.00  授版:心灵交流 使用