[公告]: 假期一天,奋斗一天,幸福一天! [2023-1-10]
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 第 5882 条留言  昵称:逝文媛  主题:每一次记忆的伤疤
 留言内容:
  今日阴雨绵绵,弥漫着熟悉的味道,耳机里放着莫文蔚那首老歌<爱>,想一想,这感觉为何这般熟悉,哦!那是我在运城学院的时候,走在校园门口那条静而净的马路上的时刻.不得不承认,我是个太恋旧的人,怀念运城多雨的气候,缘于本身就是一个喜欢阴天的女孩.这里也是唯一能够找寻昔日影象的乐土.工作之余,会想起这里,想起那个让我恋念的运城学院.校园生活的点滴一次次出现在我的脑海中,有时,我真恨自己的软弱,为何出现在我生命中的男人都是这般蛮横这般大男子主义.真的是我太软弱吗?一次次的选择,一次次的感情付出,究竟换来了什么?为这样的男人一次次痛苦而泣明知不值却无法控制自己.难道非得一辈子逆来顺受?然,放弃有是又一次的痛苦.用情也是错???我彷徨着,困惑着,挣扎在一次次的情感旋涡中,找不到答案.读书的时候,工作的时候,恋爱的时候.......许多许多时候,每一次都充满了坎坷.真的好累.好累.旧伤未愈又添新痛.有些幸福不是我的.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!有时,勇敢的放弃是生活的智慧。太软弱的人是自己人生痛苦的制造者。站在社会的角度看,有的问题没有你想的那么痛苦。希望你能快乐、幸福地生活!

    [回复]      218.26.1.* 留言者IP: 218.26.1.*    发表于:2008年5月9日9:29:26

 第 5881 条留言  昵称:紫夜月狼  主题:谁来救偶啊!!!!!!
 留言内容:
  现在的学生是不是特无聊啊?整天不知道该干些什么?想一个人学习吧,又怕脱离群众,难道非要做一个孤独的皇帝么,我总觉的:人非草木,怎能无情.哎......................
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!你还没有体会到孤独的好处吧,孤独的时候是自由的;是能意识到自我存在的时候;也是可以朝着自己的目标努力奋斗的时候。当然,你不可能总是孤独的,和同学、老师、家长等真诚交流的时候,你会感到人类的快乐!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年5月8日19:57:22

 第 5880 条留言  昵称:无助  主题:I need help
 留言内容:
  好矛盾呀,这么多年来,我都很平静地过来了,仿佛青春期的一切不正常都与我无关。
一直以来内心都在矛盾着,明明内心有那种渴望,却要强的跟自己过不去,因此,总是以压抑式的自作自受收场。也许一切都应归咎于那该死的性格吧,太内向给人一种拒绝感以至于没人敢亲近?
同样,极度的不安全感使自己不敢去接近那种感情。但即使再矛盾,怎么能与人的基本需求相抗衡?我不是神仙,我无法摆脱青春期的躁动。我原来一直以为,就那样风平浪静过去就算了,越来越发现:树欲静而风不止啊!
我的五月好矛盾!更糟的是竟不知要持续到何时?现在感觉很无助,明明有喜欢人家的感觉,却又固执地跟自己过不去,内心总有个声音在提醒:现实不要允许!老师,Can you help me?
当内心矛盾时,就要失去方向,甚至有自暴自弃倾向,我知道那太可怕!但飞蛾扑火总在人精神脆弱是上演。无助啊!

  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!做自己该做的事情,但必须合法合理。有什么大不了的,无非是遭到拒绝嘛,那又怎样?我们是“中华民族的脊梁”,敢于面对现实,承担责任应该是大学生们的风格。把问题看简单点,没你想的那么复杂!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年5月8日18:09:14

 第 5879 条留言  昵称:  主题:做什么
 留言内容:
  来到大学,闲的不行!
凡是我同学大多数都是这么认为的!
想给自己订个目标却又找不到自己的位置,真晕!
给点意建:如何过大学生活?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵,什么是大学?大大地学习才是大学。学习知识,学习做事情,学习做人等,和中学比较大学里要学习的东西很多,而不是“闲的不行”。想想看,毕业以后会做什么,能做什么,现在不学习以后怎么办?在完成专业课学习任务的前提下,你们需要大量地阅读,每周至少读一、两本;每个学期拜访2位老师;参加几种活动等,这不是就有好多事情要做嘛!

    [回复]      222.31.12.* 留言者IP: 222.31.12.*    发表于:2008年5月8日9:05:10

 第 5878 条留言  昵称:010  主题:毕业
 留言内容:
  即将毕业了,和所有毕业生一样都有一颗不舍的心。不过学校的管理还是存在很大的问题啊,由于物价上涨国家给每生每月补助20元可为什么到了我们手里就只有15元呢?什么事情都得有道理才行的通,您说是吗?还有就是国家助学金说的是1500可是打到饭卡上也迟迟没见到。就毕业了都不知道是怎么回事郁闷啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗是啊!有的事情就是这样的,不过肯定会有结果的,别着急!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年5月7日21:11:40

 第 5877 条留言  昵称:蓬蒿  主题:好久没来了
 留言内容:
  转眼,毕业快一年了,生活的点滴,点滴的琐碎,越来越觉得喜欢上教师这个职业了,呵呵,看着自己的学生,总会满足.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗为你高兴啊!能体会地工作的成就感说明你很努力,你会是一个好教师的!

    [回复]      218.26.218.* 留言者IP: 218.26.218.*    发表于:2008年5月7日9:47:38

 第 5876 条留言  昵称:刘静  主题:感情遇到挫折
 留言内容:
  我一天可郁闷了,星期六去上网了,去他的空间看了一下,他的空间弄得可好了,还教别的人怎么制作空间,感觉自己什么都不会作可无能了,还有他的空间可多人都留言了,我想如果我留言他也不会看到,然后就在那儿看他的相册,有可多美女的相片了,我想着那肯定是他喜欢的人吧,昨晚我们又去上网了,刚好他也在线我们说了几句话,我问他还有多长时间他说快到了,我说我的时间也快到了,然后他说不聊了他还有事就下线了,是不是故意躲我呢,可烦恼了,然后我就又看他的空间相册全是那个女的照片,简直就是刺激人了吗,自己又没有自信,看人家那么漂亮自己根本配不上他,我整天都提不起神,没有什么可以让我兴奋得,活得无聊的,唉!大学生活怎么会这样呢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!选择是每个人的自由和权力,谁都决定不了别人的选择,尤其是情感。寻找适合自己的比追求不适合自己的会好的多,没有必要为此太痛苦了吧!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年5月7日8:40:52

 第 5875 条留言  昵称:一个女孩  主题:为什么?我该怎么办?
 留言内容:
  这几天我一直被一个问题困绕着,可是找不到答案:我不知道为什么他说不要再跟他联系了之后(我知道他是为了我好),虽然我整天闷闷不乐,可是却感觉不到那种心痛的感觉,难道是我已经麻木了?还是我已经放下了?可是我还是想要听到他的声音,还是会有意无意的想起他,我该怎么办啊?唉!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!这是女人天性的反映,我们往往会很情绪化的。冷静下来,想想你们会有什么结果,如果这样对你有好处,你就要珍惜现在的处境了。爱情以后还会遇到,可以后没有现在这样的学习机会了。转移目标,给自己找事情做,感觉就会好一些的。

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年5月6日21:14:44

 第 5874 条留言  昵称:笑破天  主题:相信吗?
 留言内容:
  老师:
你相信不相信一句话——没有人会真正在意你在做什么,所以大胆地去做你自己?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!有时是这样的。真正爱你的人是会在乎的!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年5月6日21:10:54

 第 5873 条留言  昵称:笑破天  主题:称赞别人?
 留言内容:
  老师:
都说‘和人交流,最好称赞别人,不要指责。’有时候,我也会这样口是心非地去称赞别人,不管是出于为了博取别人的欢心,或是没话找话...
但是,有时听着别人的赞美,我怎么觉得那么苦;感觉不到真诚,相反感觉到的是虚伪,既而感觉自己好孤单!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗真诚的称赞才能赢得人心。发现不了别人的优点的时候,可以微笑,不必要虚假地称赞。另外,有的人的称赞不一定虚假,那可能是你的感觉。人是需要赞美的,但要真诚!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年5月6日21:08:32

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