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 第 5716 条留言  昵称:深蓝  主题:老师你能帮我吗
 留言内容:
  我不为感情苦恼也 不为自己是否有能力发愁我就是自卑为一些很小的事自卑
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗要积极寻找到自己的闪光点,用自己的长处与别人的不足作些比较,或许你的自信心就会膨胀起来呢!呵呵……   其实,每个人都是优点和缺点并存的,因此,不自卑也不自负就是。  当然,需要一个过程,总有一定时期的存在,或许,过了这一个阶段就好了,不必太挂怀,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年3月19日19:17:12

 第 5715 条留言  昵称:  主题:无聊
 留言内容:
  我这几天忙着自考,需要记得东西很多,可越是紧张,我越学不进去,我无法使自己进入学习状态,我可怎么办啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗需要适当的放松,所以,我的建议是,学习固然紧张,但必要的松弛不能忽略。    张弛有致些,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年3月19日18:22:17

 第 5714 条留言  昵称:xushu  主题:青春的迷惑
 留言内容:
  有人说初恋是真正和喜欢的人在一起,而我的暗恋算不算初恋啊!一个女孩子暗恋一个人是很痛苦的,可是还没法儿说出来,我该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!也算吧。这个问题没有你想的那么复杂,说出来有什么,不过是对方接受和拒绝2种态度,无论什么结果,咱都努力过了,你说呢!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年3月19日8:13:22

 第 5713 条留言  昵称:蓝色幻想  主题:自己的梦想
 留言内容:
  好久了,我心里想的就是不能确定啊!虽然我知道我考上研究生的机会不是很大,但我想去考公务员,但是在和同学的交流间,我发现自己太不考虑现实了,所以我把自己的梦想下到了考省里的公务员。虽然我已经准备了,可还是不能静下心。而且我还心里想着考一下研究生,虽然我知道人的精力是有限的,但我会去努力,可还是天天不能冷静下来啊!经过这一个月的思考,我想我明白了一些,不管自己要什么,只要你自己去努力争取,不要想结果,尽管这真的很难,但我现在已经努力的要求自己每天去踏踏实实的学习,不要想那些没用的,可是思想这个东西真的很不好控制啊,我不知道我是否会坚持下去,但我有信心啊!虽然我还有很多的东西要去学习,还有很多的道理需要老师的帮忙,但真的很想给自己最好的机会去把握!希望老师能帮我想想办法!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!你不是已经意识到了吗,不要想那些没有用的,专心学习就可以了。你在选择判断的时候,时间不就浪费了吗?你说是吧!

    [回复]      60.222.229.* 留言者IP: 60.222.229.*    发表于:2008年3月19日6:24:43

 第 5712 条留言  昵称:苦闷  主题:我的不解
 留言内容:
  老师.我是大一的学生,从去年来了这里就和我的好朋友分开了,以前我们在一起是会生气,可现在不在一起有很想他,着还没有什么,关键是我们都是男孩子,我觉得我很不够干脆.来了这里不想交朋友就一直是沉在过去的影子里,我也想,我不可能是大家说的喜欢同性,可是就是忘不了他,我该怎么办啊??
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!接受新的朋友、做自己现在最应该,必须做的事情,从这个阴影中跳出来!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年3月18日20:27:35

 第 5711 条留言  昵称:  主题:淡淡忧伤
 留言内容:
  老师你好,
前不久的时候,我和我的一个朋友好了,可没几天我们又选择了分开。原因是他现在已经上班了,而我却还在学校。家庭的原因注定我们走不到一起,虽然我们彼此都在乎对方。但我不想去耽搁他。或许他在他上班的地方能找到他的真爱吧。现在我的心里非常的难受。打电话,发短信。没有了以前那么多的话语了。他对我也冷淡了。我想既然现实不能让我们在一起,那我们还可以是朋友,毕竟我们以前关系那么好。可是我的努力是白费了。他不能理解我。可以换句话说,他有点恨我。他觉得我欺骗了他。我现在真不知该怎么办?真的就不可能作回朋友吗?是不是我的想法太理想化了?我真的觉得感情在现实面前是那么的脆弱。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!做朋友也需要缘分的。男女之间虽然有友谊,但不是对所有的人来说。男人的责任心和女人的理智是男女之间存在友谊的重要条件,当然还需要双方之间有一定的智慧、现实的环境条件等,这些都是做朋友的因素。理智是引导情感的!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2008年3月17日20:48:55

 第 5710 条留言  昵称:平凡中的特别  主题:活着真累
 留言内容:
  老师,我觉着人有时候人活的真累啊。一天就是那些破事,过了一年又一年。真想做些什么来充实一下自己,让自己觉得不白活。这是不是心累了?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!用心感受你以前没有做过的事情,那新鲜的感觉、尝试后的兴奋感和成功后的成就感难道不值得高兴吗?经历过的事情往往能使你获得新的认识、感受,这意味着你在不断成熟。意义存在于事情的过程中,快乐体验于用心!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2008年3月17日20:30:13

 第 5709 条留言  昵称:  主题:男男女女
 留言内容:
  爱情在这个社会里到底算什么..同事大我两岁,好象有了,她笑说:好恐怖,如果有就要结婚了...他们真的有能力去结婚吗?真的确定要和对方一辈子吗?还是不能接受,哎,现在的人怎么那么容易交出自己?他们真的有爱情吗?爱情到底是什么东西,呵呵.

  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!爱情是一场甜蜜的痛苦!世界上没有永恒的东西,永恒的东西需要创造。爱情就需要不断地创造新内容的,发现对方的优点!

    [回复]      218.17.79.* 留言者IP: 218.17.79.*    发表于:2008年3月17日11:18:00

 第 5708 条留言  昵称:蜗牛  主题:寂寞在唱歌
 留言内容:
  你好,我也不知道怎么的会时不时的感到寂寞,孤单,感觉别人总是嘲笑我,总觉得事事不如人,我对别人很好,可他们对我却很冷淡。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵!那是你的感觉有问题了。换个角度看问题试试!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2008年3月17日8:00:27

 第 5707 条留言  昵称:微微南来风  主题:help
 留言内容:
  老师们你们好,最近很忙,心里也很难受,尽管每天还是那样的面带微笑。差不多是上一周的事吧,姐姐发来信息说她小孩因为生病而永远的离开了这个世界。姐姐嫁到外省,她小孩才四岁,今年刚上学,已经两年没见她了,还准备明年回......
家人都特别的伤心,特别是我姐和妈,虽然我现在差不多能摆脱掉那种伤痛的心情,可是我却不知怎么去安慰我的亲人们,打了几次电话给他们,可是我发现其实她们一个个都是特别痛苦。有时我发现我真的好没用,不能让我的亲人们摆脱一些痛苦。有时真的感觉人的生命太脆弱了,也太难预测了。
亲爱的老师们,不知你们能否为我提供一些好的方法让我的亲人们走出困境?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!一给她们时间让她们有个过程接收这个现实。二做好自己的事情给她们安慰。三尽量不提这事情,说别的。试试吧!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2008年3月16日18:29:28

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