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 第 9124 条留言  昵称:啊啊  主题:烦恼
 留言内容:
  一顿饭吃的我一肚子悔恨,社交恐惧症好
难改。
我真的很不喜欢自己,为什么家里人都
那么喜欢交朋友,偏偏我就是社交恐惧症
呢?
老师,我该怎么办?
因为这件事我得难受好几天了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,同学,这件事情没你想的那么复杂和严重。你对社交恐惧在某种程度上讲是正常的。家长们在中学阶段过分关注成绩而忽视了孩子的社交需求,忘记了孩子是社会的人,孩子要学会一些社交的基本礼仪和技巧。等到了大学真正开始社交时,好多孩子基本上是零经验。赴饭局前,家长没意识到要给孩子交代情况,你也没意识到要问清楚,所以就有了尴尬。不过都是认识的人,过后积极联络下,没人会和你一个学生计较的,不必难受。以后要走出自己的小圈子,多参加社交活动积累经验。就先从班级活动和学校的各种社团活动开始吧,加油!

    [回复]      171.121.27.* 留言者IP: 171.121.27.*    发表于:2018年1月10日14:37:35

 第 9123 条留言  昵称:啊啊  主题:烦恼
 留言内容:
  老师,我想哭
我这个社恐好严重,今天我爸的朋友请
我们全家吃饭,知道这个消息后我就开始
痛苦了,最后硬着头皮去了,我妈有事没
去,就我和我爸,结果去了一看,我呆
了,一桌子除了我全是男人,我这个尴
尬,虽然这些人我也基本都见过,但是坐
在一起吃饭总觉得压抑和不自在,我有个
坏毛病就是不高兴了就控制不住地会表现
在脸上,所以吃饭的过程中可能惹到了我
爸的几个朋友,真是恨死自己了,搞得我
爸也没面子,(接下页)
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗见后一条回复哦!

    [回复]      171.121.27.* 留言者IP: 171.121.27.*    发表于:2018年1月10日14:34:16

 第 9122 条留言  昵称:呀呀呀  主题:总是胡思乱想
 留言内容:
  老师,我觉得我的性格有问题总是太在乎别
人对自己的看法,总要去不断的猜测别人对
我的看法,而且我总是容易多想,就比如我
带手机去洗澡,总觉得手机会丢就一直不停
的想,其实丢不了但我就一直会这样想,有
时候因为有一些事情总是会影响我的心情,
晚上也睡不好,不知道是怎么回事
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗胡思乱想经常会导致情绪悲观,所以你才会比较敏感、才会高度关注别人对你的看法。前总理说过“空谈误国,实干兴邦”,同样,空想会误人生滴!现习大大说过,“幸福都是奋斗出来的”,所以去做一些具体的事,比如背单词、体育运动、家务活、玩耍,让你的行动给你带来直观的收获,这样的收获将很大程度上弥补你在胡思乱想中零获得的失落情绪。积累了众多的获得感后你会变得积极、自信、开朗!

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2018年1月6日20:04:43

 第 9121 条留言  昵称:123  主题:怎么办?
 留言内容:
  反省自己的性格,从不会像别人那样开开玩笑,
想表达的表达了,要办的事也办了,想学也学不
来,不爱说话,还特别不会说话,越这样想越差
劲,感觉别人都很不喜欢我,同事,领导,就因
为这样难道我就不能找个相对好点的结婚对象
吗?虽然现在工资还不错,该不该继续挑下去,
快成剩女了,可心有不甘,怎么办?到底该怎么
想,如何考虑,才是最好的结果?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我们不可能找到十全十美,事情不可能两全其美,所以人们才惦记那个被咬了一口的苹果。人也是一样,你的性格就是你本人最大的特征,总会有人欣赏你的不一样。同样,挑男朋友,要学会发现并欣赏对方身上的优点,这样我们最后的状态就是各美其美,美美与共,祝早日找到你的幸福!另外,要想学会在谈话中找到好的话题、提高谈话的幽默感,可以平时多读点书,不是讲“腹有诗书气自华”嘛!

    [回复]      111.53.154.* 留言者IP: 111.53.154.*    发表于:2018年1月5日17:18:16

 第 9120 条留言  昵称:Anna  主题:学习成绩报告认证
 留言内容:
  你好,老师们!新年快乐哈!
已经毕业一年多了,还是很怀念在学校的美好时光。目前我在国外文化交流,进一步留学,需要提供我的成绩报告认证中英文的,我可否直接联系某个教务老师,发送邮件来获取我的成绩单?或者需要我的朋友亲自去趟学校替我查询我的成绩单?谢谢!
祝您工作顺利!开开心心!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗Anna同学,你好,谢谢你对老师们的新年祝福。首先恭喜你能获得在国外进一步留学深造的宝贵机会,祝学习进步!其次,你在运城学院学习期间成绩认证的事请拨打我院教务处电话0359-2090104咨询,相关老师会具体指导你获得你所需要的学习成绩认证报告,祝顺利!

  927941748   [回复]      209.181.233.* 留言者IP: 209.181.233.*    发表于:2018年1月5日11:38:56

 第 9119 条留言  昵称:无助  主题:兼职
 留言内容:
  老师,在在外面兼职被拖欠工资,怎么办
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗学生打工是短期行为,不属于用人单位和劳动者之间的正式劳动关系,无法进行简单的劳动仲裁。如果数额较大,可以去法院起诉。如果人数比较多,可以一起到单位要求支付,施压点压力,明确告诉单位拖欠工资已经属于违法行为,在偿还工资时,需再支付当事人本金的50%到100%赔偿费用,并需要支付在讨薪过程中造成的全部费用,除此拖欠工资的公司或单位会被当地劳动局记录在案,并进行公示,之后不得参与竞标,贷款等行为,强调说明,拖欠工资并情节严重者将被判处1到3年有期徒刑,公司也将做停业处理。晓以利害让单位感觉到压力和面子上的不好意思,也许就付了。 也在此提醒我院大学生兼职时,首先要留意用人单位是否有拖欠工资的记录,以免造成不必要的麻烦和损失,当出现拖欠工资行为的时候,要留存讨要工资时的录音、短信、微信等证据,一定要用法律武器维护自己的合法权益。

  1505389519   [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2018年1月4日21:38:11

 第 9118 条留言  昵称:岳小明  主题:转专业问题
 留言内容:
  我在一个自己不喜欢也不适合自己的专业待了两年了。可是没法转专业。因为实在提不起兴趣,成绩一直倒数。总挂科。想问下学位证到底是按15分挂够不给还是一个系百分之几的固定数?真的很担心四年来一场空。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我觉得你最主要的还是心态的问题,不喜欢并不妨碍你做好它;即使你现在学的是你喜欢的专业,将来很大程度上也未必能从事相关职业。既然转不了专业,那就好好学现在的专业,做到术业有专攻,实现专长的有效性,赢得就业优势。学位证是各系根据成绩等制定的淘汰政策,希望你努力学习、抓住机会,不辜负大学这人生芳华!

    [回复]      60.222.228.* 留言者IP: 60.222.228.*    发表于:2018年1月4日8:24:41

 第 9117 条留言  昵称:啦啦啦  主题:心情
 留言内容:
  老师,您说要怎么做才能使自己做到不悲不
喜,每天总会有一些小事情影响我的心情,
朋友说对于自己不在乎的人和事,不必伤
心,顺其自然就好,但是我老做不到,您说
我是不是太不成熟了呢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,你的这种心态属于这个年龄段典型的 “小儿女心态”。与社会联系不多,视野局限于自己和周围的生活,稍有风吹草动,你内心就是“惊涛骇浪”了。试着走出宿舍,积极参与班级乃至学院的活动,有机会的话校外活动也可以参加。有了学习的任务和这些“大事”要做,你就没时间为这些琐事“悲秋伤月”了,试试看哦……

    [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2018年1月2日19:53:52

 第 9116 条留言  昵称:不高兴  主题:情感
 留言内容:
  老师我想让您分析一下我这个是什么原因导
致的。就是我老接受不了别人对我的批评,
他们当面说的时候,我不会去反驳,但是事
后,心里总会不舒服,不论这个批评是大是
小,总会影响到我,老师您说应该怎么处理
这样的现象!谢谢老师
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗生活中,一个人无论多么优秀,多么完美,总有一些这样那样的缺点,因此,在人的一生中,被批评是很平常的事情,关键是看怎么样对待批评。善待批评是一种修养、心胸、境界。会主动听取别人的意见,才能不断改进自己的工作。别人的意见是对你最好的礼物,可是,如果你没有足够的涵养,你可能会丧失掉这个成长的好机会。在生活中,只要我们保持积极的态度,善待批评,那么,我们的人生将会更加成功,事业也会更加辉煌。面对批评,保持内心强大!

    [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2018年1月2日19:31:30

 第 9115 条留言  昵称:意义  主题:问题
 留言内容:
  大三要考研,之前重心放在学习上,没有积极递
交过思想汇报,但是想要入党,又觉得现在入党
的话会影响考研,没有时间,考研后研究生阶段
还有机会。老师能给点建议吗
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗如果你真的对组织有信仰,考研和交思想汇报不冲突,考研本身就是要求上进的积极表现,再说你也不能一天二十四小时埋头复习考研啊,你说是吧? 如果说心中没有信仰,只是为了给自己“镀金”,那请你慎重考虑。现在组织更关注党员的质量,不再只注重数量,入党的难度比过去更高。

    [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2017年12月29日21:57:24

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