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 第 9012 条留言  昵称:  主题:放假
 留言内容:
  学校二月放假什么最早什么时候可以住学校。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗“话”同学,你好,关于假后公寓入住的问题,请咨询公寓服务中心,电话0359-8594418,谢谢。

    [回复]      183.190.248.* 留言者IP: 183.190.248.*    发表于:2017年2月8日10:55:23

 第 9011 条留言  昵称:释怀  主题:释怀
 留言内容:
  从前的许多事到现在想起来还不能忘记,每次
想的头疼的就不行,但是就是忘不了,忘老师
求解。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗忘不了就暂时放心里呗。忘不了过往的从前从侧面说明了一个问题,你目前的生活还还没有充分燃烧你内心的激情,你还需要再调整状态。真正进入状态了,你会发现自己已经有一段时间,进而是好长时间没想起痛疼的从前了。其实,时间是治愈系的大师。生活前行、岁月积淀后,不管当初是多么地的刻骨铭心、痛不欲生,到如今也只是一段记忆深刻的过去,却已感受不到疼痛了,因为有更鲜活、精彩的现实等你来感受!

    [回复]      118.74.29.* 留言者IP: 118.74.29.*    发表于:2017年2月6日21:15:20

 第 9010 条留言  昵称:懵懵懂懂的小  主题:喜欢与被喜欢
 留言内容:
  如何知道自己在喜欢的人心中的地位啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,如果你在他(她)心里位置足够重要的话,对方会时刻关注所有和你有关的人和事,进一步会关心你自己。最能直接泄露秘密的就是对方的眼睛和眼神,这些你都感受到了吗?祝你好运哦!

    [回复]      1.180.212.* 留言者IP: 1.180.212.*    发表于:2017年2月6日16:52:46

 第 9009 条留言  昵称:卑落  主题:相亲
 留言内容:
  老师,你好,每年过年回家都会被催婚,本
命年刚过就老是被介绍相亲,心里好累。而
且自己就没有想要找对象的想法。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,能理解你的心情,但“相亲”和“逼婚”已逐渐成为了中国年文化的组成的一部分。父母催你也只是担心你成为现代社会的“齐天大剩”,背后都是满满的爱。暂时没有想法的话就直接告诉父母,“心急吃不了热豆腐”,你要等待那个适合你的人。同时,把握好度,本命年已过,“悠悠”岁月,稍纵即逝!望“卑落”成“快乐”!

    [回复]      112.35.17.* 留言者IP: 112.35.17.*    发表于:2017年2月4日12:47:49

 第 9008 条留言  昵称:123  主题:过年
 留言内容:
  本来过年应该是高兴的一家人团聚,可记忆
中我们家每年快过年的这几天总避免不了有
吵架发生,小时候是这样,长大了虽然有点
改变,但还是免不了,这么多个年过得真是
不容易啊,有时候只能怨自己不会协调,真
的弄不明白,感觉快影响了自己的未来生
活,心里害怕自己以后过得也是这样的生活.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗新年好!因放假回老家没网络回复迟了,望见谅!春节,万家团圆。亲人们相聚,正是因为是亲人,有爱、有期望、也有期望不达标后的失望和争吵。当然,路人甲、路人乙是不会和你们吵的,呵呵!劝解亲人们多站在对方的立场上思考问题,事情就好办多了!亲历了这些,相信你能客观地面对这些情况、并能在自己以后的生活中会注意避免这些问题。祝好心情!

    [回复]      118.73.169.* 留言者IP: 118.73.169.*    发表于:2017年1月26日12:24:59

 第 9007 条留言  昵称:宝贝  主题:风娃娃
 留言内容:
  毕业三年了,找工作恋爱结婚,如今快要生娃了,看着留言感觉时间好快,很羡慕在象牙塔里的学弟学妹,祝福母校,祝福自己
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗“宝贝”同学,先给你即将降生的小宝贝打声招呼!不错呀,三年的时间,你成功地完成了从学生到“社会人”重要环节的对接,祝贺你。作为学院的老师,我们为你而自豪!同时,希望你们常回家看看,你们这样的留言都会激励学弟学妹们使出洪荒之力为能拥有像你这样的未来而奋斗!

    [回复]      60.223.153.* 留言者IP: 60.223.153.*    发表于:2017年1月22日15:08:48

 第 9006 条留言  昵称:木鱼  主题:交友
 留言内容:
  老师,我觉得自己性格很小气,就是对身边
的好朋友会有一种占有欲,总是希望他们只
对自己好,只和自己好。而且有时候如果好
朋友有了更好的朋友,对别人比对我好的
话,我会很失落。我为什么总在比较中纠结
呢?老师,我应该如何调节这种想法呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,木鱼,你说的问题是青春期同学的普遍心理,尤其是女孩子!这个时期的同学人际关系相对简单,关注的朋友也就相对集中。首先,真诚地对待朋友,从心里关心、帮助朋友,朋友自然也会真诚地待你;其次,心胸要开阔。人是社会的人,“没有哪个谁是你专属的谁”,包括你自己也是这样!丰富自己的生活,会有更多志同道合的好朋友的。朋友多了,你就没有时间去比较、纠结了!

    [回复]      117.136.90.* 留言者IP: 117.136.90.*    发表于:2017年1月21日19:36:54

 第 9005 条留言  昵称:123  主题:学历
 留言内容:
  老师您好,您说两个人结婚,两个人学历的
太大区别对以后生活会不会影响很大?之前
处的一个对象,学历相当,但总觉得对自己
不够好,而且工作也不稳定;最近认识一个
初中毕业的,虽然学历低,但对我好,只是
不确定这种好是暂时的,还是能如他自己说
的,一直下去,现在挺害怕对方只是在骗
我,到底该如何辨别呢?以前一直觉得自己
应该不会太在意对方学历,现在真遇上了,
还是很担心人们说的会出现的种种问题.谢谢
老师每次都耐心的解答
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!客观上讲,学历的差异可能导致你们处理问题时思维上的差异,但如果双方能很好地沟通,或许问题不大。至于他对你的好,如果是真心的,他会处处从你的真实情况出发为你着想。最后想说一句话供参考:"鞋子舒服不舒服,只有脚才知道".

    [回复]      111.53.154.* 留言者IP: 111.53.154.*    发表于:2017年1月19日15:30:06

 第 9004 条留言  昵称:仔仔  主题:烦恼
 留言内容:
  老师您好:
我还是对目前的工作不大满意,可是家里面
的人总是打击讽刺和挖苦,主要是之前我有半年的
时间处于找工作的状态,毕业已有一年有余,从事
的都是教育行业,我深深的觉得自己不大适合这个
行业,也提不起兴趣,但是家人对我目前的工作比
较满意,想让我尽快稳定下来,毕竟26了!不想
以后都从事自己不喜欢的工作,也不知道怎么说服
家人……
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗 我觉得你的潜意识里有个定律,好像职业一旦确定了就无法改变了。其实不是这样的,孙逸仙博士当年学医时科科优秀也不妨碍他后来投身革命啊!在目前找不到更好工作的情况下,不妨先稳定下来。有没有兴趣不是最重要的,只要你努力都能把工作做好,同时积淀社会经验、积攒人脉、积累以后另换工作所需的各种原始资本,期间也方便解决个人问题。一旦当机会来临,做好全方位准备的你一定能获取你满意的工作!“成家立业”两不耽误,你说呢?

    [回复]      220.173.106.* 留言者IP: 220.173.106.*    发表于:2017年1月17日11:00:52

 第 9003 条留言  昵称:成长的困惑  主题:工作与生活
 留言内容:
  感觉我的世界怎么和别人的差别那么大,是
我从小到大可以地除掉那些不喜欢的东西
吗?以至于我的经历这么简单,思想也这么
狭窄,很多东西不明白,很多事情不会做,
我常常劝自己说,没事,慢慢学不就好了,
可我真的没太大自信,研究生阶段很多事不
如意,我常常怀疑自己,老师,我真的担心
自己看不见未来,我究竟应该怎么做,感觉
自己虽然已经25周岁了,可还是一个什么都
不懂的女生,为什么会这样,我不想这样…
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗很理解你现在的处境和心情,可以想象出你是个顺境中成长、专心学习的乖乖女哦!你从大学到研究生的生活都处于象牙塔的“真空”岁月,缺少和社会的联系。但是你要知道“纸上得来终觉浅,觉知万事要躬行”,学校学到的知识必须拿到社会进行实践,你要参加一些社会活动增加社会阅历,来了解你所学的专业在社会上的真实状况。正是因为这些方面的无知才导致了你在心理上对社会和未来的极度恐惧。其实问题的解决很简单,抽出一段时间,找家和你所学专业相关的单位去实习下。有无工资或工资多少都是次要的,主要看看你所学专业在社会上的运作流程、发展前景等等。同时通过这个窗口来了解社会、扩充你的知识面。心里了解了,熟悉了,有底气了自然就对未来不怕了。时间和经济都允许的话,还可以出去旅行或者参加一些社团活动,扩大自己生活的圈子,才有可能圈中未来的那个他,你说呢?

    [回复]      120.236.154.* 留言者IP: 120.236.154.*    发表于:2017年1月16日22:59:59

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