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 第 8990 条留言  昵称:赤月  主题:活着只是为了活着
 留言内容:
  2你好,请问人活着究竟是为了什么?
人之所以不愿意死是不是因为没有找
到死的理由,或者是没有勇气走向死
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗生活就是要生下来,活下去! 人活着一定会遇到各种挫折,面对挫折 ,不同的人有不同的选择。 我觉得人之所以不选择去死不是因为没有找到死的理由或者是没有勇气走向死亡,而是因为他们明白自己的价值:妈妈如果在挫折后选择死亡,那么意味着她的孩子在放学后连一顿果腹的饭菜都没有,更别提嘘寒问暖的关心了!孩子如果在挫折后选择一了百了的死亡,则意味着他的父母在饱受丧子之痛后还会经历更加凄凉的晚年!正是因为明白了价值之所在,94岁的吴孟群院士还依然站在手术台上拯救苍生! 你能思考这么“高大上”的问题,说明你真的在认真思考人生。但想了就要好好想明白,想明白后的人生才会更坚强!建议你去看看南航徐川的文章《说说生死》,你会明白更多!

  18435996506   [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年12月19日17:39:31

 第 8989 条留言  昵称:小诺  主题:异地恋
 留言内容:
  老师,我和我男朋友异地恋,他已经工作了,
有时候视频的时候,他说因为工作累话不多,
不想把负面情绪带给我所以晚上就催我早点
睡。我是相信他的。
问题一:这样异地,我能做什么帮他调节一下
心情呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,你是一枚温暖而坚强的异地恋中的小女朋友!异地恋是非常辛苦的,空间的距离容易使人感受到更多的孤独、寂寞,你想通过自己的努力把温暖送给远在异地的他,真好! 敞开心扉告诉他,爱是要信任、要相互分担的。因为分担,才会感觉到责任、牵挂、温暖,爱才会走得更长远!即使他向你抱怨了工作及生活的一系列不如意,听完了之后你也因为不能帮助他而产生深深的无力感,这都没关系。重要的是他向最亲的人倾诉本身就是一种减压放松的方式,而你在了解了他的各种累后会逐渐学会独立,这对目前的他就是最好的帮助啊! 还可以把你生活中有趣的,有意义的事情分享给他,用自己的积极向上的心态感染他,让他感受到生活的乐趣和意义!

  2461691922   [回复]      113.24.124.* 留言者IP: 113.24.124.*    发表于:2016年12月18日23:05:04

 第 8988 条留言  昵称:某某某  主题:紧急,很急,,,
 留言内容:
  老师,怎么知道自己补考过了没?求回答,很
着急
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗如果是上学期补考的请上教务处网站查询。如果是这学期刚刚考完网上查不到的,就只能咨询该课程的任课教师了。祝你好运哦!

    [回复]      10.188.117.* 留言者IP: 10.188.117.*    发表于:2016年12月18日19:18:45

 第 8987 条留言  昵称:半城  主题:心理咨询
 留言内容:
  老师,咱们学校的心理咨询室在哪里,我应该通过怎样的方式咨询,怀疑自己心理有问题了!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我院心理咨询室在王通楼4215,电话8594012。祝你早日拥有雨后的阳光和彩虹!

  1422154715   [回复]      100.100.13.* 留言者IP: 100.100.13.*    发表于:2016年12月16日12:06:59

 第 8986 条留言  昵称:J  主题:心理信箱
 留言内容:
  学院的心理信箱一直没有人回复,既然如此,又
何必设置那个东西,徒留给别人希望,让别人在
等待中渐渐绝望呢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗或许是临近考试了,写信的学生少了,老师也忙于出题考试而留心不到,希望见谅。我已经和主管心理信箱的老师沟通过了,相信你的问题很快能够解决,静心等待哦!

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年12月15日21:47:27

 第 8985 条留言  昵称:木鱼  主题:困惑(接上条)
 留言内容:
  老师,你说他是不是认识我比较久,没有新鲜感
了,所以老不大主动和我说话啊。我心里老是有
些失落,老师你说我这是不是太小心眼了啊,本
来他就不属于我一个人,看到他和别人那么亲
密,看到他对人家好我怎么会有些难受呢?本来
他就不属于我一个人,看到他和别人那么亲密,
看到他对人家好我怎么会有些难受呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗这说明你爱上他了,自己又不肯承认。《思想道德修养与法律基础》课讲爱情是一对男女基于一定的社会基础和共同的生活理想,在各自内心形成的相互倾慕,并渴望对方成为自己终身伴侣的一种强烈、纯真、专一的感情。因此有人说爱情是自私的,你的这些感受都很正常。当然爱情是相互喜欢,你和这位异性朋友之间的感情还不算是爱情。建议你冷静思考,妥善处理好爱情和友情的关系。

    [回复]      59.48.150.* 留言者IP: 59.48.150.*    发表于:2016年12月14日22:47:20

 第 8984 条留言  昵称:木鱼  主题:困惑
 留言内容:
  老师,我有一个异性朋友,刚开始我们俩关系很
好,打打闹闹,但单纯只是朋友,有次我就带着
这个异性朋友认识了我一个闺蜜,后来我们三个
就常常一起出去玩,成为了好朋友,有近半年的
时间了吧。我偶尔和我这个异性朋友会吵架,可
是他很少对我闺蜜发脾气。我最近总觉得他在乎
我闺蜜比较多一点,有事没事也会主动给人家发
短信,说话很客气,不像对我那样大吼大叫。老
师,你说他是不是认识我比较久,没有新鲜感
了,所以老不大主动和我说
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我没猜错的话,你对这位异性朋友的感情介于友情与爱情之间。你的异性朋友只对你发脾气,因为他知道你很在乎他,不会骂他不会发脾气,长此以往你给他惯出了这个毛病。他对你的闺蜜客气,也许是你的闺蜜对他有新鲜感。这让你吃醋了,但你又无可奈何,因为你和她并不是男女朋友关系。顺便告诉你,假如真是男女朋友关系,在生活中闺蜜爱上男友的事也是频频发生。一面是爱情,一面是友情,真的是进退两难,让人伤心欲绝。这时注意以下事项:一、防患于未然,让闺蜜与男友保持距离,甚至不要给他们创造认识的机会。二、不要用闺蜜去考验自己的男友,输赢都对你不利。三、始终相信友情与爱情会长久,用感恩的心态面对。

    [回复]      59.48.150.* 留言者IP: 59.48.150.*    发表于:2016年12月14日22:45:57

 第 8983 条留言  昵称:气球  主题:电话
 留言内容:
  玩体育系拍球老师电话?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗玩体育系排球老师电话?是问体育系排球老师电话吧。私人电话不方便在这儿透露。这个你要到体育系办公室打听。

  2542204929   [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年12月13日21:37:44

 第 8982 条留言  昵称:qqq  主题:挂科
 留言内容:
  老师,我的体育大一下学期没学,在学院网页上是0分,我不知道选课吗重新选上了吗?如果我挂了,我还需要
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗有关体育课成绩,可以和教务处教务科联系,电话2095210

  2542204929   [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年12月13日21:28:03

 第 8981 条留言  昵称:小双卉  主题:匆匆那年
 留言内容:
  老师您好:
前两次和您聊过,现在我大四在北京实习。可能没有理解我的苦,在北京会舍不得吃饭省下钱来攒着回学校买火车票,会和经理闹的不愉快非要请假回学校。有多少学生想要好好的安安静静的在学校复习考研因为要实习所以放弃考研。我知道有许多事情程序是必须要走的可是能不能灵活一点点,大四实习的我们真心的不容易。希望可以得到学校的理解。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗想起来了,你是中文系大四的学生,你以前在心灵交流栏目讲过自己选择在北京实习,因为入党的事情在学校和北京实习单位之间疲于奔命,很累。有些事情我们无力改变,那就只能在事前做好筹划。比如你估计自己可能会被吸收为积极分子或预备党员,当初在选择实习单位时就应该选择在学校附近实习。即使如此,有些情况也只能是两害相权取其轻,难以兼顾。 所以……挺正常的!

    [回复]      123.123.255.* 留言者IP: 123.123.255.*    发表于:2016年12月13日19:45:53

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