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 第 8966 条留言  昵称:布凯鑫  主题:回报
 留言内容:
  当你的付出没有回报时,你会怎么做。一些事你本
没错,但是别人就冤枉你,该怎么办,好伤心啊。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗人们常说不付出哪有回报。不付出必然没有回报,付出也未必就一定能实现目标。比如你看现在大四那么多同学积极备战考研,但最后肯定有好些同学考不上。努力过就没有遗憾。至于别人冤枉你,你可以给对方解释沟通,如果他不听,也没什么大不了的。过段时间自然一切就清楚了。

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年11月17日23:06:03

 第 8965 条留言  昵称:傻孩子  主题:烦烦烦烦
 留言内容:
  和寝室人吵架了,在寝室好压抑
我的问题好严重,爱计较,心太小
互相忍让好难啊
想缓和关系,却无从做起。。。
其实我也是个小公举的啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你其实已经很好了!因为你知道是自己的问题大——人贵有自知之明!! 现在需要的是下一步,直接跟当事人诚心诚意地去说明你的问题,希望获得对方的理解,然后……就没有然后了,呵呵!祝福你!!加油!!!

    [回复]      100.100.10.* 留言者IP: 100.100.10.*    发表于:2016年11月12日10:54:11

 第 8964 条留言  昵称:小双卉  主题:匆匆那年
 留言内容:
  老师你好,我是中文系大四的学生,大四上半年我选择到北京去找实习工作,现在因为入党的事情回到学校。入党这件事是我在大学里经历过最漫长最煎熬的一件事,我想要好好珍惜所以当机会来临时我义无反顾抛开手里的工作回到学校。可是现在的自己觉得好累好多东西都没有处理完,可是经理又催着回去工作。我不知道以后学校这边还有多少事情要等着我,总觉得心累累的。而学生支部这边也没人理解我的不容易,一个电话打来也不分青红皂白就质问我为什么没去开会,我连解释的余地都没有,甚至我都不知道他是谁。我只得赶紧买最早的火车票回校,现在自己好累不知道该怎么办。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你实习,导员、同学们不知道吗?你入党,自己事前一点都不知道吗?……既然想两头都不耽误,那就只能自己提前规划和做周密安排,即使如此,有些情况也只能是两害相权取其轻,难以兼顾。 所以……挺正常的!以后,类似事情还会有的,呵呵……没啥,拜

    [回复]      100.100.9.* 留言者IP: 100.100.9.*    发表于:2016年11月11日16:43:08

 第 8963 条留言  昵称:李百川  主题:兴趣好爱
 留言内容:
  爱好写作,但苦无无法提高,陷入瓶颈,希望能找一个良师助我
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗自助者天助! 我的理解是,如果……真有这样的良师,那么我不知道路遥的良师是谁、鲁迅的良师是谁、金庸的良师是谁?…… 或许是有的,但我估计对你也未必有助呢!你自己想想,好不? 瓶颈突破大概是需要积累和时间的吧,拜!祝福你早日突破瓶颈!!

  1114310511   [回复]      171.117.191.* 留言者IP: 171.117.191.*    发表于:2016年11月11日13:32:19

 第 8962 条留言  昵称:  主题:生命
 留言内容:
  老师,我是个男的但感觉我喜欢男的
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……喜欢就喜欢呗! 只要是真心如此。 不过,需要注意的是,运城毕竟是个小城市,所以周边环境对你的这种“喜欢”会难以容忍吧?你自己好自为之,祝福你!

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年11月11日11:54:38

 第 8961 条留言  昵称:Jack  主题:舍友相处
 留言内容:
  如果一个人对烟很敏感,但是舍友总是在宿舍里吸烟,即使和他们说过,过一段时间,他们就忘了,感觉他们人也是挺好的,就是烟气受不了,为此鼻炎又复发了,每次闻到烟气都要不停地打喷嚏,也不想和他们发生矛盾,怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗这个问题确实是两难的……既然大家人都挺好的,所以,我觉得,还是双方都退让点,比如,你可以跟大家商量,你在的时候,建议他们少抽或者不抽;对于你而言,那就尽量躲着他们喽!先试一段时间吧?祝福你!

    [回复]      100.100.28.* 留言者IP: 100.100.28.*    发表于:2016年11月5日19:46:21

 第 8960 条留言  昵称:乐乐  主题:
 留言内容:
  就想知道助学金啥时候能发下来???
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗详情请咨询相关管理部门,他们会有权威的说明,拜

    [回复]      183.185.224.* 留言者IP: 183.185.224.*    发表于:2016年11月1日17:47:07

 第 8959 条留言  昵称:小胖庞  主题:恋爱
 留言内容:
  老师,我和男朋友恋爱四年了,我感觉应该磨合了,变成亲情了,但是没有,总觉得缺点东西,他很幼稚,大学怎么吵架,感情还好,上研之后经常吵架,平时很好,就是在吵架时谁都不让谁,同岁就不可以让让我吗?吵得特别凶,他还说各种伤人的话、狠话,有时还摔东西,能把对方气死。大家都说吵架才能看出人品,我感觉他脾气太爆,而且越来越厉害,是不是找个年龄比我大的就懂得让让我呢?我现在都不想继续了,每次被气的肚疼各种疼,老师我该放弃吗?可是一路走来也不容易,真纠结,我们是性格不合吗?老师帮帮我吧,谢谢您
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗即使是夫妻之间的相处……我以为都是政治,而女人天生是政治动物——这是钱钟书先生的话,呵呵……    四十年才可以谈亲情吧?现在为时尚早。所以,就这样继续吧,你说呢?     与最亲近的人相处尤其需要艺术……这里涉及宽容、忍让、理解等等。如果你受不了,可以考虑分手,对方也是如此……关键就看是谁能够放弃和坚守,还有就是,年轻时期嘛,吵架也是正常的,你说是吗?所以,我的明确建议是:继续这样的状况,如果双方都不能改变,可以考虑结束,但是如果不舍,就可以考虑一方做出相对的让步,然后继续……这个里面有太多的方面,不是文字就可以解决的,但我依然祝福你:风雨之后见彩虹!!    永远祝福你!!

    [回复]      171.116.146.* 留言者IP: 171.116.146.*    发表于:2016年10月27日17:43:26

 第 8958 条留言  昵称:阳光下的彩虹  主题:宿舍生活之我见4
 留言内容:
  老师,不知道您是否知道,表面和谐的
宿舍生活下面有时候是隐藏和压抑着同
学们对室友的不满和抱怨。但考虑到人
言可畏,如果告诉辅导员调宿舍,有可
能会被老师和同学视为是“有问题”的
学生,会间接影响到个人声誉、人际交
往和评奖选优,所以,有些同学即使宿
舍遇到问题了,也会忍着。长远来看,
这对自身身心健康都是不利的,也会为
宿舍矛盾冲突埋下了隐患。我觉得,大
学管理和心理教育,一定要重视这方面
问题,否则,后果不堪设想。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗风物长宜放眼量……你还是很明事理的!我不是简单赞扬你,真的!你能有这样的理解已经很不容易了……人生在世,从某个角度理解,就是不断是忍受的过程,也是不断成熟的过程。作为社会人的成熟,其实就是能够理解和接纳不同的思维方式和行为方式。换个角度理解,从一生来看,其实大学生活的方方面面,都是促进我们成熟的条件,在这个过程中,不断磨砺自己、锻炼自己、打造自己……这样你就能在将来的社会岗位上更迅速地让自己适应社会的方方面面!    所以,适应、努力、成长!是大学给我们提供的重要方面!!    永远祝福你!!

    [回复]      182.48.105.* 留言者IP: 182.48.105.*    发表于:2016年10月27日17:07:38

 第 8957 条留言  昵称:阳光下的彩虹  主题:宿舍生活之我见3
 留言内容:
  在中国人看来,一旦某人与大家融不到
一起,不合群,那一定是这个人的问
题。诚然,或许真有这个人自身性格的
问题,但又有多少人知道这位同学所承
受的痛苦,事出必有因,不要只是一味
地开导说你要学会融入集体生活,和舍
友和平相处,毕竟同学之间的友谊很珍
贵的。是吗?个人对此表示怀疑。如果真
是这样,他们为什么不替这位同学考虑
一下,不在宿舍里熬夜打游戏,不吸烟
呢?不懂得尊重别人的人还能谈友谊
吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗绝对挺你!!     随波逐流本来就不是褒义词,人,是需要个性的,尤其是中国人特别需要!你说呢?

    [回复]      182.48.105.* 留言者IP: 182.48.105.*    发表于:2016年10月27日17:01:57

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