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 第 4426 条留言  昵称:宇涵  主题:不要拿别人的错误来惩罚自己!
 留言内容:
  自己犯错误的时候,不要再关注别人的毛病!时间如此宝贵,用来改正自己,提高自己尚不够用,哪里还顾得上去帮助别人提高他自己!

  写信给我

〖版主回复〗很对.........

    [回复]      220.194.169.* 留言者IP: 220.194.169.*    发表于:2007年4月18日9:16:17

 第 4425 条留言  昵称:千里之外  主题:自信的建立
 留言内容:
  我觉得自己很不自信,请老师帮我一下
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好,自信的建立需要对自己的了解,在了解自己的基础上,确立相应的目标.目标不能太高,达不到了就会减少你的自信.还要允许自己有一定的缺陷,但要记得天生我才必有用这句话.从心理的角度看,还要不断地暗示自己"我能行".从小事做起,一点一点地积累成功的体验,你的自信就会确立起来!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2007年4月17日20:56:58

 第 4424 条留言  昵称:宇涵  主题:先把自己做好(二)
 留言内容:
  我给主编在QQ里留言说不好意思,因为我的原因给你造成麻烦,很抱歉!不好意思。主编没回复。
回到办公室,她们两个(网站专职编辑加上我总共三个年龄相仿的女生,在一个办公室)听了很气愤,因为以前总遇到主编推卸责任的事情,她们气愤:“咱们明天开会要如何说咱们的难处,要如何说咱们不容易……”她们说的有一定道理,因为我身处其中,我感同身受。但我一直沉默着,因为这次确实是我的疏忽。我不能推卸责任,不能找借口!
近来慢慢找回了自己,逐渐走向自己,一直在看书(毕业近一年几乎没有看过书,思维停滞,生活茫然,容易冲动和动摇),我不再像以前听她们说就开始动摇自己的心思,开始把心中的矛盾激化,把怨气上升,我开始坚守自己的内心。我不能在自己犯错误的时候,还要一直挑剔别人的毛病,我得先把自己做好,把自己做好!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!有些事情不象你们想的那样.看到你的留言,感受到了你的成长,为你高兴.你在找回自己,你在走向成熟!

    [回复]      220.194.169.* 留言者IP: 220.194.169.*    发表于:2007年4月17日18:51:34

 第 4423 条留言  昵称:宇涵  主题:先把自己做好(一)
 留言内容:
  今天,第一次自己受到处罚,因为工作上的错误。
前天,也就是周末的新闻,因为自己的疏忽大意,出现了明显的错误,多字,掉字,语句的不顺当。我看见网站站长和主编去经理办公室,应该是经理提到了文章的错误,所以,站长叫我到他的办公室。我过去后,站长倒是一直笑眯眯地,心平气和地指出文章里的错误,他用商量的语气和我讨论。确实是我的失职,我说就扣我一个人的分就行,是我的责任,我没有让主编审核,主编不在,我也没有提醒让主编晚上看,我的责任,扣我就行。后来,叫了值班的主编过去,站长说要值班的主编负担责任,主编一过去就火上了,开始埋怨,说他忙,没时间。站长说,这是你的职责,再忙也是你的责任。主编说,像这样的掉字,多字,错字,语病,她们应该负责,我们主编总不能老像教小学生一样教她们,然后转脸对我说,我不想对你们说难听的话,都在一起工作,你们这样的错误就是不改……站长坚持说有主编的责任,主编不停地辩解,说自己忙,没有时间,那天回去已经晚上十点多了……我一直说就扣我一个人,因为确实是我的责任。但是主编和站长开始争论,不停……我不想听他们争吵,就说,明天开会的时候再说吧,扣我一个人就行了,然后我转身走了。
后来站长打电话叫我过去,我看见主编还站在那里,原来是我掏口袋的时候工资条不小心掉了,站长笑眯眯地递给我说,没事,你忙去吧。我拿上工资条,笑了笑,就走了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你说的对,遇到事情先从自己身上找原因.

    [回复]      220.194.169.* 留言者IP: 220.194.169.*    发表于:2007年4月17日18:51:02

 第 4422 条留言  昵称:迷茫  主题:明白
 留言内容:
  我明白老师说的意思,可真到办的时候恐怕就又是另外一回事了..会尽量的..
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗努力就好,努力不一定就成功,但不努力就一定不会成功的!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2007年4月17日18:47:29

 第 4421 条留言  昵称:水冰月  主题:写给疲惫的旅游鞋
 留言内容:
  你的文才真的好好啊.你出过书吗?想看看,能介绍的看看吗?嘿嘿...
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我们的期望是一样的!

    [回复]      222.31.15.* 留言者IP: 222.31.15.*    发表于:2007年4月17日11:20:57

 第 4420 条留言  昵称:云中一滴雨  主题:还想和你说说
 留言内容:
  您好!我是云中一滴雨,上次问您不知道该怎么拒绝那个男孩?您给我讲了很多。我也有些豁然开朗的感觉,明白了很多。谢谢您给我说了这么多。但是我还是摆脱不了他,给他说了一些委婉拒绝他的话,他说他不死心。说不相信我会是这样的人。还经常给我买东西,我不要,他就给仍掉,也不自己留着。我不想伤任何人的心,尤其是他这么好的男孩,但我也不想答应他,只是觉得不适合,我还是觉得距离是最大的问题,他在河南洛阳我在运城新绛,其实也不是太远,但因为我是独生女不想离开我爸妈,我想将来照顾他们。如果把话说的太重,我想将来我们不会是朋友了,也太残酷些了吧!怎么办?还是没有主意!谢谢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你是不是又改名字了? 坚持就是胜利! 每个人都有自己为人处事的准则。但不管怎样,一切都要从实际出发。你现在还是学生,在个人情感方面不须考虑那么多。 你现在对他残酷比你将来对他残酷更为人道和理智。 现实生活中的好男孩很多,不用悲观,呵呵。 以上供你参考,你已是成人了。

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2007年4月17日10:20:26

 第 4419 条留言  昵称:会唱歌的哑巴  主题:不是原则问题就不应该对之认真
 留言内容:
  以前把自己的名字写成这样是因为自己喜欢它,让人有一种思想的空间,现在我才觉得我真的很适合这个名字,是个哑巴,不会向任何人表达我的感情(尤其是在被人误解的时候),我内心很伤心痛苦,可我又没有能力来表达,面对他们对我的误解,我苦于澄清,也许这是面子问题吧!有些人还可能去接受你的道歉,可难免有些人对你的道歉采取不屑的态度,让我本已在滴血的心更加的疼痛,为什么人和人之间总有矛盾存在,也许世间万物都是矛盾的结合体,但总要有个话界矛盾的方式吧!为什么你不接受我的道歉!
麻烦老师了,我是出于苦闷才在这里留下了文字的,我知道这些事最终还是要我自己亲自解决的.我相信我会解决好的,无非就是放下面子吗?I believe I can make it!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,相信你会解决的.不过,人的确的是矛盾的综合体,而且人和人是不一样的,对有的的人没有必要太认真了,他可以不接受我们的道歉,但我们不能因为他不接受让自己更加痛苦,这样做没有任何的意义.我们做事情需要心理上的平衡,可外在的不少因素在影响着我们心理上的平衡,就需要用智慧来安慰我们,鼓励我们,你说呢?希望你快乐!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2007年4月16日19:16:24

 第 4418 条留言  昵称: 飞翔的天  主题:走了...
 留言内容:
  即将毕业,十分留恋,上来看看,留下足迹..
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,欢迎常来,毕业了也是一样的来,如何?

  81771107   [回复]      222.31.15.* 留言者IP: 222.31.15.*    发表于:2007年4月16日16:49:53

 第 4417 条留言  昵称:酒徒的祭祀  主题:问老师
 留言内容:
  问老师一些擅长的问题,

每每听人赞赏别人思想深刻时说:你讲的很哲理呀。总在想:深刻等于哲学吗?这是哲学的生活化?还是生活的哲学化?

我们又该如何定位周国平的文章?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……有点意思!当然,似乎也有点钻牛角尖的意思在内。    不知,你可想过,管他什么哲学生活化还是生活哲学化,看了好书,能有思考,有反思,有新内容等等,不就很好??   你说呢?

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2007年4月16日16:17:45

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