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 第 8932 条留言  昵称:版主  主题:回复上一条同学留言
 留言内容:
  我没有见你的邮箱,所以就以这样的方式留言了————你们现在的问题可能已经出现了,因为几乎无话可说,多说话会成为负担而不是快乐,也有可能,对方思想已经有变化……
建议:冷却一段吧,然后顺其自然,交给时间,是你的,终究是,不是你的,终究不是……
最后,祝福你!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗希望上一条留言主人看到我的回复。

    [回复]      60.222.98.* 留言者IP: 60.222.98.*    发表于:2016年9月4日21:03:17

 第 8931 条留言  昵称:呼啦啦  主题:异地恋
 留言内容:
 
 此留言为悄悄话,留言内容只有版主才能查看……[密]
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗 版主尚未回复本留言...

    [回复]      211.87.94.* 留言者IP: 211.87.94.*    发表于:2016年8月30日16:03:54

 第 8930 条留言  昵称:大千世界  主题:逛逛
 留言内容:
  我是毕业很久的师姐,还是偶尔回来看看,看着学弟学妹们讲宿舍关系讲迷茫讲少年愁,反而有羡慕,羡慕多愁善感的年代,祝福母校越来越好!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗是啊,那个多愁善感的年代是我们回不去的青涩的青春! 感谢你对母校的关注和祝福,也祝福你越来越好!

    [回复]      118.74.249.* 留言者IP: 118.74.249.*    发表于:2016年8月30日11:11:38

 第 8929 条留言  昵称:  主题:考试
 留言内容:
  老师马上开学了,要准备四六级考试了可
我打算考研怎么办,时间和精力怎么安排
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我估计你应该是大二的学生吧。其实我感觉在大二大三期间,考研和四六级的准备并不冲突。一是英语都要考,所以你现在准备四六级考试需要积累词汇、提高阅读写作能力,这也是为未来考研做准备,所以英语还是要抽出时间复习的。另外,平时上专业课、看专业书籍也是必要的,这也是为未来考研打基础、做准备。因此,英语和专业课在平时学习中都不能忽视。

    [回复]      223.10.125.* 留言者IP: 223.10.125.*    发表于:2016年8月29日20:38:29

 第 8928 条留言  昵称:微尘  主题:该不该等他
 留言内容:
  老师
您好!我跟男朋友都是在读研究生,明年毕业,可是他跟我说想继续读博士,他说我们可以硕士毕业后结婚,而他家觉得我们工作不稳定不准备买房子。那我们一个在学校念书,一个在外面工作。我自己挣钱供房租,供自己生活,这样的结婚有什么意思?结婚不是两个人共同承担家庭责任吗?此外,我感觉男朋友也是与世无争的性格,做事慢腾腾,学校里的奖学金之类的也没上过心,我也是这种性格。我不知道我们两个合不合适,我还应该继续等他吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗很多情侣在硕士毕业后选择男生继续读博,女生工作,不少人也面临你这种问题。其实要不要继续很大程度上要看你的意愿。一方面,男生博士毕业后应该会找到一份相当不错的工作,你们未来会越来越好。但另一方面,就是现在可能要苦几年,他在读博期间可能不会挣太多的钱,你们可能要租房或者两地分居?如果你们感情不错,你也看好你们的未来,那么所有的困难都只是暂时的。

  1050211794   [回复]      218.26.34.* 留言者IP: 218.26.34.*    发表于:2016年8月22日9:11:12

 第 8927 条留言  昵称:思宇  主题:考研
 留言内容:
  老师,我开学大二打算考研,但是不想考
本专业怎么办
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗考研可以报考其他专业,但肯定要下更多的功夫。你可以先了解下想报考专业的就业情况、难度等。然后可以试着蹭蹭专业课,多看该专业的相关书籍,多和该专业的学生交流,了解学术动态。

    [回复]      113.26.24.* 留言者IP: 113.26.24.*    发表于:2016年8月18日15:45:30

 第 8926 条留言  昵称:努力  主题:释然
 留言内容:
  不想让别人看出来,所以经常会让东西掉在地上,或是碰到别人的手,剥鸡蛋的时候,也怕别人看到,有些事情,我一个人的时候可以做好,但要是旁别有人,我就很担心会出错,这种情况也不好意思向别人提起,所以我心里很苦闷,我想摆脱,想变得正常一点,老师,您有什么好的建议吗?谢谢老师。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗首先要坦然面对,手抖不是什么见不得人的事,不要害怕别人知道,越害怕,你心理越紧张,就越容易手抖。其实,你也可以学着接受它,我就是手抖,这有什么大不了,抖就抖呗,不要怕什么出丑啊被人笑话啊,一般人不会多想的。其次,你要减少自我关注,比如别人递东西或者你做事有人在身边时,你把注意力放在具体的事情上,不要过分关注自己的感觉,你越害怕出错,越会不自在,就越容易出错。最后,希望你能多和别人接触、多参加集体活动,锻炼自己的能力,增强心理素质,经历多了自然紧张就少了。

    [回复]      125.88.25.* 留言者IP: 125.88.25.*    发表于:2016年8月16日18:25:38

 第 8925 条留言  昵称:努力  主题:释然
 留言内容:
  老师,您好,我想问一下怎么解决紧张性手抖的问题。以前都没有这种情况,直到高中有一次发卷子的时候,那时我的英语成绩还不错,所以英语老师让我给班里发试卷,厚厚的一叠试卷放在我的手中,可是每发一张都好困难,我手抖得根本拿不出一张卷子,感觉同学都在笑话我,可是我无能无力,心里很忐忑,表面装作很平静,自从那一次以后,我紧张时就会手抖,自己根本控制不了,别人递体积小的东西给我时,我心里很慌,但我又不想让他人看
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗 人在紧张时会有各种表现,比如手脚发抖、声音发抖等,这很正常。我感觉你的手发抖频繁的直接原因就是心理紧张。想要减少手抖现象就要增强自己的心理素质,克服紧张状态。

    [回复]      125.88.25.* 留言者IP: 125.88.25.*    发表于:2016年8月16日18:21:23

 第 8924 条留言  昵称:晨曦  主题:开始担忧以后的生活
 留言内容:
  老师您好:
去年毕业,工作了一年,辞了职,考上省直
事业单位,一想到要去大一点的地方工作,就开始
头皮发麻,想到高的房价和成家成本以及生活压
力,真的不知道以后怎么办?希望老师能给一些好
的建议,谢谢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗首先要恭喜你!去大城市的事业单位工作是多少人羡慕的啊!当然,去大城市工作压力相对会比较大,但为什么那么多人都愿意在大城市打拼呢?因为各种好的医疗、教育、文化娱乐等资源都集中在那里。至于高房价等,希望你能找到一个志同道合的另一半,两人共同为未来努力,可能一开始会辛苦几年,却会为下一代创造好的平台。所以,别给自己太大的压力,一切都会越来越好!

    [回复]      180.142.15.* 留言者IP: 180.142.15.*    发表于:2016年8月14日14:53:42

 第 8923 条留言  昵称:云淡风轻  主题:怎样平静看待社会的丑恶
 留言内容:
  工作几年时间了,走入社会渐渐看清了真实的状况,社会上种种的不公平,人性的丑恶让我心情沉重,该怎么样看待这些丑恶,更好的生活呢?请老师开导开导我。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗社会上确实存在种种不公平的现象,这就需要我们摆好心态,要知道世上没有绝对的公平,努力提高自己的能力吧,只要自己很优秀了,就无惧各种不公。对于人性,有善有恶,但我更愿意关注人性善的一面,你好好观察,其实这世界还是好人多!

    [回复]      124.166.42.* 留言者IP: 124.166.42.*    发表于:2016年8月3日22:22:38

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