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 第 8954 条留言  昵称:木鱼  主题:还是我
 留言内容:
  我该怎么办呢?老师,我该如何处理这个关
系呢?最近的我很迷茫
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗还在纠结吗?就按老师讲的做,冷处理。另外更重要的是使自己强大起来,你就不会纠结于这样的小事了。马云现在还会为当年没有追上某个心中的女神而懊恼吗?

    [回复]      218.26.54.* 留言者IP: 218.26.54.*    发表于:2016年11月21日11:46:50

 第 8953 条留言  昵称:木鱼  主题:感情?
 留言内容:
  老师,你好,我有一个很好的异性朋友,年
纪比我小,我们曾经无话不谈,很快乐。可
是最近可能是由于他有了个新的朋友,我也
因为忙没主动找他,他也没来找我。两个月
了,都没说过几句话,现在变得很陌生,我
很难过,我感觉自己快要失去他了,我不想
失去。我每次想要找他聊一聊,说说我们的
问题时,总是还没开口说几句就大吵一架,
他总是沉着脸色,我也不开心。我不知道我
们为什么会变成这样。我们之间是不是隔阂
太深,我真的不想失去
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗老师如果没猜错的话,你和这位异性同学的感情应该是介于友情与爱情之间。你们两个由于种种原因产生隔阂和矛盾。你很在意这段感情,想化解矛盾,修复二人关系,但难以做到。我的建议是冷处理,过一段时间再见面,实在不行就果断放弃这段感情。人的感情和想法都会随着时间和客观条件的改变而改变。也许你失去了一棵树木,却因此得到一片树林。

    [回复]      218.26.54.* 留言者IP: 218.26.54.*    发表于:2016年11月21日11:45:20

 第 8952 条留言  昵称:木鱼  主题:感情?
 留言内容:
  老师,患得患失,是不是就一定会失去?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗患得患失,不一定会失去。你没有告诉我患得患失的对象是什么,原谅我无法给你更具体的建议。

    [回复]      218.26.54.* 留言者IP: 218.26.54.*    发表于:2016年11月21日11:38:07

 第 8951 条留言  昵称:薰薰  主题:无语 讨厌
 留言内容:
  对一个舍友很不舒服,很圆滑,在人前似乎很有
善热情,但是在另一个人面前却说她一些模棱两
可的话容易误导别人人家不好。别人觉得她很会
事,经常对他的要求满足。其实几乎好多次都是
说说而已,不兑现。但别人觉得他很好。真不知
道怎么会有这样口不对心,有城府的人。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗大学是个小社会,我们大学生才接触社会,慢慢会感觉到社会比我们想象的要复杂,有些人老实本分,有些人比较圆滑,各式各样的人都有。但也不要因此对社会失望。路遥知马力,日久见人心。相信你会慢慢适应的。

    [回复]      211.138.104.* 留言者IP: 211.138.104.*    发表于:2016年11月19日13:20:33

 第 8950 条留言  昵称:老羊  主题:生活消极
 留言内容:
  最近很长一段时间,觉得自己好累好累好烦,
篮球队的训练总是会发生很多事,每天还要忙
着考教资还要考四级,身边的同学,参加国赛
美赛,三年了我做了些什么,感觉自己就是一
废人,从早到晚如机器一般,上课下课吃饭休
息图书馆训练,表面上是很有秩序的生活,但
是我心里感到很累,随时可能爆炸,可怕的是
长得不如别人,学的还不如别人,最后跟室友
相处也出了问题,一天室友过生日,有一个室
友说你们去点自助的时候要看看有没有菜,我
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你是在和同学、室友相互比较中感到自己处处不如人的,但你的主观感受往往不客观。另外你要多想自己的优点,天生我材必有用。祝你快乐。

    [回复]      10.188.7.* 留言者IP: 10.188.7.*    发表于:2016年11月18日17:11:42

 第 8949 条留言  昵称:布凯鑫  主题:回报
 留言内容:
  当你的付出没有回报时,你会怎么做。一些事你本
没错,但是别人就冤枉你,该怎么办,好伤心啊。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗人们常说不付出哪有回报。不付出必然没有回报,付出也未必就一定能实现目标。比如你看现在大四那么多同学积极备战考研,但最后肯定有好些同学考不上。努力过就没有遗憾。至于别人冤枉你,你可以给对方解释沟通,如果他不听,也没什么大不了的。过段时间自然一切就清楚了。

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年11月17日23:06:03

 第 8948 条留言  昵称:傻孩子  主题:烦烦烦烦
 留言内容:
  和寝室人吵架了,在寝室好压抑
我的问题好严重,爱计较,心太小
互相忍让好难啊
想缓和关系,却无从做起。。。
其实我也是个小公举的啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你其实已经很好了!因为你知道是自己的问题大——人贵有自知之明!! 现在需要的是下一步,直接跟当事人诚心诚意地去说明你的问题,希望获得对方的理解,然后……就没有然后了,呵呵!祝福你!!加油!!!

    [回复]      100.100.10.* 留言者IP: 100.100.10.*    发表于:2016年11月12日10:54:11

 第 8947 条留言  昵称:小双卉  主题:匆匆那年
 留言内容:
  老师你好,我是中文系大四的学生,大四上半年我选择到北京去找实习工作,现在因为入党的事情回到学校。入党这件事是我在大学里经历过最漫长最煎熬的一件事,我想要好好珍惜所以当机会来临时我义无反顾抛开手里的工作回到学校。可是现在的自己觉得好累好多东西都没有处理完,可是经理又催着回去工作。我不知道以后学校这边还有多少事情要等着我,总觉得心累累的。而学生支部这边也没人理解我的不容易,一个电话打来也不分青红皂白就质问我为什么没去开会,我连解释的余地都没有,甚至我都不知道他是谁。我只得赶紧买最早的火车票回校,现在自己好累不知道该怎么办。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你实习,导员、同学们不知道吗?你入党,自己事前一点都不知道吗?……既然想两头都不耽误,那就只能自己提前规划和做周密安排,即使如此,有些情况也只能是两害相权取其轻,难以兼顾。 所以……挺正常的!以后,类似事情还会有的,呵呵……没啥,拜

    [回复]      100.100.9.* 留言者IP: 100.100.9.*    发表于:2016年11月11日16:43:08

 第 8946 条留言  昵称:李百川  主题:兴趣好爱
 留言内容:
  爱好写作,但苦无无法提高,陷入瓶颈,希望能找一个良师助我
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗自助者天助! 我的理解是,如果……真有这样的良师,那么我不知道路遥的良师是谁、鲁迅的良师是谁、金庸的良师是谁?…… 或许是有的,但我估计对你也未必有助呢!你自己想想,好不? 瓶颈突破大概是需要积累和时间的吧,拜!祝福你早日突破瓶颈!!

  1114310511   [回复]      171.117.191.* 留言者IP: 171.117.191.*    发表于:2016年11月11日13:32:19

 第 8945 条留言  昵称:  主题:生命
 留言内容:
  老师,我是个男的但感觉我喜欢男的
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……喜欢就喜欢呗! 只要是真心如此。 不过,需要注意的是,运城毕竟是个小城市,所以周边环境对你的这种“喜欢”会难以容忍吧?你自己好自为之,祝福你!

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2016年11月11日11:54:38

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