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 第 3742 条留言  昵称:生活中的运动  主题:老师啊,我,我应该怎么做呢
 留言内容:
  老师啊,我应该怎么做呢?
我男友因为与我发生了一点小口角就想要打我,甚至将我推了一下子,使我撞到了墙上。我不明白他为什么这样对待我,我不知道是否能够和他相处下去。
我心里很难过,虽然男友向我道歉,但是我的好姐妹告诉我说,这样的男友是有暴力倾向,以后也不和睦,我应该怎么做呢?老师你是过来人,请你告诉我吧。打女人的男人还算男人吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗再处处吧,也不能不给人机会不是?一般来说,人在有优势的情况下就可能有暴力的倾向,如果不受限制或限制不力。    如果确认对方很容易就这样,可以考虑终止,如果不是,就可以交往,你说呢?     不管怎么说,对方的行为是严重的不当!!

    [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2006年12月2日17:08:45

 第 3741 条留言  昵称:love照  主题:
 留言内容:
  整天过的挺没意思的,半年都快过去了,还找不着北,哎,这就是所谓的生活?我讨厌这样的大学生活。空虚,无聊,整天除了睡觉还是睡觉。哎,其实我是一个很乐观的人,今天怎么搞的,满腹牢骚。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗个人以为,这个问题不是你一个人存在的问题和现象,是个普遍的情况.高中的时候有家长和老师的管理与限制,同时还有着高考这个无形的手在指挥着你;而现在呢,可以说两方面的限制都没有了,从而让你感觉到无所事事,很正常.不过,现在的你应该马上要改变过去那种被动的状态,而应该采取积极的学习和生活态度,大学的生活本来就应该是更多的自由,更多的自觉.所以,你应该主动地去学习好自己的专业,提高自身的素质,这样才能在将来的竞争中立于不败之地.再也不能这样过,再也不能这样活.......呵呵

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年12月2日16:25:01

 第 3740 条留言  昵称:love照  主题:开心
 留言内容:
  呵呵,挺有趣的,我说的是这个栏目。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗谢谢你 !!!!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年12月2日16:12:12

 第 3739 条留言  昵称:静静  主题:我好迷茫
 留言内容:
  我学习成绩很不好,而且我对学习一点兴趣都没有,我也惶糊我怎么上的大学,我很讨厌我自己,只知道吃饭睡觉,一无是处。我真对不起老爸和老妈,我真的很迷茫,我该怎么办,学习真的有用吗?亲爱的版主,请你给我一个合适的答案,只要我有一个合适的方向,我想我还是能把学习搞上去的。谢谢版主。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!学习无论从什么角度来说都是有用的,这一点你还怀疑?不要怀疑....因为我们现在的时代就是知识经济时代,我们的社会也是学习型的社会.学习了,我们可能就有更多的机会,不学习,机会来了,我们可能只能袖手旁观;不学习,我们就无法适应这个社会,不要去说什么实现社会价值,恐怕个人的生存问题都很难解决.学习有时候可能是被动的,比方说现在的你,请允许我这么猜测.但是长期的被动,可能让你在学习中找到乐趣,从而会去主动学习,不知道你有没有找到这种感觉...最后我要说的是找到自己目标,努力地学习,学习好自己的专业,现在的问题不是学习是否有用,关键的是我们是否学好了自己的专业,是否找到了学习中的乐趣,你说呢....

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2006年12月2日14:54:18

 第 3738 条留言  昵称:水木  主题:回复丁键波
 留言内容:
  呵呵,你好,我想咱们应该认识,如果你是政法系的学生.我知道你挺优秀的,经常见你学习.根据我个人的意见,你可以先找工作,工作两三年后直接考研.因为你现在选择升本,学校只有仅有的那么几个,而且都很普通.上两年后还是得考研的.与其这样还不如边工作边学习,但这两年间必须学习,这点很重要.这样你学习的动力和目的也许会更强.你说呢?呵呵.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗祝你早日在人生旅途中找到目标

    [回复]      202.207.234.* 留言者IP: 202.207.234.*    发表于:2006年12月2日14:20:47

 第 3737 条留言  昵称:流年  主题:大学意味着什么
 留言内容:
  以前很向往大学生活,现在觉得好象无所谓。可能因为得到了就不在珍惜了吧!大学很茫然,不知道自己的路在哪里,有人活得很颓废,有人很潇洒,我想活在两者之间,可是好象很难。大学究竟意味着什么?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗大学意味着自觉、自由、自信、自爱。。。。。

  420588398   [回复]      202.207.235.* 留言者IP: 202.207.235.*    发表于:2006年12月2日14:15:13

 第 3736 条留言  昵称:祝福  主题:461324813
 留言内容:
  我们宿舍是一个整体,大学校园到处充斥着一些不该有的现象,我们宿舍也不例外,一个整天在宿舍吐痰的我们将怎样去忍受,我快要疯了!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗大千世界,无奇不有。对于那些不太注意公共卫生的同学来说,我以为,以劝说为主。我想经过几次的提醒和劝说应该会有些效果的,毕竟来说这不是个大问题,只是个习惯性的问题。。。。。。。

  461324813   [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年12月2日11:22:29

 第 3735 条留言  昵称:兰兰蓝水晶  主题:鱼和熊掌?
 留言内容:
  系里的迎新晚会结束了,轻松了许多。可是面对学业我又发愁了,还有很短的时间就要进行考试了,我好害怕自己过不了。想要平心静气的看书复习却又觉得一团糟,而且身边有人陪伴,更不晓得怎样安排了。爱情是什么?很难说清楚可是就是享受跟他在一起的时光呵。学业与朋友怎样安排?老师帮帮我。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我觉得这个问题比较还解决哦!爱情是学习的动力在这个关键的时候不就体现出来了吗,呵呵。。。。。两个人在一起学习,这样没有什么不好的,关键是看你们能否控制好自己,是在一起真正的学习还是在一起聊天。我觉得,学习的时间就好好学习吧,课后的时候再去尽情地玩个够,说个够,毕竟学业那是一定要完成的。。。。你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2006年12月2日11:00:22

 第 3734 条留言  昵称:刘同学  主题:餐厅的饭里面有苍蝇
 留言内容:
  气死我了,这餐厅怎么搞的,饭里面已经有好几次出现虫子了,不吃吧,我还肚子饿,吃吧,又吃不下去,我真惨呀。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗关于这方面的问题你可以直接找大堂经理反映,饭菜的好坏直接关系到同学们的健康不容忽视,你当时发现就应该让他换或退,我想他不会坐视不理的。     不过,有时咱家里的饭偶尔也会有这样的现象,不是吗?这么大的餐厅,恐怕也是难以避免的,多些理解也好,你说呢?    遥想高中时候,饭菜里虫子丰收,我们吃的无所谓,身体好像还结实如牛。   有时,也不必太讲究了,呵呵……当然,这,需要过程。

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2006年12月2日10:40:28

 第 3733 条留言  昵称:小王  主题:这些学长学姐们真好
 留言内容:
  我今天去找一个学姐办点事,她很爽快的帮我,我心里美滋滋的。想想以前自己的行为,挺惨愧的,以后呢,我也要好好学习,助人为乐。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗以助人为乐为乐,自己就会经常快乐,要有自尊就要首先尊重别人

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2006年12月2日10:31:48

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