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第 8965 条留言 昵称:qqq 主题:挂科 | |
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老师,我的体育大一下学期没学,在学院网页上是0分,我不知道选课吗重新选上了吗?如果我挂了,我还需要
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〖版主回复〗有关体育课成绩,可以和教务处教务科联系,电话2095210 |
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第 8964 条留言 昵称:小双卉 主题:匆匆那年 | |
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老师您好:
前两次和您聊过,现在我大四在北京实习。可能没有理解我的苦,在北京会舍不得吃饭省下钱来攒着回学校买火车票,会和经理闹的不愉快非要请假回学校。有多少学生想要好好的安安静静的在学校复习考研因为要实习所以放弃考研。我知道有许多事情程序是必须要走的可是能不能灵活一点点,大四实习的我们真心的不容易。希望可以得到学校的理解。 |
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〖版主回复〗想起来了,你是中文系大四的学生,你以前在心灵交流栏目讲过自己选择在北京实习,因为入党的事情在学校和北京实习单位之间疲于奔命,很累。有些事情我们无力改变,那就只能在事前做好筹划。比如你估计自己可能会被吸收为积极分子或预备党员,当初在选择实习单位时就应该选择在学校附近实习。即使如此,有些情况也只能是两害相权取其轻,难以兼顾。 所以……挺正常的! |
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第 8963 条留言 昵称:大五 主题:关于抑郁症 | |
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老师您好:
发现自己好久好久都没怎么开心的笑过,我 是不是抑郁了?自从跟前女友分手以后,眼里就只 有工作,不知道是处于情感低落期还是真的抑郁 了,这种现象正常吗? |
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〖版主回复〗你因为和前女朋友分手而对许多东西不感兴趣,产生抑郁情绪,这是很正常的。建议你不要因为要做一个潇洒的人或者一个理智的人就压抑自己。有不良情绪都应该找合适的方式发泄出来,觉察到自己有抑郁倾向应该迅速做出调整,适时放松,比如多接触朋友,参加社会活动、体育锻炼或出去旅游。尽管开始内心会很痛苦,但是只要坚持一段时间,负面的情绪感受就会被外部环境慢慢消融,你的自信心就会重燃起来。如果实在严重,一定要寻求专业人士的帮助。真的发展为抑郁症,自己是走不出来的。 |
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第 8962 条留言 昵称:开心 主题:求解 | |
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老师 你好 我总是控制不住自己的购物欲望 怎么破
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〖版主回复〗你说自己控制不住购物的欲望,老师没猜错的话,你是个女生。经常逛淘宝、海淘、逛街之类势必会消耗你的大量时间,会影响你的学习的。疯狂购物有可能是心情不好或其他原因造成的,可以采取下面这些方法解决。1.养成记账的良好习惯,每周做一次总结,看看钱都花在哪儿了,是否必要。2.做财务预算。每月的大体财务规划,先把必要的开支列出来,比如买书,吃饭,交通,或者人情往来。这样剩下的钱再安排买些自己喜欢的东西。 3.如果你有存钱的意识当然更好,可以去银行办理零存整取,强制自己存钱。一定要有一张卡别开网银,把钱存到那张卡上,平时也不要随身携带,想用也用不了。4.兼职打工。兼职既可以挣钱,又可以分散你的注意力少了时间购物。最重要的是让你明白钱来之不易,你自己挣钱自己花就舍不得这样挥霍了。5.找到真正感兴趣的事情。你乱花钱应该也是寂寞空虚冷啊,根本没找到自己感兴趣的事。你可以通过听音乐、看电视、外出跑步、散步、打球等,以分散自己的注意力,使不好的心情有所缓解。6、把不开心的事告诉朋友,亲人,或者可以大哭一场。同时也可以摔枕头,释放压力。 |
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第 8961 条留言 昵称:当归 主题:和朋友距离疏远了 | |
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老师你好,我喜欢上了一个人,他患有抑郁症,通过我们一起的努力和积极地向医生求助治疗,他现在已经差不多能走出来了,可是我们之间的关系不像以前那么亲密了,他的很多苦楚也不会和我说了,我觉得很失落也不甘心,我们的关系好像和以前大不相同了,请问老师我怎么样才能让自己接受我们已经疏远了这个事实呢。
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〖版主回复〗老师如果没猜错的话,你和这位男同学的感情应该是介于友情与爱情之间。这位男同学患上抑郁症,在你和其他人的帮助下抑郁症基本治愈,但你们两人却产生隔阂和矛盾。你很在意这段感情,想化解矛盾,修复二人关系,但难以做到。我的建议是冷处理,过一段时间再见面,实在不行就果断放弃这段感情。人的感情和想法都会随着时间和客观条件的改变而改变。也许你失去了一棵树木,却因此得到一片树林。 |
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第 8960 条留言 昵称:木鱼 主题:无题 | |
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老师,有个说法是人只有对自己最亲近的人
才毫无保留地发脾气,是这样吗?我有个朋 友他对别人都很客气,但是就是喜欢和我唱 反调,喜欢损我,偶尔还会对我发脾气,他 每次对我发脾气我都很害怕,害怕他烦我, 可是过了以后他又像没事人一样和我玩闹。 我可以这么理解吗?是因为他对我亲近,所 以才不克制自己的脾气。没见他对别人发过 脾气,但是有时候就会对我沉着脸色。 |
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〖版主回复〗你的朋友只对你发脾气,因为他知道你不会骂他不会揍他,长此以往他便养成了这个习惯。他对陌生人客气,也许是生活经验告诉他不这样的话会对他自己不利。所以他就养成了对陌生人客气,对亲近的人乱发脾气。你可以在他比较冷静时告诉他,你不是他的出气筒。他再这样你也要生气了。明确告诉他和亲近的人在一起也要克制一下自己,想一想事情的是非曲直,再理智地解决。毕竟发脾气是解决不了问题的。 |
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第 8959 条留言 昵称:纪勇 主题:证书疑问 | |
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老师您好,我是师范专业的学生,现在已经大
四了。我想问一下,(学校说我们是最后一届 教育局发教师资格证的了)我在外省考过的普 通话证书可以通过学校申请咱省的教师资格证 吗? |
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〖版主回复〗据了解,现在我校全部学生都要参加教师资格证考试。至于普通话资格证能不能用,建议你咨询教师资格证主管部门。 |
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第 8958 条留言 昵称:木子 主题:怀念 | |
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毕业7年,再次来过,看到这里的留言和回复,感
觉很亲切,很怀念以前在学校的时光,希望珍惜时 光,多学习知识,学会分析问题的方法,学会与人 相处。祝学院越来越好! |
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〖版主回复〗你毕业七年后能再次光临心灵交流栏目,欢迎你。希望你能珍惜大好时光,充实自己,在人际关系方面游刃有余,事业与个人生活方面都成功。 |
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第 8957 条留言 昵称:云淡风清 主题:我的选择 | |
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我是学院人,今天过来看看,毕业六年了,在工作中生活中遇到过一些不如意,曾经痛苦曾经怨恨,走过这些沟沟坎坎,我在学着让心平静下来,我不想去怨天尤人,虽然社会中仍然有种种丑恶,但是我仍然选择用柔软的心温和的对待生活,做好自己的事情。老师你认为我这样的想法如何?
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〖版主回复〗亲爱的同学,母校永远是你的家,是你心灵的港湾。你说在工作中生活中遇到过一些不如意,曾经痛苦曾经怨恨,现在学着让心平静下来,不再怨天尤人,用柔软的心温和地对待生活,做好自己的事情。你能有这样的转变 老师很欣慰。生活并不总是春光明媚,有时会电闪雷鸣,有时会冰天雪地。只要我们有科学的理想信念,正确对待顺境和逆境,不畏艰险,奋力拼搏,就一定能够中流击水,抵达光明的彼岸。 |
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第 8956 条留言 昵称:M 主题:大学只求“”“充实”二字 | |
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老师你好,我是一名大二的。我在忙于
自己的事情中,少参加了宿舍里的活 动,所以跟宿舍的人渐渐地变疏远了, 甚至有时候她们一放学或者我在睡觉时 就直接忽略了我的存在。我知道,这时 我应该多跟她们交流,多做一些活动缓 和一些彼此的关系,但是后来我又想。 我的性格本如此,而且宿舍里的关系只 要不闹矛盾,能和谐相处,就已经很好 了。所以,我这个想法相对来说,是对 的么?或者老师您有什么样的建议呢?谢 谢老师的倾听。 |
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〖版主回复〗一般来说,女生的感情更细腻,对人际关系更敏感。你感觉和宿舍同学关系变疏远了,甚至有时候她们直接忽略了你的存在。你也知道自己应该多跟她们交流,多做一些活动缓和彼此的关系,这很好。但你认为宿舍里的关系只要不闹矛盾就已经很好了,这个观点我不能赞同。同学之间视而不见,彼此冷冰冰的,怎么能说和谐相处呢?还是建议你主动和舍友沟通,消除隔阂,大家一块学习、锻炼、逛街,有困难共同克服,这才是和谐共处。相信你能很快融入愉快的集体生活中的。 |
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