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 第 3422 条留言  昵称:斌哥  主题:大学生谈恋爱的利与弊
 留言内容:
  我经常在这里看一些东西,但很少发言(最多安慰别人几句),我以前觉得:作为一个大男生,有什么问题应该自己担着,自己去处理`解决;否则,自己就会显得懦弱,但我现在觉得不然,老师你说呢?
大学生到底该不该谈恋爱,这个问题一直困扰着我,我经常翻来覆去地想,但还是想不明白,请老师帮我解释,拜托啦!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗个人以为:在大学时候最好不要谈,把主要精力用在学习.不可否认,大学谈恋爱对个人有利,但我认为,弊大于利.大学的时间很宝贵,大学的时间也很快,有的人在大学收获很多,有的人也许一无所有,也有的人可能收获的是忧伤和痛苦,以至很久还不能从那种悲伤中解脱出来.

    [回复]      222.31.15.* 留言者IP: 222.31.15.*    发表于:2006年10月21日16:12:51

 第 3421 条留言  昵称:梧桐树  主题:我曾来过
 留言内容:
  我看到同学们的留言,觉的 挺新鲜的,有说高兴的,有说不幸的,挺热了热闹的,自己也想说两句。生活尽管有太多的不幸,但我们应该以伟大的胸怀,用笑脸来体会和面对,祝福大家快快乐乐每一天,不必计较太多,只因我们来过
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗感谢你对本站的支持!!!!

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2006年10月21日16:03:30

 第 3420 条留言  昵称:斌哥  主题:哎呀
 留言内容:
  我签写的留言怎进不去呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗试试重新登陆吧,呵呵— 有可能是机子卡吧!

    [回复]      222.31.15.* 留言者IP: 222.31.15.*    发表于:2006年10月21日16:02:55

 第 3419 条留言  昵称:了了  主题:问题
 留言内容:
  谢谢老师给我的建议。我知道该如何做了。
条件好的话先就业,想考研就业后再考吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗是的!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年10月21日14:43:51

 第 3418 条留言  昵称:雪儿  主题:老师,我该怎么办
 留言内容:
  老师,您好
虽然您说走自己的路,让别人去说吧,可事实上我们总是会在某些时间受别人的影响。
我已经不愿意呆在宿舍里了,可总有回去的时候,在那时,她们又要说一些不好的话语,也许次数少了你不在意,可偏偏屡次听,真得让人好伤心。
我几乎每天都要忍受,她们要么说我成书呆子了,要么说我不会享福,要么就嘲笑我,有时,我都不知道自己为什么会呆在这个世界上,真地好痛苦。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗第一,我认为你可以继续这样,不要太在意她们的看法,也不要和她们去争个是非,因为那可能是徒劳.第二,你可以跟他们说你确实很想读点书,读书能使人充实,读书能让人忘记烦恼.... 读书至少比在那闲聊、睡觉、打牌要好吧,那样只能浪费时间,浪费青春,所以你是选择继续看书学习还是因为她们的话而成天瞎混呢,我想你应该知道该怎么做了。当然了,回到宿舍的时间尽量地和大家和睦相处,不要太脱离集体了,这样,在宿舍的时候与她们同乐,读书的时间读书,我想你的室友也就不会在说太多的了。。。。     再加一句:你可以对TA们说:人各有志,不必强求,你也不讽刺TA们的“快乐”,希望也不希望TA们影响你的快乐。同时,不必与TA们较真,或许TA们也只是调侃,并不恶意的。你就把TA们的话理解成对你的鞭策,做出个样子给TA们看,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2006年10月21日11:40:07

 第 3417 条留言  昵称:天空  主题:哎,郁闷
 留言内容:
  我是我们系学生回的临时干部,今天辅导员突然问我:你觉得你适合这项工作吗?我丈二的和尚莫不找头。我做错了仕么吗?这段时间我尽职尽责,有时忽略了学习也毫无怨言,可是……?是因为我上次“得罪”人家了吗?也不知道,我决意辞职!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你说的很含糊,我也不知道该说什么了,只是有一条:不要因为这些耽误了自己的学业,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年10月21日11:38:25

 第 3416 条留言  昵称:迷茫  主题:无奈
 留言内容:
  老师谢谢你 我知道该怎么做了 我想我会慢慢调整过来的 我真的很珍惜我们在一起的点点滴滴 曾经那么的开心 而现在我们都不开心 是很不开心 我的放弃只让一个人开心而已
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗过一段时间,事情就会体现和表现出本来的样子,如果能散,就一定会散的,如果不能散,那就定然不会散的。     暂时按我说的做,你不必刻意做什么,现在这样持续,如何?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2006年10月21日10:07:31

 第 3415 条留言  昵称:  主题:星星月亮您好
 留言内容:
  张波老师,想找一个一生的朋友,尤其是想您这样的老师朋友,该怎么是好
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗抱歉,我不是你要找的张波哦,不过我想给你一点建议:不要刻意地去寻找一些东西,你想要的老天必定会眷顾你的哦!呵呵,只要你快乐地学习生活便好了......              呵呵,我看到了你的留言和别的老师的回复。我加一句,你的意思,其实就是明知故问嘛!答案你也是知道的——嗯,你这么婉约,那我就直接点:直接找我不就是了?或者,就这样网上交流,那我们就是网友了,固然,这不公平,因为你知道我,而我不知道你,呵呵……   当然,我可能是一个很好的朋友,也可能不是,^_^,再见?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2006年10月21日9:32:35

 第 3414 条留言  昵称:疲惫的旅游鞋  主题:写给爱情
 留言内容:
  潜行
寂寞的守侯
瞄准
毫不颤抖的出击
爱情带着血花
喷涌而出
壮烈而美丽
灿烂而绝望


凝固在爱的时间里
爱情
凝固在血的空间里

坚持
坚持

终归要倒下
挣扎着
最后望向天空
瓦蓝瓦蓝的天空
带着血色
颤抖着、战栗着、惊悚着、绝望着……
黑暗
慢慢袭来
成为永久的颜色
漂泊
成为永久的记忆

爱带着
血的味道
淡淡的
弥散着
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗爱情是美好而痛苦的,但每个人都争相去拥有它,一个萝卜一个坑相信缘分吧,不是它不钟情于你而是缘分未到

    [回复]      219.149.183.* 留言者IP: 219.149.183.*    发表于:2006年10月20日20:24:52

 第 3413 条留言  昵称:疲惫的旅游鞋  主题:给以前的同学
 留言内容:
  离开了,有了距离,不知道你们身在何方,不知道你们过的是否如意!
在这里,淡淡的问候你们……
未来,要珍惜自己!
等你踏上爱情的红地毯,可感动?
等你走进婚姻的日子里,可幸福?
等你遗忘过去的朋友们,可难过?
等你一路走过撒下花瓣,可悲伤?
喜欢就送上热热的一个吻,
美丽就要学会珍惜,
等有一天,相互隔着千万年的距离,
珍惜,已经迟了!
不知道未来,不知道现在,知道的只有从前
可是……都回不去了……
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗离开了,我们才能发现作为同学之谊的可贵,有时分开了才更有意义,同学是我们这一生的财富

    [回复]      219.149.183.* 留言者IP: 219.149.183.*    发表于:2006年10月20日20:12:12

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