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 第 3042 条留言  昵称:Fly  主题:心语
 留言内容:
  风是淡淡的,
雨是淡淡的。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗心,也是淡淡的,呵呵……我貂尾需狗了。   似乎有味道!不错哟?

    [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2006年6月1日11:27:09

 第 3041 条留言  昵称:不得不糊涂  主题:难题
 留言内容:
  老师大可放心,我找的工作很安全,我也很好的照顾自己,谢谢老师的提醒!那些问题我会很好的注意!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗那就好,我相信你能独立面对和处理的!!将来真的做的不错的话,别忘了跟我说一声,让我也分享你的快乐和成就感,好吗?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年6月1日10:44:22

 第 3040 条留言  昵称:不得不糊涂  主题:难题
 留言内容:
  这样可以吗?我也是觉得 自己都已经很大了,要试者学会独立,也得好好锻炼一下自己,我很怕母亲生气,我也不希望她生气,我尽量说服她吧,谢谢老师的建议,虽说冒险了一点,但有时是需要善意的欺骗,不是吗?我知道该怎么做了。谢谢老师!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗不用客气,只要你不那么痛苦了,我们就高兴了,希望你快乐!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年6月1日10:40:43

 第 3039 条留言  昵称:大大,  主题:同学
 留言内容:
  和宿舍总是处不好她太过了无法忍受帮帮我
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好1可能没有你想象的那么难。不妨换个角度思考一下,为什么会出现这样的问题,我们自己有多少原因?能意识到这一点,我们就没有那么痛苦了。再者,如果是对方的问题很大,她对我们来说是客观的,努力调整自己的心态,就会有新的感觉。还可以使自己努力改变对她的看法,因为你们在一起的时间毕竟是有限的,这也是一种缘分啊!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2006年5月31日20:59:00

 第 3038 条留言  昵称:tianya  主题:怎样消除心理敏感?
 留言内容:
  和宿舍一很要好的女生有矛盾了,事过了很久了。几个人一起做什么事,他们一个眼神或动作会让我觉的他们对我有意见。有时心里明知他们没那意思,还是会很难受,慢慢的我变的很离群,上下课我单走。我现在试着去融合他们,可一碰到让我明感的事,我会立即后退几步。就这样,心理备受煎熬,想过换宿舍,可没有合适的,很矛盾!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你呀,既然能想的通,就不必太在意了,你说是吗?“心里明知他们没那意思”,就不用考虑那么多了,好好的学习就是,试着融入大家,遇到敏感的事情,也可以考虑退,也没有什么。   试着学会多宽容些,豁达些,多理解些别人,其实学生时期,等将来,你会觉得,没有什么大不了的事情,没有什么过不来的坎,你说呢?   宽以待人,真诚对人,快乐助人,好吗?   我相信你能做好的!!

  122149822   [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2006年5月31日18:10:39

 第 3037 条留言  昵称:静菁  主题:心理矛盾
 留言内容:
  首先谢谢老师您的答复,真的很高兴。
但是我觉得我对我的朋友很坦率,有时显得大家挺热闹的,什么话都说;但有时就不尽然呀,反正我就觉得在大学很难找一位知心朋友,每个人总是敷衍了事,你说呢?我觉得我很理解其他人呀.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗  甭说是在大学很难找一位知心朋友了,有的一生找一个知心朋友都很难的,“千古知音最难觅”嘛!   当然,这是很理想化的朋友,实际上朋友分很多种的,所以要找的话,还是很容易的,我以为。   你就按照你的方式,坦率、热闹、理解,时间长了,就自然会有很多朋友了。   对朋友的要求不能太高了,学习的朋友就不一定要求开朗活泼,玩的朋友就不能很内向沉默寡言,逛街要有能逛的就行,呵呵……如何?   我想,你如果能反思出自己的不足并能纠正,对朋友要求低些,会有很多朋友的。   我等着听你的好消息?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年5月31日15:15:36

 第 3036 条留言  昵称:不得不糊涂  主题:??/
 留言内容:
  快放假了,我找了一份暑假工作,可我怕家里人不同意,但我真的想为家里做点什么,尤其母亲坚决让我回去,我应该怎样说才能使母亲同意??才能让她不担心??//要知道找到合适的工作很不容易,但我也不希望母亲太担心,我该怎么办??//
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗已经找下了?确实不容易的!家里不同意,从他们的想法上来看,是为你担心,还不放心你,是吗?那就跟他们说说,你迟早要长大的,现在先锻炼锻炼,有好处的,当然,比较固执的家长是很难说通了,这就看你的能力和水平了,是吗?   实在不行,使用“拖”字诀,或者“骗”字诀,尽量拖,实在不行就骗,如:跟人家已经签了合同,不去的话,要赔几千块钱,等。呵呵……你看,我教你不诚信……   当然,你找的工作是合适的,安全的,否则,那,你就必须回家!   如何?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年5月31日14:47:16

 第 3035 条留言  昵称:响马帮帮主  主题:山东老乡注意一下
 留言内容:
  山东老乡们,俺们建了个老乡群,有意者可以加入进来,畅所欲言,共话乡情乡谊,联系还方便些,记住群号:6165605
祝老乡们考试大捷,啸傲高专!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵……志向不小,可以鼓励,我希望你们互相鼓励,齐创辉煌!!

  461161250   [回复]      211.142.95.* 留言者IP: 211.142.95.*    发表于:2006年5月31日14:24:35

 第 3034 条留言  昵称:Rain  主题:谢谢您
 留言内容:
  多谢老师,我的压力也在一步一步被我正视,它有利有弊,这些我都知道,由于写些随感,我的心情也能稍微平静些,而不那么躁了,真的谢谢您!!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗不用客气,能使你们健康快乐地成长是我们的职责!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年5月31日11:54:03

 第 3033 条留言  昵称:依卡  主题:老师帮我
 留言内容:
  老师你好,祝你端午节快乐!我想问你一个问题,你说在大一升大二的时候转系后,能不能跟着那个系的大二继上?麻烦你告诉我,我真的很迷茫,谢谢老师。再次祝端午节快乐!






  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好,也祝你快乐!   你的问题,严格的讲,可能不是问题,能否跟的上取决于转系后的专业,还有你的努力程度,你没有说你比较具体的情况,我只能这样说了,你再想想?   我用通俗的话结尾:世上无难事,只要肯登攀!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2006年5月31日8:59:25

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