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第 2795 条留言 昵称:向日葵 主题:大学很无聊 | |
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我曾以为大学是多么的美好,可以做自己喜欢做的事情,但来到大学才知道不是那样,有时候真的很无耐。每天就是听没有水平老师的课。我真的不喜欢中国的教育,这样的谗害大学生。我真的不知道该怎样度过我的大学生活。老师你能帮帮我吗?学生在此先谢了
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〖版主回复〗 不论是幼儿园、还是小学中学大学,都会有人认为美好,有人认为不美好,虽然这样的原因很多,但最最重要的是,自己!! 自己喜欢的事情还是可以做的,但你喜欢旷课、通宵上网等不好的方面,当然不行了,这是学校,学校就是学校,你说呢? 中国的教育是有很多问题,但我们目前是改变不了的,暂时最好的办法是——适应,我上大学时,讲的不好的老师,他的课我就不听,就看教材,也挺好!!烦时烦的,但我也学了我该学的东西了,所以很 充实!! 你现在的状况,不能都怨学校,自己呢?我,如果有什么事情,首先反思自己的不足、不够、不好,然后才考虑其他,这样,我就不会给自己找很多借口,抱怨周围的人和事,自己做事就积极些,所以,这么些年下来,我没有觉得小学不美好,中学不美好,大学不美好,工作不美好,我觉得都挺好,不如意、不痛快的事情也很多,但心态要好些,尽量让自己更多些快乐,更多关注美好,生活就美好多了。 另外就是,给自己学习的一个目标,否则,你很难改变你的现状的,你想想? 试试? |
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第 2794 条留言 昵称:不得不糊涂 主题:体育生的悲哀 | |
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不知道从什么时候起,我听到的体育女=恐龙。其实体育女只是豪爽,活泼。这应该没错啊!可是其他系以偏概全,而且说什么四肢发达,头脑简单???太不尊重体育生了!!!
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〖版主回复〗 哈……就这么点事情啊,你就这样不舒服,事实在,管别人说什么,你说呢?当今体坛美女很多,追捧者众,可见,最重要的是,要有一技之长,或让人信服的东西,那些有偏见的人自然就会自己纠偏,你以为呢? 说什么话的人都有,不要当回事情,也就是了,用事实说明一切,最好!! |
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第 2793 条留言 昵称:伤心 主题:爱过了,伤过了,还会在爱吗????? | |
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爱过了,伤过了,我还会在有爱情吗??????
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〖版主回复〗这就全看你自己了!!! 你想有,应该就会有,如果,呵呵……你把自己当破罐子摔,恐怕就难了。 再想想? 鼓起生活的勇气,迎接崭新的明天——这是你的选择!! |
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第 2792 条留言 昵称:东儿 主题:生命中走过的》》》 | |
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活了这么多年了,我生命中走过的很多人,他们都在悄悄的离我远去,我最爱得人,我最好的朋友,为什么我永远抓不住我想要得,
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〖版主回复〗他们离去的原因是什么呢?你仔细地想过吗?? 如果是你的原因,那你就要考虑改变自己了,你说呢? |
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第 2791 条留言 昵称:傻傻 主题:角落 | |
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如果世界上有那样一个深爱我的人,我一定会对他很好很好。我会对他很好,无论他贫富贵贱,无论他作出什么选择,只要他愿意,我都可以跟他走,哪怕是沙漠和边疆;将来我会每天给他做饭,洗衣服,为他生儿育女,为他照顾父母,过一辈子很平凡可是能互相扶持的生活;我们会在一起过十年,二十年,三十年,一直到死,生生世世。
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〖版主回复〗哦,看来你是家庭型的。 不过,我的看法是,生活很丰富,不仅仅是你说的那些情形,还有很多呢? 如果你就是这样做很多年,说不定,对方会觉得你很没有品位的,你再想想? 将来的社会,女性还是要有自己的工作或事业的好。呵呵……人各有志,不必勉强,我只是谈我的看法而已。 再见 |
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第 2790 条留言 昵称:女孩儿 主题:友谊是什么 | |
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好啊,老版,我觉得自己真的太无能了,连最起码的人际关系都处理不好。
最近我跟我一老乡闹矛盾,我俩本来关系就不很好,除了偶尔吃顿饭外,很少在一起。我觉得我们的关系还不如普通的同学。可是他昨天竟然骂我,说我害他,我总是帮着他,连同学都看不过去,说我怎么怎么的,我总是为他好,什么事都帮着他,可我真的不知道他是怎么想的,竟然那样想我,我真的受不了,在他说我时,我的心象滴血似的疼,我不知道是为什么,难道是去一个同学就这样的痛苦。 友谊是靠两个人来维持的,为什么总让我一味的付出,还落个害人的称号,我又何苦呢?如果真的是这样,我还不如放弃呢?我也知道他当时的心情不好,可是我又没惹他,他干吗冲我发火啊,再者,这样,我也少了不少麻烦,以前,总得帮他干这弄那,现在也 轻松一大截,我何乐而不为呢? 我会让他后悔失去我这个朋友的,以前我总说都是老乡有什么过不去的呢?可是现在我真的受不了了,我要跟他绝交。 不过,有时候想想,为何让人家难受呢?自己真的就那么狠心,不过,我觉得这业是最好的办法了,不然,我还能怎样呢? 生活本来就是不平的,而我却又为这不平打抱不平,我怎么这么无聊呢? |
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〖版主回复〗如果真的如你所说,那我以为那就是一种对你的伤害!但是我也认为,你和他之间仍可和平共处,呵呵!面对别人对自己的伤害,我认为要有天空般的胸襟,就像蚌包容一粒沙,终会使其成为珍珠;就像蓝天包容乌云,才会有风雨后美丽的彩虹.你和你朋友可以继续交往,通过你的真诚去感化他,这样可能就会消除误会,加深友谊..... 另外,如果你不迁就他,或许能使他更成熟些,所以,你也可以暂时不用理会他,让他意识到:老乡不是用来伤害的,应该多关心别人才对。你说呢? |
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第 2789 条留言 昵称:足球人 主题:毕业 | |
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老师:你好!我是一名即将毕业的中文系学生,离去不免产生伤感,产生留念。四年的大学生活历历在目,老师的教诲永世难忘!感谢学院,感谢老师!祝咱们学院越来越好!
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〖版主回复〗谢谢你!!!!!!我们也愿你顺水又顺风,有空的话,欢迎你来本站传经送宝,呵呵...... |
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第 2788 条留言 昵称:不知所措的人 主题:帮帮我 | |
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为什么发了两通上面仍然没有呢?我只有重写。对不起啊老师耽误您时间了。因为选择了别人而拒绝了好朋友,我们俩便行同陌路。可不知为什么老在人群中寻找他,老是拿他和男友比较,老是一见到他或是一想到他就泪流满面,仅仅是歉疚或是惋惜失去了一个好朋友吗?因为这我跟男友提过分手,可没有分了,因为我的软弱和他的坚持,因为他对我的好,也有些不舍,也怕他的极端使他伤害太深。但仍然是痛苦,所以我不知道怎么办,帮帮我!
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〖版主回复〗看来,你是个善良的人,也是个多愁善感的人,还可能是个有点优柔寡断的人,我个人以为,你现在不妨好好反思一下,看你到底是更喜欢、更爱那一个,只要做了决断,就不要再摇摆了,否则,对你们三个都会有伤害的,你说呢? 如果做了最后的决断,就不要再犹豫和内疚了,选择就是这样的,很难尽善尽美,两善相权取其重。找个合适的机会,找你的好朋友谈谈.如果没有机会,就不用谈了,当然,你也不用再考虑这么多了,时间会解决许多问题的,你意下如何? |
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第 2787 条留言 昵称:不知所措的人 主题:道歉 | |
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对不起,因为不知道上一通留言发出去了没有,而我又急切想知道解决办法。所以如果是两通一样的话希望老师您不要嫌我烦啊,只回一通就可以拉。谢谢您,辛苦啦!
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〖版主回复〗没有关系,做老师的,还能烦学生,如果这样的话,那我可不就让你们早就烦死了?呵呵…… 谢谢你对我们辛苦的理解!我想,你一定是一个善解人意的人!! |
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第 2786 条留言 昵称:妍妍 主题:没有爱的日子,心是泪的海洋!!! | |
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张老师!
认识你是我此生最大的荣幸!! 认识你,我才懂得什么叫修养,什么叫君子,什么叫成熟,什么叫稳重!!是真的!面对不成熟的我们,面对冲动、激动、及无意的冒犯,你总是先来审视自己。原谅那些冲动的学生们!! 我这辈子都不会忘记你给我们的哲言:打开心灵的窗口,你会发现,生活原来可以如此阳光!!! 希望能天天见到你! 对了,你比去年发福了!!!加油!!哈哈、、、 |
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〖版主回复〗呵呵……你如此的赞誉,让我有点不知所措了,我没有你说的那么好,不过,我一直倒是在向你所说的方向努力!! 我年龄到底大了嘛,所以,成熟稳重等等是应该的,我是老师嘛,君子修养,也是应该的,你说不是吗? 天天见我?恐怕难啊,我比较忙,你也比较忙,不过,只要心里有我,把我当一个还算不错的老师,心里能感受到我对你的积极的影响,就算不能见,也无所谓,你说呢? 因为年龄大了,所以,发福就是比较自然的了!哈哈……我会加油,尽量留一个精干的印象给我可爱的学生们,当然也包括你。在这一点上,我不顺其自然,呵呵…… 再次致谢,再见! 最郁闷的是,我不知道你是谁?再见?? |
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