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 第 2354 条留言  昵称:娟娟  主题:关于生活
 留言内容:
  跟他人交流,都说我活的太累,想的太多,我也有这个感受,老师,怎样会变的快乐轻松,我也想快乐点.谢谢!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗参见下面对你的回复内容。   另:生活中多和乐天派的人交往,尽量避免与非乐天派的人交往。

    [回复]      202.207.233.* 留言者IP: 202.207.233.*    发表于:2005年11月27日17:49:55

 第 2353 条留言  昵称:娟娟  主题:关于生活
 留言内容:
  我这人,心里老不能有事,一有事,心里总提着,真不好受,请问老师怎样做才能改掉这坏毛病.谢谢老师回答我的问题.
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗尽快转换自己的注意力!   比如,在想这些事的时候,你不妨提醒自己:有什么想的?!我想点快乐的事,做点快乐的事。  然后马上去做其他事。   你试试?

    [回复]      202.207.233.* 留言者IP: 202.207.233.*    发表于:2005年11月27日17:44:12

 第 2352 条留言  昵称:5178  主题:面对问题,如何选择
 留言内容:
  我越来越发现我适应不了大学生活了!觉得许多事情不像自己想的那么简单,譬如人与人之间的交往,学习也力不从心.
其实,我是控制不了自己,我想飞却飞不高,想走却走不远!我很痛苦,每天重复历史,每天都在忏悔!
怎么办?请帮帮我!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我是帮不了你的,只能你自己帮你!!   其实人与人的差别就在于意志,也可以叫自控能力,如果你不想将来沦为最普通者,或是沦为弱势集体中的一员的话,那就从现在开始锻炼和增强自己的意志!!   意志,就是强迫自己做事情的力量,一点点地克服吧,你说呢?   当然,最好从好的角度:如美好的愿望、快乐的未来来鼓励和引导自己,这样过程就会好些,你说呢?    自己努力,据说,自助者天助!你想想?

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2005年11月27日14:39:17

 第 2351 条留言  昵称:小小  主题:人啊!
 留言内容:
  最近由于很多事情让我感慨颇多。其实这些事情都是宿舍里的事情,一宿舍的人要在一起生活四年,很多事情都要学会彼此容忍,接受,这一点我想每个人都应该知道,但它做起来真的很难。我也不是什么伟人,没有那么大的胸怀要我去包容他们,可是不这样我怎么才能和他们一起生活四年啊?!表面上我们都相处的很好,可是实际上却不是那么一回事。不知道是不是我想的太多了。我现在才感觉人和人相处真的好难!老师,请你教教我该怎么做,至少我自己心里可以不这么难受!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗严格的讲,这样的问题是没有好的解决办法的,我当时的做法就是尽量理解那些毛病多的舍友。因为没有其他更好的办法,真的!!   当然,心里会有难受的感觉,但真正理解他的话,你会感觉这确实是你的胸怀。你也 就会成熟很多!!以后你会逐步体会到,不论在哪里,都有与人相处的问题,现在就锻炼的宽容、容忍、大度,对将来是有益的。   从另一个角度看,那些你认为有毛病的同学,何尝不是你将来成功的垫脚石呢?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年11月27日11:48:49

 第 2350 条留言  昵称:咖啡  主题:找人
 留言内容:
  斑竹,我想找网名叫晋龙门人的人,还有一个叫杯中水,如果你知道,告诉我好吗? 我的QQ是147670220
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我也不知道,你自己留言找他们,看他们是否有反应。   我根本就没有他们的信息。    再见

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年11月27日11:09:22

 第 2349 条留言  昵称:蓝天  主题:
 留言内容:
  朋友总喜欢跟着我,但是我却是个相对喜欢静的人。有时弄不好就把人家得罪了,老师,那你说我该怎么给她们说啊!我也不想伤了我们的友谊。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我认为那你就跟他(她)说明白自己的意思就可以了,要是真正的朋友是不会在意这些的,要不是真正的朋友你何必又怕得罪呢,因为他(她)不为别人考虑呀,试试看!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年11月27日8:38:03

 第 2348 条留言  昵称:冬雪  主题:我每次都很伤心
 留言内容:
  交朋友真难,交一个知心的朋友更难,说是知心的朋友每次都使我很伤心,我新真的很难受,为此我哭过!此时我感觉到我活的很失败,我感觉自己很在乎朋友的情谊!每次我没有办法放松自己呀!谢谢老师给我回话。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗交一个知心朋友确实很难,我也有同样的体会,但是关键是我们怎么去看这些问题.既然你我都知道这是很难很难的事情,那就不必为此伤心和难过,只要做到问心无愧就可以了,你说呢?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年11月26日21:30:11

 第 2347 条留言  昵称:娟娟  主题:关于学习
 留言内容:
  我也不知道怎的,好像我不能受人夸奖似的,别人一夸我,自己就飘飘然起来了,比如今天,舍友对我说,你学习真用功,每天都在图书馆学习,然后,下午,我准备去图书馆学习,却不想学了,好像自己学够了,这是不是骄傲。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我认为有那么一点骄傲的迹象.关键的是自己在任何时候都要保持清醒的头脑,时刻提醒自己学海无涯.

    [回复]      202.207.233.* 留言者IP: 202.207.233.*    发表于:2005年11月26日21:21:17

 第 2346 条留言  昵称:娟娟  主题:关于学习
 留言内容:
  我觉得我的自制力还不错,因为在中学,我控制住自己,把很多时间都用来学习,玩的时间很少,可是,现在进入大学,我们计算机系的课很少,在自己完成应做的作业后,原计划去再学一些课外知识,但总不想学,这很让我苦恼,请老师帮帮我。谢谢!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗以前自己能控制自己好好学习,那固然是与自己的内在控制力有关,但是也与外在的高考压力有关.但是现在不一样了,那就得全靠自己了,要是这个时候你还能控制好自己,那你就是真正的长大了,真正的成熟了,是一个完全独立的人了,我相信你能做到和做好的.

    [回复]      202.207.233.* 留言者IP: 202.207.233.*    发表于:2005年11月26日21:11:53

 第 2345 条留言  昵称:娟娟  主题:性格方面
 留言内容:
  我是一个性格内向的女孩,也是一个爱学习的女孩,学习能给我带来快乐,但生活给我的快了很少,我不爱说话,但很渴望自己是一个爱说话的人,有时自己默默坐那儿看着别人说说笑笑发呆,请问老师帮帮我。谢谢!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗既然自己发现了自己的缺点,那就很好解决了,既然很羡慕别人有说有笑的,那就积极地参与进去啊.很多事情就是这样,不参与就不知道,一参与特别是集体活动,就能发现其中的乐趣,试试看,怎么样?

    [回复]      202.207.233.* 留言者IP: 202.207.233.*    发表于:2005年11月26日20:59:54

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