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 第 8736 条留言  昵称:秘密  主题:情感
 留言内容:
  樊老师,夫妻之间没有秘密好?还是?女人经常喜欢翻男人的手机,看看男人有没有和别的女人聊天、有没有给别的女人打电话什么的,这样对吗?夫妻之间是不是不应该有感情方面的秘密了?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!不要把丈夫当作你的私有财产,他是独立的,社会化的人,任何一个人都有自己的空间或者秘密,包括我们自己。尊重他是妻子必备的品德,为什么要看对方的手机?不信任或者不自信吧。发现了什么就开始哭闹或者痛苦,这样的表现其实反映了把他当作了自己的私有财产。其实,这个世界上什么才是你的呢?一个有责任的男人会有异性喜欢的,但他一定不会放弃他的责任;如果不负责任,你看手机能管的住吗? 做好自己的事情,提高自己的能力,才是吸引他的前提。你说呢, 祝开心!

    [回复]      124.163.223.* 留言者IP: 124.163.223.*    发表于:2015年8月20日16:49:51

 第 8735 条留言  昵称:灰色心情  主题:感情
 留言内容:
  樊老师,你好!毕业之后喜欢上了一个离异男士,我俩之间的感情没问题,开始只是抱着做个知己的心态,时间久了觉得互相都离不开对方,想走到一起,但都没有明确说出来。(他是一个心胸特别宽阔、包容心特别强且特别善良的人,他之所以外出打拼是由于他经营不善导致欠账不少,离婚也与经济有关)慢慢的就出现了一些问题,发现他与前妻仅仅是纸质离婚,他也经常会发一些关心的微信给前妻(她前妻是一个出力不讨好的人,嘴特别不积德,应该是一个直性子的人,但长的特别漂亮,跟公婆关系也不是很好);还称呼爸妈是“咱爸妈”;他妈过生日,他前妻也去,还拍照片发给他看;他前妻也经常带着孩子们去他爸家吃饭(他有两个特别好的孩子);他也比较关注他前妻的微信朋友圈动态;(但他前妻不怎么理他,有时候话说的不对头还破口大骂他呢)知道这些,我心里挺不爽的,有种吃醋的感觉。不由得就想去计较,他也和我说过想要在一起,我也知道他对我确实也挺好,可是想到这些事,我就觉得挺心烦的。我也问过他,他说是为了孩子,真的仅仅只是为了孩子吗?自从知道了这些,我觉得有种第三者的感觉,特别不爽,这不是我想要的,之前从未有过这种感觉。我真的不知道该怎么定位这件事情呢?樊老师可以帮我分析一下吗?谢谢!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!谢谢你对我的信任。想给你说很多,但条件有限,概况如下:第一,你理解爱的实质了吗?奉献而不是占有。第二,换个角度想想看,如果有人也爱你的父亲,作为你的父亲会怎么对待你们和你们的妈妈?你现在理解不了夫妻之间有了孩子以后的感情,哪怕是分开了,孩子还会把他们联系在一起的。第三,做人应该有原则吧,再喜欢对方也不能伤害他人,我们管不了别人,但可以管住自己吧。第四,你不了解人性的弱点,距离产生美,如果没有爱,他们会结婚生子吗?如果你们到了一起,你怎么面对人性的恶表现出来的行为? 理性是女人幸福快乐的前提,建议你谨慎,并且多替别人考虑一下!祝好运!

    [回复]      223.14.205.* 留言者IP: 223.14.205.*    发表于:2015年8月20日0:26:18

 第 8734 条留言  昵称:微尘  主题:不自信
 留言内容:
  老师
您好!我从小就被我爸妈说长得不好看,比不
上这个,比不上那个,同时,我有一个漂亮的妹
妹,爸爸每天也把她夸来夸去,以至于现在我很不
自信,我勤奋,听话,最终还是比不过人长得漂
亮。现在到了处对象的年纪,有人给我介绍对象我
爸就说:你长的不好,不知道人能不能看上。太伤
心了,我是不是该去微整形?我特别受不了爸妈在
相貌方面说我!而且特别认真,绝不是开玩笑!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!理解你现在的心情。 一个人对自我的认知的确是来源于周围环境里的人长期对自己的评价,但随着年龄的增长,我们对自己也会有一个认知的。上帝不可能把什么都给了一个人,你肯定还有其它方面的优点,努力发现自己的优点吧。 虽然整形这个措施可以改变自己的容貌,但能保持多长时间,以后怎么办?有后遗症怎么办?难得整的好看一点就一定能找到理想的人吗?如果一个男人把外表放到第一位的时候,你觉得这样的人会给你带来快乐和幸福吗? 自信是女性美丽的重要因素,相信自己吧。 请你三思,祝你开心!

    [回复]      171.122.245.* 留言者IP: 171.122.245.*    发表于:2015年8月15日17:44:58

 第 8733 条留言  昵称:云云  主题:成绩
 留言内容:
  运城学院考试重修不及格怎么办
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!看看你们的《运城学院大学生入学手册》,那里有详细说明!

    [回复]      118.76.217.* 留言者IP: 118.76.217.*    发表于:2015年8月10日7:38:45

 第 8732 条留言  昵称:小王  主题:贷款
 留言内容:
  我是一名专升本新生,问一下老师,我以前贷过,今年不知需要啥东西了
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!作为普通的任课教师不清楚这些具体的规定,你可以问问财务处的工作人员,或者开学以后的辅导员。 祝好运!

    [回复]      223.10.42.* 留言者IP: 223.10.42.*    发表于:2015年8月8日15:01:05

 第 8731 条留言  昵称:王鹏伟  主题:升学贷款
 留言内容:
  老师,您好我是运城学院专升本新生,请问一下专升本咋续贷?,我以前上专科时贷过
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!这个事情需要问财务处收缴学费的工作人员或者你开学以后的辅导员,祝好运!

  2236695518   [回复]      113.26.217.* 留言者IP: 113.26.217.*    发表于:2015年8月8日9:58:32

 第 8730 条留言  昵称:昕昕  主题:双学位
 留言内容:
  老师,咱们学校可以修双学位吗?具体是怎样的
呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!前两年不能,这几年发展比较快,具体的我们这些普通任课教师不清楚。你可以打教务处的电话问问,或者找《运城学院大学生入学须知》看看。 祝好运!

  530891300   [回复]      223.10.183.* 留言者IP: 223.10.183.*    发表于:2015年8月6日9:35:34

 第 8729 条留言  昵称:000  主题:课表
 留言内容:
  老师,咱新课表啥时候出来啊啊啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!课表由教务处的老师排,我们这些教师也在等着看!

    [回复]      110.18.46.* 留言者IP: 110.18.46.*    发表于:2015年7月31日11:38:33

 第 8728 条留言  昵称:刘玲玲  主题:感觉老师给成绩不公平
 留言内容:
  我是学院学生,比较好强,最近查了成绩,发
现我有机化学实验成绩不理想,因为我的有机化
学是考的还好,都有98.4分,可是有机化学是
上个学期学的,实验是这个学期学的,还是一
个代课老师,没办法得知为何分数这么低。我
没旷课,也认真预习了,实验报告也是按照老
师要求写的,实在不知道该怎么办。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!理解你的感受,分数是学生的命根。 其实,学习最主要的不是考了多少分,而是在掌握知识的同时养成了一些良好的品德,如认真,细心,耐心等。 如果自己对成绩还是特别怀疑,那就和老师联系一下,发现问题是进步的基础。 祝开心!

  1054073324   [回复]      58.241.44.* 留言者IP: 58.241.44.*    发表于:2015年7月15日21:52:45

 第 8727 条留言  昵称:燃烧的仙人掌  主题:时间
 留言内容:
  大学的人事关系,时间安排,师生交流,
学业进度,真的很艰辛,让人成长
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!说明你用心做事情了,好样的!

    [回复]      221.204.248.* 留言者IP: 221.204.248.*    发表于:2015年7月14日10:00:28

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