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 第 1866 条留言  昵称:无意  主题:怎么回事?
 留言内容:
  这学期不知怎么了?做什么事都不太顺利,考试成绩不好,其他也是,有时说错一句话,会让他人不生气.而且有时我会很自卑,您说我该怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!这可能是你的心理作用。人有时候遇到不顺心的事情时,就会出现情形的迁移,觉得做什么都不顺利。其实,没有那么严重。把自己遇到的问题和日常的学习和生活区别开来,就会有新的感受。祝你快乐!

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2005年9月29日8:22:45

 第 1865 条留言  昵称:会说话的哑巴  主题:无情
 留言内容:
  如果一个人只剩下三天的生命,你会做什么呢?是不是还象现在这样啊?当我遇到这个问题时,我不知道该怎么回答,是不是它太残酷啊.可是我看到的答案是:以前的君子不再希望去继续做君子,因为太短暂了,所以他必须享受生活.这样的回答是不是应该呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!每个人都有自己的价值观,人生的选择和它有密切的关系。有的选择有比较好的结果,有的选择的结果可能就比较差。有什么样的追求就会有什么样的选择。如果是我我可能不会选择享受,而是选择还能给社会留下一点什么。

    [回复]      222.31.15.* 留言者IP: 222.31.15.*    发表于:2005年9月28日21:19:58

 第 1864 条留言  昵称:糊涂  主题:感情
 留言内容:
  感情这东西似乎不可以评价,是一种心灵的感应,也不知道喜欢他什么,只是有一种莫名心动,在感情上很难有理智可言!告诉我!对感情如何是好?是理智的控制?还是任其发展?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!对感情我觉得还是用理智控制它比较好。人的价值就在于人有理智,这是人类比一般的动物高级的地方。经过理智监督的感情才能给人带来美好的感觉!

  328951163   [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年9月28日16:21:58

 第 1863 条留言  昵称:萧寒子  主题:明天在哪里?
 留言内容:
  明天在哪里? 谁能告诉我?
学习走神,吃饭没劲!
整天一人 晃来晃去........
希望有知己帮我度过难关!!!

  写信给我

〖版主回复〗1、必须确立目标,哪怕是未必能完成的目标,至少是在校期间必须有目标!!否则就没有重心。 看看自己最感兴趣的是什么,然后做决断。 2、加强锻炼,这样就可能想吃饭了,也不至于学习走神,加大锻炼的量。 3、试着介入大家,比如自己感兴趣时。直到过渡到自己不感兴趣也可以介入,你说呢? 4、好好思考现在和将来,知道自己的兴趣在什么方面,然后有计划地投入自己的时间和精力!! 先就这样,以后再聊。 我今天没有时间了。 再见

  280816800   [回复]      222.31.9.* 留言者IP: 222.31.9.*    发表于:2005年9月27日22:20:59

 第 1862 条留言  昵称:凡凡  主题:家?
 留言内容:
  我门这学期搬到新校了,这的花少的可怜,树一个一个那么孤单,这除了荒凉就是没意思,哈我没什么意思发发闷气而已
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我们这学期也搬到新校了,现在花是少些,秋天了嘛,自然规律决定,很正常不是吗?至于树,也不是那么孤单,不少呀!你感到的荒凉,其实或许是缘于你的暂时心态而已,心情好的时候就好多了,是吗?   “发发闷气而已”,没关系,有什么闷气就发发,总比憋在心里好。呵呵……欢迎发泄!!

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年9月27日11:49:31

 第 1861 条留言  昵称:孟一  主题:现实
 留言内容:
  我没什么话说,不过就是觉的他们好玩发来发去的不知道能不能解决实际问题要不就浪费口舌和口水了。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你还是有话说了,不是吗?你是一贯喜欢自相矛盾的吗?呵呵……所以,当我们在说什么的时候,有些情况自己都意识不到的。     至于发来发去的,能不能解决问题,如果从头看过了,你会知道的,留言有回复后,体会是个人的。  其实,我们这里的有些话,也是大道理,但有的人在有些情况下只不过需要别人给他说说而已,他自己什么都懂的,只是需要他自己说出来,别人给他说说。     比如吧,你最终还是要复归死亡的,但现在还不得好好地活着?不要只求一个结果,过程其实蛮重要。   你想想?

    [回复]      222.31.11.* 留言者IP: 222.31.11.*    发表于:2005年9月27日11:43:46

 第 1860 条留言  昵称:大约在冬季  主题:我该怎么办?
 留言内容:
  我喜欢他,可他明明知道,却无所谓,并且他有自己的苦衷,为此,我常常默默的帮助他,另外,我知道他是无心的,可我接受不了他这样莫不做声,看到他,我不知道怎么面对?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗  你明明知道人家有苦衷,而且对你无所谓,而且又是无心的,你又什么接受不了的?????????   心态还是不平,认为自己帮了他,他就应该有所反应和回报,是吗?那样的话,就成了交易了,感情这东东还真难用交易来说,你再想想?   或许,你该放弃了,虽然很难……

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2005年9月27日9:26:27

 第 1859 条留言  昵称:林蓝  主题:不知该如何是好
 留言内容:
  我想象中的大学男女应该是可以自由交往的,可是我发现在这儿我不敢这样,因为如果我有几天和某个男生多说几句话,就会有人问那个男生是不是和我谈上了。害我现在跟男生说话老担心这些,我是一个喜欢交朋友的女生,我觉得有时确实需要异性朋友帮忙。但我并不是想交男朋友,我以前在初高中就有好多异性朋友,我们相处的就很好。可是现在就不行。我不知道我该怎么办?
还有我今年的名义素质测评分很低,我不知道到底是什么原因?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗如果有人问你某个男生是不是和我谈上了,你就说:是。然后他自觉没趣,慢慢也就罢了。你越是解释,她们往往处于开玩笑的心理也就越你纠缠,你说对吗?   不用担心,你按照你的方式,继续一段时间后,大家就认可了。当然,偶尔开玩笑,无聊时以此打趣也可能,但我想都未必是认真的,你在想想?   你今年的名义素质测评分很低,你不知道到底是什么原因?我也就更无从知道了,只有靠你自己多想想了。

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2005年9月26日21:16:26

 第 1858 条留言  昵称:林蓝  主题:烦恼
 留言内容:
  老师,我最近一直为一些人际关系很烦恼,我的一个老乡暑假之前我们相处的一直都很好,可是我不知道因为一些什么事情,他最近老是给我脸色看,我已经忍受他好多次了。这次我实在是非常气愤,我跟他谈过,说:“如果我有什么做的让他看不惯,让他说出来,他也不说。”我以前一直把他当哥们,因为我觉得他很讲义气。所以我不想随随便便就放弃一个朋友,可我也不想这样老是低声下气的,好象我欠了他的似的。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗他给你脸色看,你跟他谈,他还不说,那你就没有必要那么在乎这份朋友之谊了,你说呢?其实,过一段后,他就会在乎了。你不妨试试。

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2005年9月26日21:06:03

 第 1857 条留言  昵称:林蓝  主题:问题
 留言内容:
  按我现在的情况,我毕业以后多半都是要从事老师这门职业的,可我现在想让自己能多个出路,我想学点其他的。我是比较喜欢装饰或者设计,可是我不知道该如何获取这些知识或者是我现在已经晚了,因为我的家庭条件并不是很好,我想靠我自己,可是我现在却找不到一分适合我的兼职工作。老师,您能帮帮我吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我的看法,学其他,不晚!!   到图书馆找相关的书籍,看、学就是,你说呢?刚开始是难懂些,看的多了,就好了。   至于兼职,可以找家教试试,参见第1848条留言和回复。   

    [回复]      222.31.10.* 留言者IP: 222.31.10.*    发表于:2005年9月26日20:54:11

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