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第 1924 条留言 昵称:孤独人 主题:我不懂得咋和同学交流 | |
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我的班级看来一点也不团结啊 我觉的和他们有隔阂 说起话来杂那么难受啊 老师我想上你的课啊 我时间到了 再见吧
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〖版主回复〗不用孤独!其实问题没有你想的那么严重。搞好人际关系的前提条件是要形成正确的认知,了解自己,了解他人。要相信多数人是比较善良的;世界上还是好人多,有了这样的意识,你就不觉得那么难受了。另外,人际交往还需要一定的技巧,学习一些有关的知识对你会有帮助的。愿你能感觉到集体的温暖,度过美好的四年大学生活! |
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第 1923 条留言 昵称:allen 主题:想和你谈心 | |
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我是个在生活中很容易形成习惯的人,由于英语成绩一直上不去,现在一拿起它,心里就有一种很沉重的感觉,考试时连自己都找不到了,实话说我并不讨厌它,可我控制不了自己,不知道该怎麽办!
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〖版主回复〗你好!看来你遇到了学习方法方面的问题。你可以和学习好的同学交流一下,分析查找问题的原因;也可以找英语老师请教一下学习英语要注意的关键是什么;还需要了解自己的实际。找到成绩上不去的主要原因是什么,就能够发现提高成绩的办法。希望你如愿,再见! |
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第 1922 条留言 昵称:萧十一郎 主题:关于学习与生活 | |
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总觉得自己处理不好人际关系与学习,不可否认自己学得挺好的,但常常因为与同学之间的关系紧张而影响学习甚至是生活。所以很多时候觉得学习挺没劲的。
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〖版主回复〗是原来总来这里的十一郎吗?很久没有来了!!忙学习吧? 看得出,你难于对付人际关系,我的观点,慢慢来吧:试着多与人沟通,试着多理解别人,试着真诚地帮助和鼓励别人,最好不要批评、指责和抱怨别人,如果别人不能理解你真诚的善意的话。 你说呢?其实,在我的回复里有我潜在的一些或许是批评你的东西在内,你反思?——我是真诚的,也是善意的。 再见 |
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第 1921 条留言 昵称:想潇洒的人 主题:困惑 | |
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已经大三了,马上就要毕业了,可依然不能坚定自己的去向,自己想工作,可家里人却坚持要升本,我想这也是很多学生现在要面临的问题,老师,给我及有同样困惑的人支一招吧。。。选择太难了,人为什么要面临这么多选择?
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〖版主回复〗既然家里有这个要求,那就升本好了,再怎么说,高走一步还是好的,你说呢? 或许你想工作,这是念了多年书的人的共同想法,但,你要清楚,以你现在的实力,就业能行吗?起点或者要做的事情以及回报能让你满意吗?等等,这些都要考虑到,毕竟,社会中的竞争是很现实的。 选择是太难了,但,做为人,是无法回避人生中的选择的,否则我们还能被称做是人吗? 你可以认真分析你现在就业的优势和不足,以确定是否准备就业,我不了解很多你的情况,不好多说什么。 但是从一般的意义上讲,有更高的学历自然会有更多的机会和好机会。对于年轻人来讲,工作早晚一两年,对于将来的成功,影响并不大,所以,我的总的结论,应升本,虽然我知道你不想升本。 再见 |
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第 1920 条留言 昵称:李木子 主题:考研 | |
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又一次来到这里,非常高兴老师门能够在百忙之中能够倾听我们的诉说,老师我本来是打算考研来着,因为我已经大三了。如果考的话,现在是必须准备的了,可是我最近得到消息好象现在国家取消了研究生公费的制度,对于家庭经济情况一般的我开始动摇了,我真的不想父母再为我操劳,毕竟他们已经年过半百,但是——————哎!!我真的不知道该怎么办才好啊!!请问您我说的那个消息可靠否??
急切想知道您的答复,谢谢!! |
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〖版主回复〗你好!你很理解父母的苦衷,说明你很懂事。关于取消公费上研究生的事情以前就听说过,但一直没有见到具体的文件。我觉得考研是主要的,只要考上了,就算是自己出学费肯定也会找到办法。如果因为听说这个不确切的消息而放弃了考研可能会成为你以后的遗憾的。丰富的知识会成为你一生发展的基础,希望你能成功! |
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第 1919 条留言 昵称:桢 主题:专升本 | |
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专升本能不能报考非本专业?
出题是学校出题还是国家出题? |
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〖版主回复〗请咨询2095210,希望有令你满意的答复,再见 |
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第 1918 条留言 昵称:温暖 主题:我的感叹! | |
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老师:
您的留言,我已经看到了,你的话很有道理,也很犀利。我是上次的大约在冬季,您说的很对:感情不是用来做交易的,付出了,难道是为了要回报吗?看了您给我的忠告,我心中的痛少多了,以前,总在自己心里抱怨:他的无情。现在我明白:他从一开始就把我摆在朋友的位置,难道不好吗?谢谢老师 |
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〖版主回复〗好的!只要我们的回复能平复你内心的痛楚,我们的工作就很有意义,不是吗? 好好享受学习的过程,才是眼下最重要的,你说呢? 再见 |
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第 1917 条留言 昵称:2路汽车 主题:重新来过 | |
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哦,对不起,由于我是初来乍到,刚才的留言不知怎么就成了那个加密的样子了,我完全没有加密的意思,希望斑竹能不能把它公布出来,谢谢!
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〖版主回复〗曾经,有很多无聊的广告充斥于此;有很多低下的言语堂皇地污染这片净土;有很多…… 所以,留言是加密的,需要我们甄别后才能为大家所见,希望谅解!! |
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第 1916 条留言 昵称:2路汽车 主题:算是打个招呼吧 | |
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算是来串串门吧,因为我早就知道有这么个交流的地方,我来自“百度”贴吧。虽然我迟迟才来这里,但我一直在关注各种言论。但我有点发现这上面老师们的回复有点儿像完成任务,对不起,我觉得没有这个必要,不是吗?大家就是来交流了嘛!
冒昧之处,尚乞老师见谅! |
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〖版主回复〗你好!谢谢你给我们提的建议。是的,这是一个交流的地方,我们可以说自己的心里话,我们以后一定认真地听,和你们真诚地交流。 |
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第 1915 条留言 昵称:飞雪 主题:感悟..... | |
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我不知道这世界上还有多少这样大学生,有多少这样的父母。可是我相信每个学校都会有。每天都看到太多光鲜的面孔在校园里穿行,游弋于教室酒吧、网吧、迪厅,他们夜夜笙歌,他们寻欢作乐,他们把大把大把的青春扔在电脑游戏里,扔在迪厅酒吧里,他们学着一切出身于富贵家庭的孩子那样挥霍,他们交女朋友借钱应付恋爱开销,拿着父母给的几千元学费却年年都有功课不及格,拿着父母挤出来的几百元生活费心安理得的花,以维持自己的面子,支撑自己的虚荣心。而身后,有两张包涵期待的脸,有两双望眼欲穿思念的眼神,有两个含辛茹苦的父母,日日夜夜想着盼着,然后辛苦劳作着,想着争气的儿子女儿,盼着他和她出人头地,起早贪黑的为那上万元甚至更多的学费生活费而日夜劳作。这些父母有的是在农村,一年到头面朝黄土背朝天,家徒四壁;或者父母都没有工作,半夜两点起来做些早点;或者在城市里摆点小摊,一分一里的与人争,还有忍受城管时不时的暴力执法。他们一年到头也不会买什么新衣服,他们一辈子也没有去过任何娱乐场所。
太多太多含辛茹苦的父母。而这些是我们在学校里看不出来的。每个年轻的面孔在人前都是神采飞扬,膨胀的虚荣心日日夜夜挣扎着甩掉身后的一切,遗忘了身后的那双眼和辛勤劳作的那双手。他们还没日没夜拼命掩饰这一切,怕同学知道自己的贫穷,怕同学鄙视自己的困窘,怕被人瞧不起,怕被人说寒酸,装有钱,装潇洒,装挥霍,装不比谁差。大学四年就在这种毫无意义的虚荣中磨掉了。 虚荣不是错,当虚荣成为堕落的借口时,它就成了万劫不复的深渊。 我们是怎么了?我们这一代大学生是怎么了?有谁,可以给我们一个答案。是什么逼着我们一次次走向死亡。自杀或者被杀。有谁,可以拯救我们,像很多年前的大学生那样,给我们一个信仰,给我们一个好好努力的理由,给我们一个热血。 |
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〖版主回复〗你好!看来你思考的很深刻,是啊,我们的父母是多么地艰辛苦。他们为了我们付出了多少是我们很难想象出来的,想一想他们我们就会增加一份学习的动力,就会少去一次网巴;少花一些不该花的钱;少一些无聊的痛苦。清醒一些,我们的责任会使我们努力学习的。希望你能努力提高自己,相信你会成功的! |
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