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 第 8646 条留言  昵称:乐乐  主题:love
 留言内容:
  老师,我现在研一,高中的时候暗恋过
一个男生,他是我的同桌,不过高中毕
业聚会时见到他,我对他的感觉全没
了,后来去了大学,用了qq,认识了一
个男生,感觉他的个性签名不错,就加
了他,因为刚用qq,所以好友也比较
少,慢慢地聊着,发现我们很投缘,对
很多的事情都有相同的理解,大三、四
考研准备的时候,我总是能想到他,可
能是那段时间的我比较孤单吧,因为室
友都在外地实习,我看到一些事情,总
是想第一时间与他分享,后来
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗回复见8686条留言的回复

    [回复]      120.236.154.* 留言者IP: 120.236.154.*    发表于:2015年1月15日20:38:21

 第 8645 条留言  昵称:痛苦中的人  主题:老师 救救我
 留言内容:
  老师 我需要淡定 经过怎么样的修炼我才能融入这个肮脏的社会。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗社会是有你所谓“肮脏”的一面.……但总体不是你所认为的那样,我以为。    所以,不要那么激进地理解社会,心态平和些,多读些书,首先让自己很阳光,好吗?

    [回复]      183.203.215.* 留言者IP: 183.203.215.*    发表于:2015年1月13日10:24:37

 第 8644 条留言  昵称:云淡风清  主题:如何接纳自己
 留言内容:
  不好意思啊老师,上一个留言数字有限没
有说完,再唠叨几句。
我恨自己怎么这么笨,我觉得很压抑,怎
么样才能让自己接纳自己?怎么样才能扬
眉吐气,让那些小人不敢轻视?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗强大自己! 或者,让他们觉得你人好!      别无良途!

  2625412678   [回复]      171.119.40.* 留言者IP: 171.119.40.*    发表于:2015年1月10日21:27:24

 第 8643 条留言  昵称:云淡风清  主题:该如何接纳自己
 留言内容:
  老师,从学院毕业已经几年时间了,自
我感觉过程是艰难的,所指艰难指的是
和社会的融合,具体讲就是和单位同事
之间的相处。现实中的人是相当势利
的,你有关系有后台他高看你一眼,你
默默无闻老老实实他会小看你甚至欺负
你,也会因为一些矛盾而公报私仇。这
几年我充分看到了人性的卑劣,心中充
满了愤怒和不满。由于自己的能力不
足,为人处世,行为举止可能存在种种
不足,所以被人小看轻视。有时觉得人
活得可真难啊。我也恨自己怎么会
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗自己还不强大的时候那就忍着呗?    让自己逐渐强大起来!当然,在这个过程中,需要发自内心的关心他人、力所能及地帮助别人、开朗坦诚地对待他人……我想,现在最需要做的也就是这些,你自己想想?

  2625412678   [回复]      171.119.40.* 留言者IP: 171.119.40.*    发表于:2015年1月10日21:23:54

 第 8642 条留言  昵称:困惑女孩  主题:相处
 留言内容:
  我们实验室总共六个人,研一、二、三
年级各2个人,我是研一的,只有我一个
女生,每次跟他们出去,总是一个人走
着,跟他们没活说,如果我们走路相隔
很远,他们会往后看下我,可是之后又
是各走各的,我想调和这种氛围,我也
努力过,努力找话跟他们讲,但还是收
效甚微,我不知道怎么与他们相处,在
我以前的生活中,与异性相处的机会就
很少,我家里的男性也比较少,也许是
这样,导致了我害怕与男生相处,但现
在我想改变,可要怎么做呢
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵.……原来原因你是知道的呀?没关系,既然如此,那就慢慢学着跟他们相处喽?不是一时半会就能完全解决的……    大方些、平时留意些他们所关注的兴趣点,以后就有话说了,你说呢?

    [回复]      120.236.154.* 留言者IP: 120.236.154.*    发表于:2015年1月9日21:01:18

 第 8641 条留言  昵称:。。  主题:如何应对这个社会
 留言内容:
  发现自己是一个自我保护意识极强的人,爱看
新闻,当看到一些负面的新闻时,总害怕这些
事也发生在自己身上,比如之前报道的什么重
庆女孩搭错车,亚航失联,今天又看新闻说去
年上海交通大学林森浩投毒案件二审判决维持
原判等等之类的事情,该如何预防这些事情发
生呢?人是一个很复杂的生物,以后到了社会
上该如何应对??有的人竟因一些生活琐事做
出伤害别人的事情、还敢不敢做飞机?如何妥
善处理和别人的关系?唉~
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗尽量逐渐地.有可靠人在身边地适应和学习很多情况.……尽量选择公开、正式、合法的渠道……等等吧    单人的时候一定要有足够的防范意识!    你说的太多,只能慢慢解决了,急不来的,你说呢?

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2015年1月8日12:32:36

 第 8640 条留言  昵称:迷惑  主题:事情处理
 留言内容:
  其实我也搞不清是什么问题,今天下午我在
做自己的实验,可后来我知道我们实验室下
午好像也做实验,我心里就很是矛盾,不知
道该办帮他们呢,还是做自己的,后来我爽
性不去想这些问题,还是好好做自己的吧,
可看到师兄他们一直在我身边走来走去,我
总觉得心里很难受,他们会不会认为我这个
人不懂得主动学习,比较别扭呢,唉,想到
这儿,我实在做不下去实验了,结果也因为
我的不专心,把材料搞坏了,我总是对一些
事情不知道怎么处理。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗太顾及周边人对你的评价.……    当时的状况,如果是我,会直接问他们是否需要帮忙,他们说需要,就放心你自己的去帮,如果不需要,就安心做好自己的,别犹豫不决、三心二意!

    [回复]      122.13.239.* 留言者IP: 122.13.239.*    发表于:2015年1月4日16:24:54

 第 8639 条留言  昵称:畏惧  主题:胆怯
 留言内容:
  我这个人很胆小,也怕别人说我不好,现在
我们老师不在,我主要跟着师兄做实验之类
的,我有一两次不去实验室,师兄就老是问
我干嘛去了,我也不懂得撒谎,但有时候真
的不想去,我在实验室觉得不自在,而且实
验室的电脑也不能用,真的很没意思,但是
我又不能和师兄这样讲,很困惑, 师兄要是
让我做的事我没做,心里总觉得亏欠他一
样,都不好意思见到他,我不知道怎么办。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗如果该去实验室那就必须去了.如果不该去就不用去了……    该去而不去,就得需要理由,你说呢?

    [回复]      122.13.241.* 留言者IP: 122.13.241.*    发表于:2015年1月2日18:53:55

 第 8638 条留言  昵称:小龙  主题:工作上的纠结
 留言内容:
  14年7月份从毕业后工作的第一家公司辞职,走的时候义无反顾,现在老领导知道我在新公司做的很不开心,邀请我再回去,该怎么抉择。半年不到时间了加1000,觉得领导很不错,可是,感觉就算回去了还是呆不长久。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗既然考虑到回去也干不长久.那就还是先不回去了吧?努力适应当下的这个单位,如何?    祝福!

    [回复]      183.63.22.* 留言者IP: 183.63.22.*    发表于:2015年1月2日15:15:36

 第 8637 条留言  昵称:木头黑炭  主题:123
 留言内容:
  毕业的师姐飘过,过来看看,祝福一切都好
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗哈哈.希望以后常来飘飘过着……     有啥想说的就说说,呵呵……拜!新年好!!

    [回复]      60.223.153.* 留言者IP: 60.223.153.*    发表于:2014年12月31日11:30:34

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