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 第 8622 条留言  昵称:156  主题:呵呵
 留言内容:
  我是一个比较内向的女孩,现在大二,准备考研,我发觉我和自己总是过不去,脾气特别的暴躁,不能遇到一丁点的磕磕绊绊。比如做题不会做就特别的生气。但是在别人看来,我的脾气特别好。老师,我该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗通过你的倾诉,我觉得你很善于把自己的不快和烦恼隐藏起来,让别人感觉你脾气特别好。适度压抑自己的情绪会让人觉得你有涵养,脾气好,但过于压抑自己对身体不好。有时也可以在适当的场合、以适当的方式发泄,比如自言自语、写日记等方式。对学习、生活中的挫折、困难你也要坦然面对,想办法直面挫折、克服困难。没有谁会轻轻松松成功的。祝你愉快。

    [回复]      100.100.2.* 留言者IP: 100.100.2.*    发表于:2014年12月11日15:14:25

 第 8621 条留言  昵称:147258  主题:麻烦
 留言内容:
  每天都不高兴,无法控制自己的情绪,快疯
呀。我想考研,但是每天无心学习,把时间浪
费在情绪上,我自认为是因为搞对象的原因。
老师,帮帮我,该怎么办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗如何处理好学习与谈恋爱的关系,确实是大学生要面临的一个难题。处理得好,两个人学习上互相帮助,毕业时学业爱情双丰收,令人羡慕。处理不好,可能就会影响自己的情绪,进而影响学习。我的建议是如果你们有缘,那就继续发展;如果整天吵吵闹闹,心情不好,影响学习,那就应该以学业为重,远离儿女情长。愿你学习进步,心情愉快。

    [回复]      58.241.44.* 留言者IP: 58.241.44.*    发表于:2014年12月10日18:29:29

 第 8620 条留言  昵称:烦烦烦  主题:88888
 留言内容:
  老师 什么是成熟?? 在生活中我们该如何存在???? 在职场上我们又该如何存在??? 说话真的是一门艺术。 如何就让自己把情绪 心情隐藏起来??? 。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。有时候 真的很难很难
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗看来你最近和他人相处出了点问题。某种意义上讲,成熟就是说话注意分寸,有时心里不痛快还不能表现出来,有时心里狂喜还要装出很淡定的样子。当然前提是我们对人要真诚,这与成熟并不矛盾。这些东西需要在生活中好好摸索。建议你多看书,多与父母、老师、朋友交流,多思考。希望你慢慢成熟起来。

    [回复]      183.203.215.* 留言者IP: 183.203.215.*    发表于:2014年12月10日11:34:01

 第 8619 条留言  昵称:木子李  主题:困惑
 留言内容:
  老师,应该怎么看待别人借钱不还,又不好意
思要?!还有别人把你很有意义的东西整丢
了,说的到挺好的,说给再买个,可是只是说
说,说完啥都没干,好苦恼!!!
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你的同学借钱不还,你又不好意思要,我的建议是若钱数少就算了,以后别再借钱给他;若钱数大,不妨直接向他要,也可以方式委婉些,比如说你最近手头紧啦等等的。   至于把你心爱的东西弄坏弄丢了之类,而且只是嘴上说说却不赔,我的建议是:如果这个心爱的东西你再拥有很困难,那就必须敞开心扉跟对方谈,要求对方赔——不要太建议失去这样的朋友同学,因为这样的人暂时还不配做好同学好朋友吧!如果对你而言还不是多难,那我就只好建议你尽量心胸开阔些,以后注意看好自己的东西,对于这样的人,一定不要再给对方弄坏弄丢的机会就是了。    你说的不是很具体,我也只能这样建议你了……祝你心情愉快!!

    [回复]      60.222.25.* 留言者IP: 60.222.25.*    发表于:2014年12月10日6:52:32

 第 8618 条留言  昵称:李晓斌  主题:&
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 留言内容:
  我大二了,我和我对象都准备考研,我想好好
学习,付出再多努力也可以。为了自己的梦
想,也为了我俩的将来,我都得努力,可是她
总是有好多事,好多借口,不努力学习,经常
不高兴,搞的我也整天跟着麻烦,我该怎么
办?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗在大学里找一个和你谈得来又愿意一块考研的女朋友不容易。有时谈恋爱与学习就是一对矛盾。你如果真想好好学习,还是把儿女情长暂时放在一边。供你参考。祝你考研成功。

  1149397743   [回复]      111.63.38.* 留言者IP: 111.63.38.*    发表于:2014年12月9日21:25:34

 第 8617 条留言  昵称:大一  主题:成长的烦恼
 留言内容:
  我原来的成绩好,高中念的市里的重点中学,
但是高考时没有发挥好来到运城学院,我的梦
想没有实现,每每想起都泪流满面。但我知道
要接受现实重新开始可是我的状态让我对自己
很不满意,我说话声音不高,感觉也没精神
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你要勇于面对现实。来到运城学院委屈你了的想法开始可以有,但如果长期纠结于此对你一点好处没有。英雄不问出处。运城学院的毕业生也有非常出类拔萃的。阿里巴巴的马云也毕业于普通二本院校,大学毕业找工作也是非常不顺利,但最后他赢得了人生的辉煌。人生不如意事十之八九,希望你能早日迈过这个坎。

    [回复]      124.163.233.* 留言者IP: 124.163.233.*    发表于:2014年12月9日11:55:09

 第 8616 条留言  昵称:qt  主题:老师我真的需要你的帮助
 留言内容:
  我自从今年国庆来了之后就开始各种失眠
一趟在床上就心跳厉害睡不着怎么都睡不着,
昨晚十点多上的床,三点多才睡六点多起再也
睡不着。我真的太难受了。但是一回到家就各
种睡得香,我需要你的开导,我自己跨不过去
这个心理作用,什么也没想。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗不知你是几年级的学生。我认为你睡不着还是因为思想压力大。我的建议是:积极参加集体活动,搞好人际关系。下午或傍晚时分约一两个好同学在操场快走或慢跑,运动一个小时左右,运动累了自然就能睡着了。当然运动要循序渐进,供你参考。    若有必要,可以在教学四区三楼心理咨询室联系咨询,好不?

  429426806   [回复]      124.163.233.* 留言者IP: 124.163.233.*    发表于:2014年12月8日23:15:00

 第 8615 条留言  昵称:积极的一份子  主题:开学日期
 留言内容:
  老师您好,我想一下您咱们下学期大约什
么时候开学,物理系,大二。大约的时间
就可以了,谢谢老师
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗咱们下学期大约什 么时候开学,物理系,大二。大约的时间 今年情况是,普遍性的寒假长……    但具体多长,我也说不准,但咱们学校平时实行六天工作制,所以会比一般高校再长十天多吧,我大概的估计:一月十五号左右放假(考试安排早的话可能还会提前),到三月十号左右开学吧    你考虑的够长远的,嗯,对!应该如此,人无远虑必有近忧的,呵呵

    [回复]      123.151.42.* 留言者IP: 123.151.42.*    发表于:2014年12月7日15:46:54

 第 8614 条留言  昵称:小双卉  主题:成长的烦恼
 留言内容:
  是张老师吗,现在我有点迷茫,都说大学的学习很简单,可是大二的我不觉得。我是中文系的期末了13511今年背的特别的多,就要考试了,一周之内我觉得自己根本背不下来,我也知道大家会有很多人去做小抄的 ,我不想这么做可是真的不想挂。不光有13511,文秘的我们速录天天去也练不好,这几天更是抢位置抢疯了。这学期觉得特别的累,虽然没有了早晚自习可是每天都很忙的样子,课程很多,我不知道该怎么办了,觉得压力好大。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗首先赞一个!!——因为你对考试的诚信!!    然后,我觉得啊,不是离考试还有一段时间吗?不止一周的呀?还有就是,可以集中全部精力拿下!尽管会累点,但充实提高就是这样的,你说呢?    我记得我大学时期往往不是为了考试而学习,但在考试前一段时间,我会很刻苦用功地专门应对考试,甚至通宵达旦地学习,最终也都顺利过关了呢!!    你,不妨试试?   我觉得,只要你努力了,一定可以顺利过关的!真诚祝福你!!

  1781300434   [回复]      124.163.233.* 留言者IP: 124.163.233.*    发表于:2014年12月5日23:33:28

 第 8613 条留言  昵称:hehe  主题:感情
 留言内容:
  张老师,我最近谈了一个男朋友,好了有两个星期吧,感觉自己已经爱上他了,但是昨天他跟我说他以前结过一次婚,不过没有孩子,我家里也打听到说他人品不好,不让我跟他来往,可是我觉得自己做不到放手,觉得他非常了解我,在他面前我就是透明的,我喜欢他的成熟,他很早就不上学了,什么都干过,人非常利索,家里也怕我跟了他吃亏,毕竟我刚毕业还很单纯,我该怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗我觉得,还是交给时间吧,毕竟,他是有比较丰富的经验的,很会跟单纯的女孩子相处!其实就是,人品极端重要!!!     所以,不要短时间就对人下判断,同时多跟异性朋友处处,过一段时间再说,还不得三五个月后下结论?   不好意思啊,回复迟了,嘿嘿

    [回复]      171.120.204.* 留言者IP: 171.120.204.*    发表于:2014年12月5日20:49:19

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