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 第 8610 条留言  昵称:向日葵  主题:困惑
 留言内容:
  老师你好,我怎么感觉自己不管干啥都放不
开?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗看来你对自己目前的状况很不满意。作为过来人,老师认为你太悲观了。大学期间,好多同学都有过或短或长的迷茫,这很正常。放不开说明你经常患得患失。建议你在大学生活中抓住重点,比如在学习上多下功夫。英语四六级考试和计算机专业等级考试必须通过,就业时用人单位很重视这些证书。学生会等社团活动在学有余力的情况下也可以参加。放不开某种意义上也是好事,说明你为人处世很慎重,这可比那些做事不计后果的人要强得多。相信你在大学生活磨练中会越来越成熟,也就逐渐放得开了。

    [回复]      183.190.87.* 留言者IP: 183.190.87.*    发表于:2014年12月3日22:17:08

 第 8609 条留言  昵称:一叶知秋  主题:
 留言内容:
  毕业一年多了,在工作上平时说话不注意,很多时间一句话就把领导惹了,自己也很烦恼,不知道该怎么办了,觉得自己天生就不讨领导喜欢,巴结之类的事情更是没想过,唉,怎么办呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗感谢你对心灵交流的关注与信任。年轻人刚刚踏入社会,在如何与领导相处问题上难免有困惑。不妨从以下几方面留意:一、不要太在意已经过去的事。可能领导已经把你认为很严重的事忘了。二、以后养成说话之前先在头脑过一遍,哪些话该说,哪些话不该说。三、尽快提高自己的工作能力,领导都喜欢能干的员工。四、试着观察周围同事、朋友怎么与人相处,与领导打交道。但愿你在生活磨练中越来越成熟,不断取得事业的成功。

    [回复]      118.78.104.* 留言者IP: 118.78.104.*    发表于:2014年12月3日12:14:11

 第 8608 条留言  昵称:大一的小娃娃  主题:今天的我 真的好郁闷
 留言内容:
  这样的事该怎么发泄 是发条说说 让人们问我
怎么了 还是让人家看见 说明明就是你自己过
来撞的 怨谁啊 我可以说 我真的冤啊 我是
欠了你多少 这样惩罚我 没办法 谁让我自己
贱呢 去人家什么篮球队 真是抽风啊 抽风
我可以的 我扛得住 可以的 虽然想现在想哭
死过去 明天又是新的一天 又有什么破事等着我
我到底怎么了 明明自己有很多的激情面对每一天
好好建造我的人
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,“娃娃”,感觉你好像被人误解了,冤气很大啊!连发三遍不知是新手手误还是着意通过此途径来宣泄情绪呢?其实消除误解的最好途径是真诚和时间。真诚地向对方解释你当时的行为和心理,如果还不被理解和原谅,那么就用时间来沉淀出真实的你吧。期间所有的磨砺都是你从新生到老生、到成熟的社会人所必须经历的,一切都只为破茧成蝶的那一刻!不要因为一次偶然的意外就对大学期间能够锻炼你的社团活动产生看法,请坚持!希望明天有新的太阳新的你!

    [回复]      124.163.233.* 留言者IP: 124.163.233.*    发表于:2014年11月19日23:11:57

 第 8607 条留言  昵称:无名  主题:
 留言内容:
  老师您好!快毕业了,家里人对我的工作和个
人情感都催的比较紧,可是现在我除了拼事业
感兴趣以外,我对谈对象的事是提不起一点儿
兴趣,也不是没谈过,只是我觉得谈对象没意
思,我觉得一个男人,是不能被情感左右的,
我是不是心理有毛病呀?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗为你的男儿志向鼓掌!意欲拼搏的勇气和成就事业的机遇都会稍纵即逝的,希望你能正确把握。个人情感方面,这是一种缘分,缘分不到的时候莫强求,如它在你全力拼搏时到来也不要拒绝,爱情会是你前进的另外一种强动力!在大学毕业在即,家长关注你的情感和工作是对你的关心,也是正常的,请把你的想法认真的和家长沟通,取得他们的理解。最后愿你乘云沐彩霞,不负此年华!

    [回复]      123.151.42.* 留言者IP: 123.151.42.*    发表于:2014年11月19日11:01:17

 第 8606 条留言  昵称:  主题:如何选择
 留言内容:
  老师,我不喜欢每天吃喝玩乐,但是我却天天如此,我感觉自己都要爆炸了。我想去学习,却又想着得跟朋友一起去做别的事,不重要,但我担心我的选择会影响到我们的关系,我很苦恼,不喜欢这样每天奢靡的生活,您觉得我怎么做好?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,娟同学,给我的感觉是你的自主被“朋友关系”绑架了!真正的朋友不是如影相随的连体人般的陪友,况且现代社会里每个人都需要自己相对独立的私人空间。吃喝玩乐时的陪友是朋友,难道低头做事时的志同道合者就不是朋友了吗?请尊重自己内心的选择!

    [回复]      100.100.2.* 留言者IP: 100.100.2.*    发表于:2014年11月18日10:31:00

 第 8605 条留言  昵称:张峰彬  主题:帮帮我
 留言内容:
  请问,思政部侯平安老师的联系方式您有吗
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,你好,鉴于这里是公众平台,不便告诉你私人号码。如有事情需要联系候老师本人,请咨询思政部8594402.

    [回复]      183.190.66.* 留言者IP: 183.190.66.*    发表于:2014年11月18日8:18:05

 第 8604 条留言  昵称:茄子  主题:困惑
 留言内容:
  每天都觉得是没意义的度过~哈,,,
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗给自己放上一天假,然后仔细想想现阶段什么对自己来说比较有意义,然后静下心来去全力以赴地去做,此所谓谋定而后动。我以为,大学校园里最有意义的莫过于读书了!进入社会,书虽有千万,只怕你却再没读书的心境了,你说呢?

    [回复]      123.138.185.* 留言者IP: 123.138.185.*    发表于:2014年11月17日15:36:15

 第 8603 条留言  昵称:青春  主题:恋爱
 留言内容:
  同性恋正常吗?发现自己不喜欢异性了?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗由于一些意外的技术原因回复迟了,说声道歉啊!同性恋在现实社会中确实是存在的,各国对其态度也有差别。具体到个人,我觉得你现在正处于青春期,可能性取向还没有明确,不要太过担心哦!或许也有不太会与异性相处等原因在内,所以建议你要学会正常的人际交往,包括与异性之间的交往。给自己的心一个从容的选择,好吗?

    [回复]      100.100.8.* 留言者IP: 100.100.8.*    发表于:2014年11月15日16:20:45

 第 8602 条留言  昵称:加油  主题:考研
 留言内容:
  前几天现场确认,和班上几个人一起如的,我
刚开始不知道最后要交一张信息表后来同学提
醒我记得我交了可是下来之后我一直纠结于我
到底交没交,然后我又问了和我一起去的几个
人,他们都说交了,可是我还是害怕没交,我
想我这么努力学习如果因为这个不行了那个不
努力学习的人又有什么区别。我这两天老在纠
结这件事,现在马上快考试了,我该怎么想这
个问题,如何调整到最佳状态呢?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵,看来你是考前过于紧张了。既然多位同学都已经为你做证交过了你就没必要再在这个问题上纠结了,况且网上报名时个人信息应该是全面的,你所报考院校能够全面获知你的信息。剩下你要做的就是要静下心来接着好好复习做好考前冲刺了。如果现在不能安心复习备考,那就等于前功尽弃了。脚踏实地继续前行吧,期待你的好消息!

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2014年11月14日11:25:15

 第 8601 条留言  昵称:纠结  主题:纠结
 留言内容:
  如果一直害怕自己做不好怎么办
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗害怕自己做不好的根本原因在于你不自信,所以你要通过多读书多实践积累各方面能力从而逐步培养自己的自信。自信也不是盲目的自信,对自己能力范围内的事,要做,就一定尽最大努力做好,这样,能更好增加自己的自信;对于自己不擅长的事情别人能做就放给别人做,省时省力也不打击自信心,同时这样也符合社会分工的基本原理!你说呢,试试看吧,祝明天的你更自信,更阳光!

    [回复]      10.10.68.* 留言者IP: 10.10.68.*    发表于:2014年11月14日11:19:33

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