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 第 8466 条留言  昵称:悠悠飞舞  主题:人际交往
 留言内容:
  从小到大,我一直觉得自己融入不到集体中,和宿舍的同学交往的过程中,虽然表面上看起来很和气,可是还是能感觉到疏离,宿舍每个人都有自己的小团体,只有我是一个人,我想可能是我不够关心她们,没有为她们做些什么吧,可是我确实不知道应该做什么。平时很多同学在一起聊天的时候,我都很想和她们一起,可是每次我都插不上嘴,我不知道自己要说什么,有时候好不容易说上一句也会被大家一笑带过,让我有一种挫败感。在同班同学中也是这样,每次班里开班会或者是团日活动的时候,我都很想上讲台发言,可是就是不敢,有一次迫不得已上去了,手一直在发抖,而且语无伦次,下来以后都不知道自己说的啥。在男女交往中,我也不知道自己怎么回事,我好像对所有的男生都感兴趣,又好像对所有的男生都没兴趣,我都觉得我是不是失去爱别人的能力了。希望老师不要给我讲理论,而是可以提供给我一些具体的方法,我可以具体实施的方法。谢谢老师。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!理解你的苦衷。首先,你不想听理论,理论是一种思想观念,没有理论怎么指导实践?你之所以有这样的困惑,其中有个原因是你不了解人际交往的实质,意义等。 再说你期待的方法:一是首先站在对方的角度想想,他们希望听什么样的话语。其次,真诚地对身边的人表达关爱;再次,不一定像你想的那样,每个人都有自己的小团体。 每个人有自己的追求和目标,你也不例外,做好自己的事情就得占大量的时间和精力,干嘛要在乎自己有没有小团体呢。 设身处地地站在对方的角度感受,就知道自己该怎么做了,慢慢来吧,会好起来的!

  827064495   [回复]      100.100.5.* 留言者IP: 100.100.5.*    发表于:2014年3月25日11:40:20

 第 8465 条留言  昵称:巧克力  主题:伤心
 留言内容:
  老师,男朋友突然说他很烦,原因是替我操心太多,我的大事小事他都替我考虑,虽然就是事实但是这让我很郁闷,很失落。原本以为找到了依靠,就可以什么都对他说,他是不是腻了?我觉得爱一个人不会出现这样的情况啊,唉
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!想过爱是什么吗?爱不是依靠,如果什么事情都让他替你操心的话,他迟早会离开的。 你的独立性哪里去了? 你什么事情都依靠他的话,他还会发展自己吗? 爱不是依靠,爱是尊重、理解、分享,关心、爱护的、奉献等。只有正确理解爱的含义才能与对方和睦相处。 你不能给与对方什么的时候至少不能成为他的负担和拖累,他有他的事情,你有你的事情,应该像两棵树,而不是没有自我地依靠。咱们女性应该培养自己的独立意识,因为,你不可能借别人的翅膀飞上自己的天空。 推荐一本书看看《爱的艺术》,你会有启发的!

    [回复]      100.100.9.* 留言者IP: 100.100.9.*    发表于:2014年3月21日9:49:24

 第 8464 条留言  昵称:萤火虫  主题:发现了新天地
 留言内容:
  才发现学院的新天地,但回复得太慢了,希望版主快点,
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!谢谢提醒!

    [回复]      113.200.154.* 留言者IP: 113.200.154.*    发表于:2014年3月20日17:35:31

 第 8463 条留言  昵称:萤火虫  主题:刮客了
 留言内容:
  老师,我想问一下双选会是不是挂过科的就
不要了啊
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!没有这样的规定!

    [回复]      117.136.4.* 留言者IP: 117.136.4.*    发表于:2014年3月20日1:40:59

 第 8462 条留言  昵称:糊涂  主题:生活
 留言内容:
  老师,我大三了感觉有点迷茫决定考研可是又怕坚持不了感情方面也受到伤害突然感觉活着好累活的心烦有时觉得其实死了就一了白了了
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!至于吗?人生哪能不会遇到一些麻烦和挫折,人有会思考的大脑,我们的智慧足以解决这些麻烦的,相信自己。 感情的事情是没有逻辑的,尊重自己,尊重对方即可。 学业吗,上课认真听,下课认真学就会有收获的。 生活其实不复杂,祝开心!

  137140572   [回复]      111.161.9.* 留言者IP: 111.161.9.*    发表于:2014年3月19日21:08:54

 第 8461 条留言  昵称:老祖  主题:自信
 留言内容:
  张老师,我左青龙右白虎,老牛在腰间,龙头在胸口,神挡杀神,人挡杀人
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗呵呵.……

    [回复]      118.78.188.* 留言者IP: 118.78.188.*    发表于:2014年3月18日21:31:18

 第 8460 条留言  昵称:123  主题:信任
 留言内容:
  老师,最近我发现我这个人不但不自信,而且很多时候也不信任别人,甚至有时候不太相信自己的父母。一有这种想法,自己都吓着了,我怎么会是这样。
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!任何一种感觉往往与某件事情的发生有联系,好好想想是什么让你感到了不自信。 不自信的人往往也不太相信他人,这个状况是可以改变的。 想想不相信别人什么?其实,好多事情不像我们自己想的那样,多理性地思考一下,感觉就会改变的!

    [回复]      100.100.11.* 留言者IP: 100.100.11.*    发表于:2014年3月18日15:07:24

 第 8459 条留言  昵称:卑落  主题:该写个什么样的标题呢
 留言内容:
  老师,你觉得心理学的前景怎么样?你是不是
也是学心理学啊?这样每天开解别人听了太多
的烦恼,难道不枯燥吗?老师,我有选择困难
症。快要抑郁了。而且还有很严重的拖延症
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗其实.不论是什么样的学科,其前景关键在于自己努力的程度,当然从一般意义上理解,心理学的前景还是很不错的……    我是学哲学的,呵呵……   选择确实是艰难的,谁都是!至于拖延症,哈哈,我觉得是你给自己的借口,确定目标和每天的、一定阶段的详细计划,按照计划执行,如何?

    [回复]      111.161.9.* 留言者IP: 111.161.9.*    发表于:2014年3月18日14:47:59

 第 8458 条留言  昵称:卑落  主题:该写个什么样的标题呢
 留言内容:
  老师,你觉得心理学的前景怎么样?你是不是
也是学心理学啊?这样每天开解别人听了太多
的烦恼,难道不枯燥吗?老师,我有选择困难
症。快要抑郁了。而且还有很严重的拖延症
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!我不是心理学专业毕业的,但由于工作需要,拿到了国家二级心理学咨询证书,通过这个过程,我学得了不少知识,我的体验是自助,助他。 为大家解疑答惑是我们的责任,大家的问题让我们思考,分析,研究,这个过程也是提高我们能力的过程! 学到的知识总是有用的,你说呢!

    [回复]      111.161.9.* 留言者IP: 111.161.9.*    发表于:2014年3月18日14:47:44

 第 8457 条留言  昵称:当当当  主题:职业测评
 留言内容:
  大学生职业测评的网址,老师能告我一下
吗?
  写信给我

〖版主回复〗你好!你可以用百度搜索,也可以问咱们学院招就处办公室的老师,在系办公室就可以看到招就处的电话。祝好运!

    [回复]      183.190.49.* 留言者IP: 183.190.49.*    发表于:2014年3月16日13:55:05

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